i am interested in finding a nice bbc to be with. problem is most may not want to put up with me. because i dont want to just have you show up and get right down to business. i would like to hang out have some fun and see if you are cool before i just drop down on it for you. pls if you are willing to spend a bit of time take it somewhat slow i would appreciate it. and by no means do i expext full on relationships but at least some patients with me.