You know your husband better than us. You should consider the rest of your family. It’s one thing for a couple to participate in consensual cuckolding or open relationships. Very risky to just be having affairs.I am thinking of confessing to my husband about my cheating on him with black men. However as we have three children I am not sure if it is a good idea. I am hoping however that maybe, just maybe, white men are more forgiving if the male is black, as opposed to same ethnicity.