Are we here for reality or fantasy?
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I'm guessing some people on this site are getting real time hookups. And many, me included, are more into the fantasy of it. Fantasy is easier. Don't have to leave the house. A lot safer than real time hookups, where something might go wrong. But then, there's nothing like the real thing. Tasting real dick. Holding on for dear life as he has his way.
100% reality for me and I have to pinch myself many times because where it has evolved to for my wife and me is unbelievable and it it’s all true! She loves it, me loving it makes her love it and want to do it more…..it’s out of this world and has enhanced our marriage and I’ve watched several of her friends take their first BbC all from my wife’s encouragement when she sees a sliver of possibility they may be willing to try.
I'm hoping to make the fantasy reality.
you
are afraid of the dick huh?
Both. There is no reality without first having fantasy....think about it. Sex is a cerebral game, its all in the mind and the mind is the origin of all sex. It then becomes a reality, for some, only after the thought has occurred. A very deep and complex topic if you ask me!
HWJ
HWJ
I'd say abit of both.. here for the fantasy but want to eventually make it a reality
I am going to say this... Some people are here for the real thing... The people out here for the fantasy is messing the entire site up. They just want to talk and pretend like this is what they want. Knowing darn well it will never happen. Those people are wasting real people's times. They are making real people want to stop talking to people unless they verify their intentions and talk on the phone or video chat from the start. It has come to that because of people wanting to live out a fantasy.. It has even got so bad that the man is pretending to be the woman just to live out the fantasy.... Which is F'ed up!
Personally I would love to try out, in real life, some fantasies of mine but it is not just about me. Such fantasies would involve my wife and I have to deal with her tastes and desires, which don't match with mines in every single detail
So I am here just to talk, share thoughts and get advices, not pretending to be anyone else but me.
I am trying to get my wife a little more into my fantasy, time after time.
So I am here just to talk, share thoughts and get advices, not pretending to be anyone else but me.
I am trying to get my wife a little more into my fantasy, time after time.
Yeah. I started, a few time ago, to tell her about my desires. Of course I can't tell her everything in a rush and I have to take into account that she doesn't like some details I actually like.
We will have to get to compromise, as it has to be. It will take time.
For me it's about reliving the past. We are no longer in the lifestyle. Due to health issues, nothing to do with the lifestyle. Actually when we started there wasn't the term "lifestyle" it was just swinging. Many changes but it's all just good memories.
We're here for some of both. We've made real meetings and look forward to meeting others.
very well said. Right now I am in fantasy stage of being with you. Its all in my mind at the moment.Both. There is no reality without first having fantasy....think about it. Sex is a cerebral game, its all in the mind and the mind is the origin of all sex. It then becomes a reality, for some, only after the thought has occurred. A very deep and complex topic if you ask me!
HWJ
I wish you were in Atlanta... I would be your man to be over there often... I have my own house... Smiles
I'm here for the real thing. I already went black.
I am still a wannabe but the small baby steps towards Nancy having a lover can be very erotic Her flirting, a very casual touching of someone else and them touching her back, a hug she gives or receives is always welcomed. One of my favorites is when a male food server pays great attention to her while ignoring me as it’s only the three of us. The server knows we are together but pays no attention to me. Love that! I remain hopeful one day I am no longer a wannabe but until then I enjoy the journey.
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