Are there any white wives who were the first to raise the topic of having a BBC?

[billy2019]

I brought it up in a way. When I was in the Navy, before I met my now white hubby, I had sex with quite a few black guys. I'd even lost my virginity to an older black guy in high school. So when we'd be in bed and having that talk about who we'd been with in the past I told him about some of them. He was fascinated and really turned on hearing about it. He'd ask me if they were hung and made me cum and I'd admit yes and yes. He then asked me if I still thought about it as he knew at the time I was working in a doctor's office with a black doctor who saw lots of black clients. I admit I did and that it was still a bit of a fantasy to fuck black cock. Luckily he didn't have a problem with it and has been my biggest fan and supporter ever since.

i think he unconsciously knew this about You in advance, and that's why he was turned on by You in the first place. (just a guess.)

 

[chrisandsteph]

I did. Hey been kinda shocked and fanscinated at the same moment

 

[Matureblonde]

Wife and I were work friends that had been casually dating for 6 months. When she told me her bull/lover had come back into the picture and they already had sex several times. I though our thing had ended, though it was fun while it lasted and tried to walk away. We got back together after a couple false starts. The anger and hurt feelings started happening the longer we dated

So it wasn't a good thing for you, right?

 

[KeikoandSarge]

Seems like it's usually the husband who raises the topic. Are there any couples where the wife did this? If so, how did your husband react? Shock, anger, hurt??? I'd love to know because I can't imagining even suggesting it to mine.

Perhaps ask him what his deepest darkest fantasy is, that you really want to know everything about him including what he might be too emberassing to tell you. This could lead into not only an opportunity to express to him your desire but could also bring you both closer together.

 

[Kuno]

I did, but the marriage didn't last very long after that.....

Now, are all of those likes because of you bringing it up or the marriage not lasting?

 

[diegof311972]

Seems like it's usually the husband who raises the topic. Are there any couples where the wife did this? If so, how did your husband react? Shock, anger, hurt??? I'd love to know because I can't imagining even suggesting it to mine.

In my case, it was me who asked her to do it, actually, she made me beg for it, but it was her who brought me into that situation, by telling me how black men were much better lovers. I started to ask her questions and she was so explicit at it that after a couple of months she had me begging her to fuck black guys.

 

[wifepleaserBob]

My wife and I fell into it together. Some of the encounters we had early on were couple lifestyle parties. After a while it becomes boring white husband sex for her. At a party a girlfriend of ours brought 3 BBC guys. All single and My lovely hotwife hit it off with one. She had some real hotsex for a basic party and we decided to invite him over for some wine and "Desert"so that we could get to know him better,We did and she no longer wants boring white husband sex. I also was not excited to be with some of the wives as I had the best of the bunch in my home. Started a mfm 3 sum briefly and now we have a hotwife,Black Dom, and cuck husband. He saw that in me and now I embrace it. She loves the way he takes her. I would love to take credit for the decision but it was her lust that drove us.

 

[Bmanss2121]

If my wife ever brought interracial up I would act cool but I'd be going insane on the inside haha

 

[QoSandCuck]

I introduced it gradually, testing the waters.

Once he saw how much I enjoy a black man’s touch he began accepting, then submitting, and now he has surrendered to it. He enjoys it as much as I do.

 

[nosexcuck]

Wife brought the idea of doing BBCs first. She had a Hotwife account on a Swingers site. Played with white guys at first who were mostly Bozos. Then decided to try doing Black guys who turned out being much better sexually, and have been more reliable.

 

[Bigfunfun]

Seems like it's usually the husband who raises the topic. Are there any couples where the wife did this? If so, how did your husband react? Shock, anger, hurt??? I'd love to know because I can't imagining even suggesting it to mine.

My wife always told me black guys were hot, just took some IR porn to her her to start playing.

 

[Brian1965]

My much younger Filipina wife loves to dance, and that’s simply not my thing. She started going out to dance clubs with her female friends with my okay. Then, she met a half-black young man who was an excellent dancer, and introduced us. A real nice guy. At first, I gave my blessing for her to go out dancing with the guy, and that’s as far as it went for a couple of months.

After awhile, my wife admitted that she was attracted to her young dancer, but assured me she would never betray me. I simply told her that as long as we had no secrets, I wouldn’t object to her “sowing her wild oats” with him. My wife started bringing him home and spending the night with him in our guest room. To make a long story short, he’s my wife’s boyfriend and primary lover, and has lived with us for over two years. Everything is great for all involved.

 

[Anodiser]

I raised it with my best mate and now we both play. X

 

[Sublimetime]

I'm with you on all those points. It does seem to usually be the man's idea to start. I don't understand why any man would want to watch his wife being fucked senseless by another man (especially one who is better endowed), but it definitely would make things easier.

Fuck the lifestyle. Just fuck the guy or guys you want. I don’t get it at all. I would never want to see my woman get fucked by another man. I know for sure if my woman asked me I be out before see could finish the question. Lol.

 

[Jodaddyitsaboy]

Yes, with one young black man last summer.

Summer isn’t over... you could have one this summer too!

 

[JustRFantasy]

It was mutual for us

 

[hungteacher]

I did, but the marriage didn't last very long after that.....

sorry to hear that

 

[hungteacher]

That is my fear!

I think its important to establish good communication and boundaries.

 

[hungteacher]

I was the first one to bring up the subject of her with other men, but it was with white men. Several years and 4-5 men later, SHE started to 'wonder' about black men. Only a week or so later she got her first one. She later said that she had been thinking about it a long time before she finally got the courage to bring it up.

this is a perfect success story. Good communication and clear boundary lines.

 

[hungteacher]

Wife brought the idea of doing BBCs first. She had a Hotwife account on a Swingers site. Played with white guys at first who were mostly Bozos. Then decided to try doing Black guys who turned out being much better sexually, and have been more reliable.

I do have to agree with this. Most of my BBC friends are more reliable. If I meet a wife and she wants 2 guys, I can count on my BBC friends to share her, way more than my BWC friends.