I'm definitely the dominant one in our relationship. My cuck is the stay at home dad, cleans, cooks, school drop offs, ******* lunches etc. I earn a lot more than he does and so generally I say how the money is spent, where we holiday, how we live etc. He is more than happy with the arrangement we've had for over 10 years. From the money he earns I give him an allowance to spend for himself, the rest i keep in a seperate bank account.
This is how we are in the bedroom as well. I say what sex we have (including him masturbating), when we have it and when we meet up with others.
So I am very dominant with him, but with our friend as much as he likes seeing me like that, as the take charge type woman, he does 'out alpha' me in the end every time. I do like in the end submitting/ surrendering to him even if its only for the final 15 minutes. Its a power play for us, but he does take it up a level and gets more animalistic and I end up just melting around him at that point.