Are cucks really just gay men in an elaborate "closet"?

Men who tap into cuckoldom are more sexually evolved than men who aren’t. You come to it later in life so you have had a chance to think about who you are and what you like. It is an activity you share with the person you care about most, and she finds it as exciting as you. I have gotten to a point that my “straight” friends who haven’t done anything outside of their vanilla world with a man or couple or other woman are really boring unfulfilled people. Especially those who have been married or together a long time. You can only have so much of the same Dick or pussy. Stop beating yourself up
 
cucksub4blk said:
I pose this question as a white husband and ******* happily married for 20 years who has secretly had a cuckold fantasy in one form or another since my late teens. I'd like to state my case using the hypothetical example of a boy born gay (not to add unnecessary controversy, but I believe we are born with our sexual orientations predetermined) who quickly learns that society has strong expectations about maleness: you have to play the boy games, don't be a sissy, yada yada yada. As that boy reaches puberty, he sees his peers begin to lust after girls, and although he may not feel as strongly inclined, the expectations are clear, and so he does his best to do the same. He may not even realize he's gay -- in many cases, imho, these things are repressed under tremendous social pressure. Ultimately, he has success and finds a steady girlfriend and eventually marries her.

He enjoys sex with his wife, but secretly, maybe even subconsciously, he is unfulfilled. He loves his wife and wants to please her, but somehow he doesn't feel quite right about it. Somewhere deep in his psyche, wrapped in guilt and shame, lurks a gay bottom, a man who wants to be sexually dominated by another man. What kind of man? A powerful, masculine man who can make him feel submissive, even feminine in comparison.

Enter the bull and the cuckold lifestyle. Our hypothetical husband secretly lusts after the bull and wants to submit to him sexually, but he's repressed all of that. As a cuck he can live vicariously through his wife. He walks a complex line of gay vs not gay. He'd love to suck off the bull and swallow his seed, but that might cross the line, for him (and quite likely for the bull), so he does the next best thing and swallows that seed from his wife. He'd love to be pinned down and fucked hard by the bull, but again that's across the line, so he watches his wife take it hard, fast, and balls deep, secretly longing for it himself. Our cuck gets fiercely aroused by all of this because he's experiencing all of the things he secretly wants, but in an indirect way that allows him to retain a heterosexual identity and even remain faithful to his wife.

I'll close by saying there's nothing wrong with this even if it's 100% accurate. Being gay is fine, being straight is fine, and being anywhere in the middle is fine. Being a cuckold is fine too. What do others think? Does this make sense to you?
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As a cuck, i will try to communicate what gets us going. The opposite is actually true. We are kind of obsessed with the hotwife. And we have fantasy of being married to a porn star. For most of us there is zero attraction to the bull. People dont get it. So they automatically claim its all about being secretly gay. Well, if that were the case. After 20 years, you would have busted him by now.
 
cucksub4blk said:
I pose this question as a white husband and ******* happily married for 20 years who has secretly had a cuckold fantasy in one form or another since my late teens. I'd like to state my case using the hypothetical example of a boy born gay (not to add unnecessary controversy, but I believe we are born with our sexual orientations predetermined) who quickly learns that society has strong expectations about maleness: you have to play the boy games, don't be a sissy, yada yada yada. As that boy reaches puberty, he sees his peers begin to lust after girls, and although he may not feel as strongly inclined, the expectations are clear, and so he does his best to do the same. He may not even realize he's gay -- in many cases, imho, these things are repressed under tremendous social pressure. Ultimately, he has success and finds a steady girlfriend and eventually marries her.

He enjoys sex with his wife, but secretly, maybe even subconsciously, he is unfulfilled. He loves his wife and wants to please her, but somehow he doesn't feel quite right about it. Somewhere deep in his psyche, wrapped in guilt and shame, lurks a gay bottom, a man who wants to be sexually dominated by another man. What kind of man? A powerful, masculine man who can make him feel submissive, even feminine in comparison.

Enter the bull and the cuckold lifestyle. Our hypothetical husband secretly lusts after the bull and wants to submit to him sexually, but he's repressed all of that. As a cuck he can live vicariously through his wife. He walks a complex line of gay vs not gay. He'd love to suck off the bull and swallow his seed, but that might cross the line, for him (and quite likely for the bull), so he does the next best thing and swallows that seed from his wife. He'd love to be pinned down and fucked hard by the bull, but again that's across the line, so he watches his wife take it hard, fast, and balls deep, secretly longing for it himself. Our cuck gets fiercely aroused by all of this because he's experiencing all of the things he secretly wants, but in an indirect way that allows him to retain a heterosexual identity and even remain faithful to his wife.

I'll close by saying there's nothing wrong with this even if it's 100% accurate. Being gay is fine, being straight is fine, and being anywhere in the middle is fine. Being a cuckold is fine too. What do others think? Does this make sense to you?
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I've just been reading some of this thread and have come to the conclusion.
I'm a guy, I like cock, I like cunt, I like cuckolding.
I'm probably most of the labels that people would ascribe. But so what!
It's just sex.
 
I don’t agree, I think a white husband will fluff his wife’s black lover or even blow him on demand, as way of showing submissiveness and as a display of just how much power the black bull has over him. It’s all part of the ‘role’ each person plays in the cuckold scenario, the husband may hate doing it and even be disgusted with himself for doing it, but he submits to the degradation as a duty just like the wife does.
 
I think you nailed it with your description of a cuckold sissy, with the exception that using the term "gay" really makes it a matter of fact label. I think the right description would be Bisexual. As we, as fetus's are all conceived female, and at a certain point in the pregnancy the mom gets a hormone push, and the babys chromosomes change to become male. If she doesn't, the baby remains female. IF, and if is a big word here....all people were 100% honest without fail, we would all admit to feeling a little bit of attraction for the same sex.
 
StevieGirl said:
Cucks who fantasize about their wife's black lovers are more like panty boys than they are gay boys... closet swishers who fantasize about sucking dick and getting fucked hard and deep... wanting to experiencing how his woman feels when being fucked by a real man, and how a real man sounds when he cums and how it feels when he cums inside you.
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My first experience with a man was after my then-gf had feminized me. She transformed our sex life into a lesbian sex life and eliminated my penis from the equation. We both had strap ones to use on each other. When she was fucking me she would often tell me how it felt to have a real man doing those things to you, how it felt when he came in you, etc. we talked about it and I told her I wanted to know what it felt like to be with a real man. She told me she had someone in mind and would talk to them. A date was set, he came over and made me a woman that night. I experienced everything a woman does during sex.
When we were finished, she crawled into bed next to me and asked how it was. I confessed it was better than I imagined it could be. She asked how he was as a lover and not having anything to judge it by I told her he was wonderful. She then told me she thought I would say that since she had been seeing him for about a year at that point.
I was feminized, made love to like a woman by the man she had been cuckolding me with. I found out then I was a cuckold.
 
I’ve always known I was bi but as I’ve told my wife I have no romantic interest in men but the sex can be amazing. I’m not absolutely sure where my obsession with being cucked comes from but most likely it was from when she had an affair early in our marriage.
 
SamanthaMorgan said:
My first experience with a man was after my then-gf had feminized me. She transformed our sex life into a lesbian sex life and eliminated my penis from the equation. We both had strap ones to use on each other. When she was fucking me she would often tell me how it felt to have a real man doing those things to you, how it felt when he came in you, etc. we talked about it and I told her I wanted to know what it felt like to be with a real man. She told me she had someone in mind and would talk to them. A date was set, he came over and made me a woman that night. I experienced everything a woman does during sex.
When we were finished, she crawled into bed next to me and asked how it was. I confessed it was better than I imagined it could be. She asked how he was as a lover and not having anything to judge it by I told her he was wonderful. She then told me she thought I would say that since she had been seeing him for about a year at that point.
I was feminized, made love to like a woman by the man she had been cuckolding me with. I found out then I was a cuckold.
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Thats kinda sad man....

It is possible to enjoy anal sex, as a straight man, and enjoy pussy. I never feel like i need to go full woman to justify enjoy prostate stimulation, but thats only me. Labels are silly imo
 
MissJenna said:
I think it's more likely you guys are bisexual than gay. Your fantasies almost always involve a woman in one way or another
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Yes, I think this is right - I actually doubt there are very many Kinsey 6 homosexuals hanging out here.

For me, there are two aspects: first I LOVE women, and I am so into women that not only does it turn me on to see women having intense, taboo sex with well-hung men, but I fantasize about experiencing sex that way as well. I'm actually not that attracted to men, sexually, and I think the racist mythology around 'black men are so much bigger and better' probably is part of the appeal to me. Honestly, it's a bit of a fetishization. The black men I've hooked up with have always been very cool and just generally nice guys, and I've enjoyed them just as people, so it's not like the whole thing is that, but for sure, that's a part of the arousing kink...
 
I would like to think that being a cuckold is just a twist on a higher sexual plane. I mean, this is the modern age, where the sexual definitions and descriptions of our parents and grandparents day are seriously blurred; obliterated in fact. I can have sex with whoever I feel an attraction to, or want to have a kink with. My sexual habits do not describe me. I feel that cuckolding is an excellent way for a couple to play together, enjoy a sexual twist, and meet some great friends. " if it feels good, do it!"
 
Dont allow the porn industry to tell u that your automatically gay simply because wife sharing turns u on. Those people are lying sacks of *******.
 
I really dont see where being a cuckold has anything to do with a husbands sexual status. By definition a cuckold is simply a HUSBAND whose wife is unfaithful or basically she fucks other men. Nothing is said about the husband being straight..bi...or gay. I really feel alot of people either dont know the meaning of being a cuckold or they just use the term to add fantasy to thier minds. I guess since I am a true proud cuckold and have been for manys years it aggravates me to see the term used in the wrong context. But thats just me. So the answer to the question posed here..ARE CUCKS JUST GAY MEN LIVING IN AN ELABORATE CLOSET the answer is no since first you have to be a HUSBAND to be a CUCKOLD and I dont think there are that many GAY MEN who are married and have wives that fuck other men.
 
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