Are cuckolds sexual deviants or simply weak males struggling to adapt and survive?
Are cuckolds sexual deviants or simply weak males struggling to adapt and survive?
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First sorry for my bad english
I think so many cucks like that because porn , masturbate in front of some actress with male actor and unconsciously in their brain they used to take pleasure like that and they repeat that in their intimate life with their girlfriend/wife in the role of the porn actress.
Because we can see this fantasy is very implant in country where porn is legal and very popular
We can see a sexual deviant in japan in this style where so many guys prefer look than act.
I think more a sexual deviants something that add fun in their life, just forbidden pleasure, it's very erotic to so many people
I think so many cucks like that because porn , masturbate in front of some actress with male actor and unconsciously in their brain they used to take pleasure like that and they repeat that in their intimate life with their girlfriend/wife in the role of the porn actress.
Because we can see this fantasy is very implant in country where porn is legal and very popular
We can see a sexual deviant in japan in this style where so many guys prefer look than act.
I think more a sexual deviants something that add fun in their life, just forbidden pleasure, it's very erotic to so many people
URpatheticCuck
Male
Perhaps some of both, yet I don't see it those two factors as necessarily negative connotations. It's knowing who you are as an individual and what you need to be fulfilled as a human being, and accepting those needs within yourself. Finding the right partner to accomplish this with, is what can make this journey so enjoyable, interesting, and stimulating.
Why can’t a white man just enjoy seeing a white woman with a black man? It’s the contrast that turns me on
They can, and so very often do. But, there are advantages to understanding the "whys."
Sexual deviant is a classification in clinical psychology. The cuckolding spectrum has a wide range. There's the guy who likes to watch his wife have sex with other men. Maybe he's a little submissive to her too. That's as far as it ever goes and he's happy with that. He still has "normal" sex with his wife. Then there is the guy who calls himself a sissy and wears women's clothes while he watches his wife get fucked. He enjoys being a sex slave to the Bull as well. He degrades himself and enjoys extreme forms of humiliation. Do they both fit the definition of sexual deviant?
I'm not voting, because I don't like the choices either. They're both too negative, and I really don't see the need to classify it and analyze it.
I love seeing my gf with black guys and getting fucked by big black dick. IR sex is amazing to watch. Do I take a back seat when a black dude is with her? Yeah -- but I like it and want it that way. It's not because I'm weak. Do I think his big black dick is better and t hat he can fuck her better? Yeah -- but that doesn't make me a deviant or a pervert.
I know what gets my whiteboi dick hard. Period.
I love seeing my gf with black guys and getting fucked by big black dick. IR sex is amazing to watch. Do I take a back seat when a black dude is with her? Yeah -- but I like it and want it that way. It's not because I'm weak. Do I think his big black dick is better and t hat he can fuck her better? Yeah -- but that doesn't make me a deviant or a pervert.
I know what gets my whiteboi dick hard. Period.
sexual deviant, if you have not a direct sexual relationship it's considerated as deviant. In same time don't fuck with 2 males when you are a wife and have this luck, as don't fuck a bitch when you are a guy.. it means you have a serious problem. We are libertins, it's add funny moment to a good sexual life. I fucked with few blacks, and he fucked several women with me in addition.
subbyhubby69
Male
There are a wide variety of cuckolds. Two choices just doesn't suffice and I think for some it could be multiple reasons. I'm not sure why they need to be classified anyways. Life is a journey. Live it the way it makes you happy!
given the rise of female human sexuality in recent years , I would say neither. Women today assume and expect very active sex lives well into their 60s and some even 70s and are more inclined to have several sex partners even if the main male is an Alpha. In nature , where groups of animals like gorillas , and lions, and elephants are led by a large powerful alpha male , it is not uncommon for the females to sneak sex with other males. Todays cuckhold male ( may or may not be a husband ) , generally accepts the sexuality of his main female either because he cannot stop it for a variety of reasons or because he himself enjoys it. Some cuckholds suffer sexual difficulties and encourage partners sexuality in place of his inability to provide or satisfy her. Some women are or have become sexually aggressive and pursue a variety of male sex partners. Her marraige partner can either stay or leave assuming she doesnt leave first which does happen. We see this with couples where husband travels alot for work and is away from home often. While he is away , her other friends fufill her needs.
I think a lot of cuckold husbands actually love their wives and just want to keep their marriages exciting and new.
I also think they should be careful what they wish for.
I also think they should be careful what they wish for.
White Satin
Male
Cuckolds are NONE OF THE ABOVE
Having the desire to watch your partner have sex, or deriving pleasure from your partners sexual exploits doesn't make any man "weak" or a "deviant" in any way. Humans like every other mammal on the planet don't practice monogamy and there are very few species that actually do "mate for life" in any quantifiable way.
It's asinine to think that being a cuckold somehow makes a man weak or inferior in any way. It's even more idiotic to think that a man who can derive pleasure from more than just sticking his dick in a wet hole is somehow a deviant.
I dont find myself as weak at all. To be honest the exact opposite. I love my wife and want her pleased. I am strong enough to know what she needs and not only confortable with it but encourage it. I am in controle all day long. I love to give that power up to her. Especially in the bed room.
URpatheticCuck
Male
I love this reply. Right on!
Thanks man.
Define deviant. Everyone, without exception, has a fetish they either engage in or wish they could. Is your neighbor a swinger; engages in anal sex; a *******; likes BDSM; a closet gay; loves to look at women's feet; wears diapers? You'll never know as it takes place behind closed doors.
Sharing your wife is but one of a million different 'interests' that people have. The list is endless. So I ask you, is that hypothetical neighbor of yours engages in ANYTHING outside of straight missionary can be, by your definition, a deviant? By that realization, everyone is a deviant - which simply means that they like something other than vanilla sex. So, if everyone is a deviant, by extension, the guy who only likes missionary sex, nothing else, is in fact The Deviant.
So no, I don't think the people in this forum are deviants. I think they are normal, healthy individuals who enjoy this aspect of sex. Nothing more, nothing less.
To respond to the second part of your question, are cuckolds simply 'weak males struggling to adapt and survive?" Well, being polite, I think that's a very narrow minded view. In our case, nothing could be further from the truth. My husband is the poster baby for a masculine, take charge kind of person. He's strong and caring enough in our relationship to allow me to enjoy my interest. At 6'4" and well built (exercises daily) he will not (nor will I) tolerate anyone who abuses me, having been called into action during one very unfortunate situation with a black guy (no, I will NOT call him a 'Bull' as he was far from one!) who was abusive towards me.
He is a caring, loving man whom I adore. Far from what you perceive as a weak male struggling to adapt and survive. Do some research. Get your facts straight and come back with facts before you insult all of us uniformly. I think you'll find that the majority of men who support their wives to be cut from the same cloth as my husband.
In conclusion. To be sure, there are SOME males in this forum who fit your description, but they don't represent the majority.
Sharing your wife is but one of a million different 'interests' that people have. The list is endless. So I ask you, is that hypothetical neighbor of yours engages in ANYTHING outside of straight missionary can be, by your definition, a deviant? By that realization, everyone is a deviant - which simply means that they like something other than vanilla sex. So, if everyone is a deviant, by extension, the guy who only likes missionary sex, nothing else, is in fact The Deviant.
So no, I don't think the people in this forum are deviants. I think they are normal, healthy individuals who enjoy this aspect of sex. Nothing more, nothing less.
To respond to the second part of your question, are cuckolds simply 'weak males struggling to adapt and survive?" Well, being polite, I think that's a very narrow minded view. In our case, nothing could be further from the truth. My husband is the poster baby for a masculine, take charge kind of person. He's strong and caring enough in our relationship to allow me to enjoy my interest. At 6'4" and well built (exercises daily) he will not (nor will I) tolerate anyone who abuses me, having been called into action during one very unfortunate situation with a black guy (no, I will NOT call him a 'Bull' as he was far from one!) who was abusive towards me.
He is a caring, loving man whom I adore. Far from what you perceive as a weak male struggling to adapt and survive. Do some research. Get your facts straight and come back with facts before you insult all of us uniformly. I think you'll find that the majority of men who support their wives to be cut from the same cloth as my husband.
In conclusion. To be sure, there are SOME males in this forum who fit your description, but they don't represent the majority.
I agree with the consensus that this is a ridiculous poll and totally unnecessary. I’m sure that the unverified “couple” that posted it is either a holier-than-thou stag/vixen couple that doesn’t understand cuckolding or someone totally removed from the lifestyle. If the OP is really so interested in understanding the psychology of cuckolding - there are a lot of resources online (some better than others) that explain the proclivity towards cuckolding-none of which include being a “deviant” or “weak.” Anyone who actually had experience with a man that enjoys this form of sexual expression would know that.
Preach
100 this. People truly into this understand that its about TRUST and love and communication. Sex is not dirty or deviant. Or bad at all. Its a human experience. Its about pleasure and satisfaction. Sharing that and having abother human who does not judge or hold you back is something most cpls will never exp. People who really get this have some of the most amazing sex, connections, friendships you can have with a partner.
URpatheticCuck
Male
You bet, Mr. Bean!
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