Allindark93
Couple
Hi. Long-time lurker here looking for some possible answers or solutions to my problem. Been in the lifestyle with my wife for about a year now (but we're not 'out' as a cuckold couple so I'll be changing names). Anyways, my wife, Rachel, has only had a couple boyfriends but I'm a little worried about how the relationships have progressed, specifically between the bull and myself.
The first bull (I'll call him 'D') started out great as he was our first (not her first black man, but the first since we started dating). He let me watch them have sex, was usually pretty courteous about asking for permission to take her on dates etc. for probably 3 months and then it suddenly went south. Apparently he just started to cum inside of her whenever he wanted. wouldn't even acknowledge me when he came into my house, and was just generally rude. What's worse is that Rachel never seemed to mind and always just tried to play it off saying he was just joking around. We talked about it alot and she had told him to knock it off but there really wasn't a whole lot of change. Eventually they stopped seeing each other after D moved back home (he was only in the area temporarily for contract work). Honestly I was a little relieved because she had been flirting with J (her 2nd bull) for a while and I knew he'd be a better match.
And he was. At first!! It was a very similar pattern but even quicker. Her new boyfriend J absolutely REFUSES to wear condoms and has pretty much completely revoked my 'watching privileges'. Rachel is completely into this man so I didn't want to say anything to her. She says that the sex is incredible and I believe her because I don't think we've ever been closer. We cuddle every night and I love it! If it was just him cumming inside of her and not letting me watch I'd honestly be OK with it but this last weekend I think things got out of control. Basically, Rachel tells me last Saturday at like 4:30 that J is coming over and picking her up for a date. Instead what ended up happening was I took the kiddo to the in-laws to stay the night and drove home to hang out in y car in the driveway while they fucked like rabbits. I'm not trying to get beat up by this guy (he's super strong and very tall) so I just stayed in my car until Rachel texted me to come in. On the way into my own house he literally shouldered me as I walked by and said 'all yours, white boy'. Didn't even get sloppy seconds that night because apparently this jerk is like super hung as well.
Anyways, sorry for the rant its just frustrating. I want Rachel to have great sex and I know men like J can give it to her, but some of the rudeness I'd like to see under control. Has anyone else dealt with a similar situation and what can I do to stop it (without getting beat up or harming my wife's relationship with him)?
The first bull (I'll call him 'D') started out great as he was our first (not her first black man, but the first since we started dating). He let me watch them have sex, was usually pretty courteous about asking for permission to take her on dates etc. for probably 3 months and then it suddenly went south. Apparently he just started to cum inside of her whenever he wanted. wouldn't even acknowledge me when he came into my house, and was just generally rude. What's worse is that Rachel never seemed to mind and always just tried to play it off saying he was just joking around. We talked about it alot and she had told him to knock it off but there really wasn't a whole lot of change. Eventually they stopped seeing each other after D moved back home (he was only in the area temporarily for contract work). Honestly I was a little relieved because she had been flirting with J (her 2nd bull) for a while and I knew he'd be a better match.
And he was. At first!! It was a very similar pattern but even quicker. Her new boyfriend J absolutely REFUSES to wear condoms and has pretty much completely revoked my 'watching privileges'. Rachel is completely into this man so I didn't want to say anything to her. She says that the sex is incredible and I believe her because I don't think we've ever been closer. We cuddle every night and I love it! If it was just him cumming inside of her and not letting me watch I'd honestly be OK with it but this last weekend I think things got out of control. Basically, Rachel tells me last Saturday at like 4:30 that J is coming over and picking her up for a date. Instead what ended up happening was I took the kiddo to the in-laws to stay the night and drove home to hang out in y car in the driveway while they fucked like rabbits. I'm not trying to get beat up by this guy (he's super strong and very tall) so I just stayed in my car until Rachel texted me to come in. On the way into my own house he literally shouldered me as I walked by and said 'all yours, white boy'. Didn't even get sloppy seconds that night because apparently this jerk is like super hung as well.
Anyways, sorry for the rant its just frustrating. I want Rachel to have great sex and I know men like J can give it to her, but some of the rudeness I'd like to see under control. Has anyone else dealt with a similar situation and what can I do to stop it (without getting beat up or harming my wife's relationship with him)?