Actually SLEEPING with your bull?

I have a question for the group. Have you ever actually spent the night in the same bed with your lover?

We have been "lifestylers" for a while now. We started meeting with couples, but over time we evolved to where we were mainly getting together with single men. Typically, it seemed that because, well...I carry a little (or a lot) of extra junk in my trunk...it was usually single black men that I seemed to catch their eye.

So again we evolved to where we have now been meeting pretty much only with single black men. We don't judge at all, but we are not about "humiliating" the hubby or anything like that. We just like to have fun. He, the hubby, is very very much a voyeur. He calls it "live porn, starring his wife!" :)

Anyway, we have developed an ongoing relationship with an incredible black man. We have met several times and have totally hit it off. So a month or so ago, my husband encouraged me to cross another line and after we met, we invited our friend to spend the night with us, and I slept in the same bed with the lover. (Room with double beds and hubby slept in the other bed)

I have to say the first time was a little weird and awkward, but it was kind of sexy feeling my lover up against me in the middle of the night. And of course, sometime in the middle of the night, he started rubbing up against me from behind...which led to an early morning sexcapade that was simply amazing. (and also woke up the hubby...who loved it)

We've since done this a few times now, and it has been fantastic. Now we're actually planning a weekend away with our lover. I'm sure some people may judge and say this is not good for our marriage. But I can assure you, our marriage continues to be sensational.

Just wondered if anyone else has actually literally slept with their lover?
From this Bull's perspective, it feels completely natural that a hotwife either stays with me, or has me stay at her place.
In fact, my normal progression involves having the hotwife spend DAYS at my place for multiple breeding sessions.

The most 'intimate' scenario I've had was a cuckold couple who went and purchased a larger bed (king sized) specifically to accommodate all three of us in it - myself and the hotwife, and the hubby, who of course stayed way over on his side of the bed....

While I had my way with my hotwife Sub.
:blackgreedy::sex:

-Mike
 
We have had a lot of sleepovers with my wifes regulars. We have a king sized marital bed it fits us all well.
We're planning a sleepover with Tammy's most-regular guy. We'll all be in our king-sized bed together. Last night, I asked her if she'd like to have one of her black lovers live with us. She said "Oh, yes. And we'd be fucking ALL the time."
Yep lol
 
He calls it "live porn, starring his wife!" :)
I love his attitude and that quote!! To answer the question, I sleep with my lovers all the time if we all are staying overnight. We never play at my home, so it is either their place or a hotel room. If hubby is also there he will sleep on a couch or extra bed. It makes it easier for the inevitable morning sex that you know is going to happen!
 
I have a question for the group. Have you ever actually spent the night in the same bed with your lover?

We have been "lifestylers" for a while now. We started meeting with couples, but over time we evolved to where we were mainly getting together with single men. Typically, it seemed that because, well...I carry a little (or a lot) of extra junk in my trunk...it was usually single black men that I seemed to catch their eye.

So again we evolved to where we have now been meeting pretty much only with single black men. We don't judge at all, but we are not about "humiliating" the hubby or anything like that. We just like to have fun. He, the hubby, is very very much a voyeur. He calls it "live porn, starring his wife!" :)

Anyway, we have developed an ongoing relationship with an incredible black man. We have met several times and have totally hit it off. So a month or so ago, my husband encouraged me to cross another line and after we met, we invited our friend to spend the night with us, and I slept in the same bed with the lover. (Room with double beds and hubby slept in the other bed)

I have to say the first time was a little weird and awkward, but it was kind of sexy feeling my lover up against me in the middle of the night. And of course, sometime in the middle of the night, he started rubbing up against me from behind...which led to an early morning sexcapade that was simply amazing. (and also woke up the hubby...who loved it)

We've since done this a few times now, and it has been fantastic. Now we're actually planning a weekend away with our lover. I'm sure some people may judge and say this is not good for our marriage. But I can assure you, our marriage continues to be sensational.

Just wondered if anyone else has actually literally slept with their lover?

Oh Wow! Your journey to this is exactly like ours and we agree with the humiliating part of it also. Spending the night has only happened once, and we are looking forward to it many more times. I, hubby, have encouraged her to spend the night at her bull's place and she is all for it, but she don't think he is ready for it........too bad. He'd have her to his own all night without me being there. Do any of you think that he should take advantage of this?
 
I have a question for the group. Have you ever actually spent the night in the same bed with your lover?

We have been "lifestylers" for a while now. We started meeting with couples, but over time we evolved to where we were mainly getting together with single men. Typically, it seemed that because, well...I carry a little (or a lot) of extra junk in my trunk...it was usually single black men that I seemed to catch their eye.

So again we evolved to where we have now been meeting pretty much only with single black men. We don't judge at all, but we are not about "humiliating" the hubby or anything like that. We just like to have fun. He, the hubby, is very very much a voyeur. He calls it "live porn, starring his wife!" :)

Anyway, we have developed an ongoing relationship with an incredible black man. We have met several times and have totally hit it off. So a month or so ago, my husband encouraged me to cross another line and after we met, we invited our friend to spend the night with us, and I slept in the same bed with the lover. (Room with double beds and hubby slept in the other bed)

I have to say the first time was a little weird and awkward, but it was kind of sexy feeling my lover up against me in the middle of the night. And of course, sometime in the middle of the night, he started rubbing up against me from behind...which led to an early morning sexcapade that was simply amazing. (and also woke up the hubby...who loved it)

We've since done this a few times now, and it has been fantastic. Now we're actually planning a weekend away with our lover. I'm sure some people may judge and say this is not good for our marriage. But I can assure you, our marriage continues to be sensational.

Just wondered if anyone else has actually literally slept with their lover?
My wife has really enjoyed this. It's somewhat agony from my perspective tive because she is at his place and I'm home w/ the *******, but it's incredibly erotic getting text updates or photos or just fantasizing about what they're doing...and of course when she comes home, the stretched and sloppy pussy I get to eat is utterly divine!! :)
 
It's amazing when you find the right guy to do it with! I would say if you have special bond between a man, yourself and hubby then it's a great thing! But I wouldn't say do it with every guy you hook up! Sounds like you have developed a great relationship with this one man so it's only natural to want to be closer to him! Aslong as no one is getting hurt and everyone is enjoying themselves I say it's a great thing for all involved!
 
From this Bull's perspective, it feels completely natural that a hotwife either stays with me, or has me stay at her place.
In fact, my normal progression involves having the hotwife spend DAYS at my place for multiple breeding sessions.

The most 'intimate' scenario I've had was a cuckold couple who went and purchased a larger bed (king sized) specifically to accommodate all three of us in it - myself and the hotwife, and the hubby, who of course stayed way over on his side of the bed....

While I had my way with my hotwife Sub.
:blackgreedy::sex:

-Mike
Same
 
I have slept over at different guys places several times. The first times I did though I found quite strange experiences. My hubby was the first guy I've actually 'slept' with so to be in a bed with a relative stranger all night was quite odd! Then to wake up with him and feel naked and bit messy next morning, wondering if I should call hubby for a lift or the guy might give me a lift home, all very new! Exciting though, and nice to be with the guy in the cold light of day, get to meet the 'real' him.
 
I might be an outlier compared to the other ladies, but it happened to me once and I did not enjoy it. The morning had a much different dynamic than the previously fun night. It felt like i was "cheating" on my hubby and I felt pretty uncomfortable.
Sorry to hear that.
 
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