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Condolences to you. My wife was in a short dry spell for black men in the runup to the pandemic, and now of course she can't snap it. It was late last September the last time she enjoyed the bliss of interracial coupling. It was actually such a great hookup that I wrote about it on here. She did have fun with a young white guy early this year, but only a couple times, and it ended before the pandemic.I'd love to hear from any other couples who are in a similar situation. How are you coping? What fun ways are you keeping the fun alive without just making yourselves more frustrated?
Thankfully we are "stag/vixen" and I can fully satisfy her, but still, something is missing. I do have other fetishes, and we have been dialing those up a lot. My wife and I both enjoy dressing up and seeing each other dressed up, but for me it is a particularly deep desire. My wife has enjoyed being my model for lots of home photoshoots A lot of people are enjoying not dressing up much because of work from home, but for us, though there was a break near the beginning, we might dress up even more now than before. And she teases me and says how much her next black lover will enjoy seeing her in whatever she has on. Of course, I always agree and say how wonderful that will be!
We both have vivid imaginations, so there are lots of things we can bring into bed, like, a guy that one or both of us saw during the day, and how she should sleep with him, or the summer interns at her firm that she never got to meet in person, or how she will go out on the prowl after the disease is under control. Also we have a collection of pictures and videos only for home consumption that we revisit. Finally, probably her favorite thing to do is this: there have been a few past lovers where she has come home in the "morning after look" of his shirt and/or tie, and nothing else. Then they hang in our closet, a bit like a trophy case. Sometimes I will wear his shirt and tie, or sometimes she will, and we have some pretty electric sex then.
One thing we are thinking is that the pandemic is causing a lot of couples to spend more time together, either getting tired of each other or baring fantasies to each other. We are both thinking that handsome black gentlemen are going to be in extremely high demand when this is over.