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Pain is a huge dynamic in the lifestyle, from what we have experienced and witnessed in over 15 years. This is more often than not overlooked and denied by most. My husband struggled for many years - and still does to a significant degree - with the whole cuckold identity that was thrust upon...

I do this from time to time when we are away from home. Even when the evening is going very well, it is hard to communicate in clubs and bars with loud music and lots of people - especiallity if you're *******. Sometimes I want to flirt. Sometimes I want a guy to call us for some future...

Has anyone's wife's lover ever had a special ringtone on her cell phone? To help her know the call was "special"? Did she have an instant reaction? Did you as her husband? Was anyone else privy to its meaning?

After our 6th chilkd recently, I have been anxious to get back in the swing of the sport. I was in a hotel room in Atlanta's Buckhead area visiting a gentleman friend this past Tuesday. It was around breakfast time - but we were "sleeping in." By that I mean, he had woken up quite "full of...

four seas law of cuckoldry in Osborne’s 17th-century Advice Cultural and legal circumstances affect the extent of cuckoldry. The four seas doctrine of English common law provided for legally recognized cuckoldry. Francis Osborne’s Advice to a *******, a serious 17th-century English work that...

Sooner or later, we're all "groomed." https://www.foxnews.com/us/disgraced-tn-police-chief-received-explicit-photos-maegan-hall-burner-phone-court-docs

We usually find this site of limited usefulness, but I hope this is an exception. Recently, we were informed that a friend of ours - they were both friends actually - had lost her husband suddenly and unexpectedly. They had been active in the lifestyle almost as long as we have been, and...

Upon reflections, men have been shaking hands since before the Middle Ages. They did it to temporarily disarm each other and to size one another up. In modern times, with shifting sexualities both in and outside the lifestyles, it would make things so much easier, more straightforward and...

"The thirteenth century Provençal Jewish wrier Isaac ben Ydaiah, for example, appears to have been concerned not only that women might want to cheat, but that when they did they would find more pleasurable options outside of their communities. According to him, you see, Jewish women were at...

Most people, even people "in the lifestyle" or privy to candid discussion about the lifestyle, do not realize that there is a lot about this lifestyle that is different than the lives vanilla people lead. When you have one male you are married to but another man that you have had sex with more...

Has anyone's husband had any traumatic events or other experiences that you think might have contributed to his cuckoldry? Does the wife think so, the husband or both? Please elaborate.

Has anyone else had any experience dating Black Police Officers? We've had a regular we met 8 years ago and has lead to some of the most interesting and enriching experiences of our time in the lifestyle. I'm short on time at the moment, but I owe a response of some kind. We met a very...

Has anyone else had any experience dating Black Police Officers? We've had a regular we met 8 years ago and has lead to some of the most interesting and enriching experiences of our time in the lifestyle.

Does cuckold body chemistry change over time or are they just becoming more accepting of the way things are? We need a National Institute of Health (NIH) study. When we were first married and opened our marriage up to other lovers, my husband hated it. He had extreme anxiety and angst. It...

Gentlemen: A great tip for all of you already very sexy black men out there. The cocoa butter on the hands - and many other places is very cool. But, get a manicure. Well manicured hands on a very masculine, sexxy black man are soooooooo very sexy.

How did you meet your husband?

I was browsing and saw a similar thread, but my response didn't really fit. People often ask questions about this and other things. We rarely answer. My husband and I have been in the lifestyle well over 15 years. It was not his choosing, but it was his choice. By that I mean I cheated on...

What is the most dirty (distasteful) situation you ever got involved in?

The MOST Cruel, Painful, Hurtful Cheating or Sexual Exclusion Experience of Your Life: Be honest, concretely candid. Tell this small world here how bad it was and how it lead you to this.