You Black Men are just...

[erika9009]

great at introducing yourself.

I have only been active on this site for a few days.

When a cuck contacts me, the first thing they say is they want to clean me, be my bitch, and all that other cuck dribble. No name, don't ask how I'm doing....just cuck blabber.

Now, when a black man contacts me (on PM). I get a "hello" or "How are you today?" and they ask my name sometimes.

Then they tell me they want to fuck me. But that's ok at least you tried to talk to me and I like that.

So, cucks, be social, say hi, ask us about our ******* or pets.............

 

[erika9009]

Same here, you are not alone with such situation...

Do the rest just put up with it? It just seems almost scripted like they are all reading the same book, "How to pick up women on porn sites"

 

[Dddan]

Not all (cucks) do that, writing stupid stuff instead of hello, and i suspect that among those that don't, many also don't contact all the female profile writing the same bullshit.

But those that do, they often write the same thing to everyone, without even reading the profile. My profile clearly says male, but I also receive some WTF messages every now and then.

This creates a skewed impression, unfortunately.

 

[Jacktone]

great at introducing yourself.

I have only been active on this site for a few days.

When a cuck contacts me, the first thing they say is they want to clean me, be my bitch, and all that other cuck dribble. No name, don't ask how I'm doing....just cuck blabber.

Now, when a black man contacts me (on PM). I get a "hello" or "How are you today?" and they ask my name sometimes.

Then they tell me they want to fuck me. But that's ok at least you tried to talk to me and I like that.

So, cucks, be social, say hi, ask us about our ******* or pets.............

I agree with you, it is v. disrespectful. Personally I try not to think of people as just a sex organ.
Black men seem to have it the worst on this site often being described as just a 'BBC' seemingly without mentioning anything else about them.
When we are on any porn site we become aroused and when we are in a state of sexual arousal you know how single minded we can be.
But when my balls have been drained I can be most charming indeed.

 

[erika9009]

I agree with you, it is v. disrespectful. Personally I try not to think of people as just a sex organ.
Black men seem to have it the worst on this site often being described as just a 'BBC' seemingly without mentioning anything else about them.
When we are on any porn site we become aroused and when we are in a state of sexual arousal you know how single minded we can be.
When my balls have been drained I can be most charming indeed.

OK, that is oddly funny because when I was in college, I was giving bjs on the 2nd date sometimes. Not because I like swallowing it, but because then the guy would stop trying to say or do things to get in my pants.

I worked rather well.

 

[Pralasm]

Same here, you are not alone with such situation...

Hello Barbasia, you can be sure that these are not real cuckolds, they are just in the mood for a virtual and momentary fantasy, unfortunately it is what else has on the internet! some people really want to, but don't have the courage to take it seriously!

 

[Pralasm]

Do the rest just put up with it? It just seems almost scripted like they are all reading the same book, "How to pick up women on porn sites"

I think it's the same thing that I answered for Barbasia, the cuckold is a form of female domination, female superiority too and a guy who doesn't respect that, is not a cuckold! Anyway, the only thing I can do is never do that and apologize to those who do!

 

[curious28]

great at introducing yourself.

I have only been active on this site for a few days.

When a cuck contacts me, the first thing they say is they want to clean me, be my bitch, and all that other cuck dribble. No name, don't ask how I'm doing....just cuck blabber.

Now, when a black man contacts me (on PM). I get a "hello" or "How are you today?" and they ask my name sometimes.

Then they tell me they want to fuck me. But that's ok at least you tried to talk to me and I like that.

So, cucks, be social, say hi, ask us about our ******* or pets.............

Good advice

 

[erika9009]

I think it's the same thing that I answered for Barbasia, the cuckold is a form of female domination, female superiority too and a guy who doesn't respect that, is not a cuckold! Anyway, the only thing I can do is never do that and apologize to those who do!

You do not need to apologize for other people, just saying you not going to do the same, is great.

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

(...) the cuckold is a form of female domination, female superiority too (...)

No it is NOT! Cuckolding and FemDom are two very different things. Some people who like the one also enjoy the other and therefore combine those two in their lifestyle. But the Cuckold Lifestyle per se has nothing at all to do with female domination or "female superiority". Please, stop your disinformation campagne!

 

[Pralasm]

No it is NOT! Cuckolding and FemDom are two very different things. Some people who like the one also enjoy the other and therefore combine those two in their lifestyle. But the Cuckold Lifestyle per se has nothing at all to do with female domination or "female superiority". Please, stop your disinformation campagne!

you letting your wife choose the man she wants while you can't have an opinion has nothing to do with female superiority! so what does it have to do with? male inferiority?

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

you letting your wife choose the man she wants while you can't have an opinion has nothing to do with female superiority! so what does it have to do with? male inferiority?

What you say makes no sense, really.

"you letting your wife choose the man she wants while you can't have an opinion" ... that's contradictory.
Someone letting someone do something is the opposite of not having "an opinion".

It's a question of mentality. If you don't feel humiliated, degraded or whatever just because your Woman has the freedom of having sex with more than one man, where then comes any type of power shift from? The husband has the lifestyle he chooses ("monoamory"), his wife has the lifestyle she chooses ("polyandry"), "coincidentally" those are a perfect match... has per se nothing at all to do with "superiority" or "inferiority" - just two people in a relationship who can enjoy the same thing.

If you feel humiliated or degraded or under control by your Woman just because she can enjoy multiple men, well, as i said it's "a question of mentality".

i was in a "wifesharing" relationship and never questioned my then girlfriend's choices of men for sex because she typically made wise decisions. On the other hand she was never shy to ask my opinion and would i have objected she would have taken it seriously. She always told me she would never play with someone i would not consent to because for her our relationship was more important than just a sex partner. What's that to do with FemDom?

 

[Pralasm]

hummm .... so you are basing all the experiences just on yours! each couple has a way and a personal psyche to deal with this type of relationship! do not use your experience as the only and desisive !! ok, so don't say that you are right and everyone is wrong, just say that you have a vision as well as I have another vision and each couple chooses how they like it most!

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

hummm .... so you are basing all the experiences just on yours! (...)

No, not at all. That was exactly what you were doing by the more narrow description of sharing one's woman would necessarily include (or be a form of) female domination. i was just stating there is a more general viewpoint and not everyone falls in the closer description you provided.

(...) do not use your experience as the only and desisive !! ok, so don't say that you are right and everyone is wrong, (...)

i don't and i didn't. And i didn't say anything about right or wrong.

(...) each couple has a way and a personal psyche to deal with this type of relationship! (...) just say that you have a vision as well as I have another vision and each couple chooses how they like it most!

Exactly. That's why i said "it's a question of mentality". If you are feeling humiliated or dominated and getting off on that - good for you. If you feel neither humiliated nor dominated, just getting off on sharing your woman - also good. To each their own. That's exactly what i was trying to say. TY

 

[erika9009]

No, not at all. That was exactly what you were doing by the more narrow description of sharing one's woman would necessarily include (or be a form of) female domination. i was just stating there is a more general viewpoint and not everyone falls in the closer description you provided.

i don't and i didn't. And i didn't say anything about right or wrong.

Exactly. That's why i said "it's a question of mentality". If you are feeling humiliated or dominated and getting off on that - good for you. If you feel neither humiliated nor dominated, just getting off on sharing your woman - also good. To each their own. That's exactly what i was trying to say. TY

I agree that people should do what they like to a certain extent. There is always a line. I know I'm no fan of the collar around my neck. I know some are. So, that works for them.

At times, it feels kinda good to just submit fully and give your body to that person. They do what they want or have you do what they want. Other times, I shake my head no when I'm told to remove all my clothes and just "take" whoever comes up to the table.

 

[Cuckold25pitt]

Its strange through, there are sooo any wannabe cucks out there who glorify the cuck duties but from the few dozens I have spoken to after they actually do them they cant deal with the guilt. Especially, once the hormones wear off. The cuckold fetish is entirely different than just being a submissive male. It takes alot of your self-respect/self-confidence away. i have a podcast that goes over my first time during the whole" Cleanup" thing and how it really grossed me out

The feeling of unfair(cuckold) | Free Listening on SoundCloud

 

[BBCfriend4u]

We are just better at approaching women. Expect it. I got a sexless cuck that needs a female to take care of . He can't get hard at all for women. Mommy issues lol.

 

[AllTheWayIn]

No it is NOT! Cuckolding and FemDom are two very different things. Some people who like the one also enjoy the other and therefore combine those two in their lifestyle. But the Cuckold Lifestyle per se has nothing at all to do with female domination or "female superiority". Please, stop your disinformation campagne!

Ridiculous. Cuckolding is a form of Female Domination. The primal instinct of men is to "own" a woman, meaning that her sex life is exclusive to him. That's true as a basic rule throughout the ******* kingdom. That's where the term "bull" and "cock of the walk" originate from: a male can have a harem, a female can't. The double-standard of cuckolding relies on the woman's infidelity, which can be with or without the husband's permission or knowledge. It is an exercise of female sexual power over her primary mate. The cuckold himself is presumed, or even required, to be faithful to the wife, whether he knows of her infidelity or not. That is an unavoidable double-standard. If the primary male in the partnership is not faithful, then he is not a cuckold, but the couple are properly termed swingers. But any man who allows his wife to fuck other men has ceded his dominance to her.

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

Ridiculous. Cuckolding is a form of Female Domination. The primal instinct of men is to "own" a woman, meaning that her sex life is exclusive to him. That's true as a basic rule throughout the ******* kingdom. That's where the term "bull" and "cock of the walk" originate from: a male can have a harem, a female can't. The double-standard of cuckolding relies on the woman's infidelity, which can be with or without the husband's permission or knowledge. It is an exercise of female sexual power over her primary mate. The cuckold himself is presumed, or even required, to be faithful to the wife, whether he knows of her infidelity or not. That is an unavoidable double-standard. If the primary male in the partnership is not faithful, then he is not a cuckold, but the couple are properly termed swingers. But any man who allows his wife to fuck other men has ceded his dominance to her.

You are but trying to find excuses and legitimations for your own ideas or kink. None of what you say is general facts. You're mixing different concepts like perceived social taboos on the one hand and very personal individual emotions on the other hand. What is right (or "true") for you need not be the same for somebody, less anybody else.

"Cuckolding" is NOT a form of FemDom! In it's most general definition it only means that a straight/bi Woman in a relationship with a man has sexual relations "on the side" outside her "primary" relationship, and more precisely, with another man. "Cuckolding as a lifestyle" is a specialization where the male partner is aware and consenting to his wife's/GF's liaisons on the side. That's all. Dom/sub or humiliation is only a part if that's how the partners feel and what they want to incorporate in their sexual play. Not every man who shares his Woman feels like that or has a submissive nature. Not every Woman who is being shared feels like that, thinks less of her partner or wants to dominate him.

i had been in a few relationships long term in my life and two of the Women i shared. FemDom was not even on the radar in both cases. just sayin'