If you take the 10, your wife will be gone from your life that's the catch
Something tells me,
Silver, that you've never experienced "true love" before, just shallow relationships. And that's sad, as having a
soul mate is probably the most important & wonderful experience in one's life. We were lucky to have experienced the temptations while very young, then form a partnership which slowly molded into our becoming soul mates. Both my wife & I are lucky in the sense that both of our parents have been married well over 50+ years and we suspect when one dies sometime in the future, the other will be fairly close behind. Turtle doves, whooping cranes, wolves, swans are examples of "mates for life". Often when one use to hear that unique sound of a loon on a lake, it was said the loon was calling for its mate. Such a beautiful but sad sound when you're on a lake at night, fishing. By the way, its a lot more than just "sex" and romance.
Think of a football or basketball team that becomes so familiar with each of their teammates that each knows what the other is doing and can trust them to fully do their jobs. So much so they often never lose games, they praise each other, and never fight amongst themselves. These teams didn't have the " best, talented players", just players who knew each other well and played together as a coordinated team.
Ask any billionaire and I'm sure they'd say they would prefer love & true friendships over most the money they have.
My wife & I have been together over 24 years now, 2 beautiful yung'ns, and all of us work together as a "team". I'll take that over money & material wealth any day, and I'm sure she would as well.
Soul mates "instantly" find each other when they first meet and then, never part.
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