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Before we actually did anything my wife and I talked about this for a long time. For a number of reasons, she was a nervous wreck, which almost caused us to forget the whole thing. Safety was a big concern and seemed to demand that I be with her when they went to the motel room, but her mental and emotional comfort were also important. The day was saved when a black man at work became interested in her.
He was married, but for several weeks they “innocently” flirted back and forth. She relaxed and grew to feel both comfortable and safe with him since he also had a marriage to protect. As the comfort level rose, so did her sexual interest in this man.
We eventually agreed that he would be the one who would finally seduce her, but that he would NOT be aware that I was involved in any way. He already had to be worried that his wife would find out and we felt that adding me to the worry list only increased the likelihood that he would do his best to keep this secret. So early on a Tuesday evening, she met him at a small motel just a few miles away and he fucked her silly. At least she had a silly grin on her face when she finally got home.
Being alone with him allowed her to thoroughly enjoy what they did because she didn’t have to worry about MY reaction and/or thoughts while they romped in the bed. My wife loves giving oral sex and had been very concerned that I would be upset if I saw her doing that to him. Being alone with him made that concern go away.
They fucked sometimes several times a week for months, but he was NEVER aware that I was very much a part of what they did. To this day is still doesn’t know, and we will keep it that way with him.
Our answer to your question: if you are certain that you are ready for this, do whatever is necessary to allow her to be comfortable and safe enough to meet the man alone. After the date(s) you can do as we did and wear each other out while talking about what they did. Plenty of time after that to make it a threesome.
He was married, but for several weeks they “innocently” flirted back and forth. She relaxed and grew to feel both comfortable and safe with him since he also had a marriage to protect. As the comfort level rose, so did her sexual interest in this man.
We eventually agreed that he would be the one who would finally seduce her, but that he would NOT be aware that I was involved in any way. He already had to be worried that his wife would find out and we felt that adding me to the worry list only increased the likelihood that he would do his best to keep this secret. So early on a Tuesday evening, she met him at a small motel just a few miles away and he fucked her silly. At least she had a silly grin on her face when she finally got home.
Being alone with him allowed her to thoroughly enjoy what they did because she didn’t have to worry about MY reaction and/or thoughts while they romped in the bed. My wife loves giving oral sex and had been very concerned that I would be upset if I saw her doing that to him. Being alone with him made that concern go away.
They fucked sometimes several times a week for months, but he was NEVER aware that I was very much a part of what they did. To this day is still doesn’t know, and we will keep it that way with him.
Our answer to your question: if you are certain that you are ready for this, do whatever is necessary to allow her to be comfortable and safe enough to meet the man alone. After the date(s) you can do as we did and wear each other out while talking about what they did. Plenty of time after that to make it a threesome.
