The biggest thing about the lifestyle is seeing your wife’s sexual confidence boost. My ex said her confidence was the highest ever when we were in the lifestyle. I think women need that attention, to always feel desired or wanted. Even though I’m no longer in the lifestyle I always encourage my wife to dress sexy and show off her sexy body. She will shyly blow it off when she says other guys check her out or hit on her. But I know she enjoys that feeling of still being desired and wanted even though she’s mine!So my wife is very excited to get in to the lifestyle but she's a little insecure about it. She is very sexy and young but she feels like black men wouldn't find her very attractive so it kinda messes with her confidence a bit. Look at pictures of my wife if you would and tell me all the nasty things you would want to do to her so I can show her that she's a queen that black men would love to have so she can start working on pleasing those cocks.