Yeah I could say the very same here, joint decision, it had always been a sexual fantasy of mine for a while. Met my sexy wife had Great Sex with her, and one day she produced a long black replica cock, we had plenty fun with that let me tell you, all the other Sex toys got kinda over looked, and from there our fanticies grew together, she was always Hot during our sex sessions when she took me in her mouth and ploughed that big toy in and out. We then took our own bedroom play out into world outside, and it is a Big world out there, we would go into Hotels, bars and clubs to begin with, hooked up with some bbc, a few were let downs, so we changed our tact meeting through web sites, which proved to be better for us, no small talk, each knows whats expected of each other, and the sex is always amazing I just love going in after shes had her fill and shes soaking with all the Sex fluid. So for us it was a mutual decision, shes happy and me too, we love each other and love Sex.