Who on here has just kept this a fantasy

Similar situation, im actually on board with it and like the idea but we’re both afraid of the consequences. Fantasy is one thing but the after effects can be harsh. We have had a threesome with another woman but that is a bit different.
So is it the man issue, threesome. Or cuck issue, you one on one? I guess it depends on the role of your huby and fantasy.
 
Yeah that's the problem . We are gonna dip into the swinging lifestyle and take it from there I think it's a better way to open things up
Yea that’s a good idea, I’ve alwyas liked the idea of those swinging parties as there’s no pressure and you can do what you want and dip your toe in so to speak, but I think it’s important to agree what is acceptable before hand.
 
Yea I guess there’s less consequences with a woman, I think the fact that I’m bi myself helps there whereas with a guy it’s just me getting it (my husband isn’t a cuck so to speak).
There lies the difference. The hubys role. Not everyone is the same in how we get excited.
 
So I had this fetish/fantasy for 5 years now, my wife's aware of what I like she doesn't talk on it to much though . We have a black dildo she enjoys it alot and so do I watching her ride it , she cums and creams up on it hard and its her fav dildo out our selection.. sometimes I think things are better left a fantasy to avoid disappointment, I think the reality will never be as good as you imagine in your head , especially as my wife claims not to be that into black guys , but I love this site and I wont ever stop IR porn and the fantasy will stick with me for the rest of my life I feel , it's a hot fantasy to have i enjoy taking to people who share the same feelings . Dont get me wrong I'd love to see my wife getting blacked theres nothing more I'd love to see then some bbc balls deep in her but I know it cant be a reality for numerous reasons but still il live with this fantasy for the rest of my life as obviously you cannot ******* you wife into something you like for your own pleasure

Still it would be interesting to try once... see her reaction.
 
So I had this fetish/fantasy for 5 years now, my wife's aware of what I like she doesn't talk on it to much though . We have a black dildo she enjoys it alot and so do I watching her ride it , she cums and creams up on it hard and its her fav dildo out our selection.. sometimes I think things are better left a fantasy to avoid disappointment, I think the reality will never be as good as you imagine in your head , especially as my wife claims not to be that into black guys , but I love this site and I wont ever stop IR porn and the fantasy will stick with me for the rest of my life I feel , it's a hot fantasy to have i enjoy taking to people who share the same feelings . Dont get me wrong I'd love to see my wife getting blacked theres nothing more I'd love to see then some bbc balls deep in her but I know it cant be a reality for numerous reasons but still il live with this fantasy for the rest of my life as obviously you cannot ******* you wife into something you like for your own pleasure
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Yes I read Noreen’s stuff, very interesting and I compeletely understand where she is coming from. I havnt been ‘brave’ enough to do anywhere near the stuff she has done. Heck I havnt even told many people I am Bisexual, only a few of my friends know and I’m very selective over who I can tell certain things to. The fear of things getting ‘out’ is a massive one. At the end of the day I am a married woman and I want my marriage to be successful, my biggest fear is I do something with a ‘bull’ and then my husband loses respect for me or feels differently after. I have heard of that stuff happening. It is funny that our community’s are like that anyhow as so many people do stuff behind closed doors.
 
I think there are apprehensions towards this lifestyle in our culture , the South Asian one, though there are couples in our countries who are already comfortable, indulging and practicing . I was first introduced to this lifestyle years back by a woman from my own community @Noreen . At that time I wasn't married and didn't know that women of such demeanor could exist in our community . She came as a shock first but when I started following her on Twitter and Tumblr things became very clear and I thought here is this woman or group of desi women who just want to have fun and explore their sexuality. She is well read and offered solutions to various issues surrounding it. Now since I am married I mean to indulge but it's still nascent as we are conservative. Really wish @Noreen was more active and shared how she is leading post all her experiences. Nice to meet you @Aisha
I hope you are able to explore more of this lifestyle. Some are totally immersed in it and some want to proceed but do not know how. And ones that want to try and end up there without realizing thats where they were going.
 
Yes I read Noreen’s stuff, very interesting and I compeletely understand where she is coming from. I havnt been ‘brave’ enough to do anywhere near the stuff she has done. Heck I havnt even told many people I am Bisexual, only a few of my friends know and I’m very selective over who I can tell certain things to. The fear of things getting ‘out’ is a massive one. At the end of the day I am a married woman and I want my marriage to be successful, my biggest fear is I do something with a ‘bull’ and then my husband loses respect for me or feels differently after. I have heard of that stuff happening. It is funny that our community’s are like that anyhow as so many people do stuff behind closed doors.
Yes I read Noreen’s stuff, very interesting and I compeletely understand where she is coming from. I havnt been ‘brave’ enough to do anywhere near the stuff she has done. Heck I havnt even told many people I am Bisexual, only a few of my friends know and I’m very selective over who I can tell certain things to. The fear of things getting ‘out’ is a massive one. At the end of the day I am a married woman and I want my marriage to be successful, my biggest fear is I do something with a ‘bull’ and then my husband loses respect for me or feels differently after. I have heard of that stuff happening. It is funny that our community’s are like that anyhow as so many people do stuff behind closed doors.
Fear of things getting out is a concern of many and to be considered to what your situation is. Sometimes there are family members around , or business concerns, and standing in the community. But there are others that may not have those concerns and like people knowing what is happening. Sometimes it is important to be secretive and others, cuck and hotwife, that like having people know is a big part of the experience, humiliation, feelings, out of control, in control, for both cuck and hotwife. So where you are in life is what your concerns are. I have been where most everyone knew and it was so hot for me and for her. The humiliation I received and the power and attention she received. I was a great experience for us both.
 
I'm a married cuckold wannabe.49yr my wife 47yr.
Whe do have a Femdom relation. It started about 10 years ago from the moment I told her my submissive feelings. Initially my wife started to cry because she thought I did not love her anymore. But because we kept talking and I let her read the stories of Elisse sutton she began to see what kind of man I was. She is naturally Dominant but remained calm for almost 20 years because she loved me. From then, step by step, she let herself go and showing her Dominance to me. Whe both love that she controls me sexually by wearing a chastity. She behaves as challenging as possible and let me satisfy her orally while she humiliated me saying how submissive I should be.

I had cuckold feelings ever since I met her. I remember whe where sitting in a big spa in a public swimming pool.
At once I started to fantasize that the man next to my girlfriend start to touch her between her legs. My dick grow so hard and big I had to think about something else to get out the water so the others wouldent see my erection. I was confused.

The past years , she also knows of my cuckold feelings. She also has feelings of excitement at the thought that another man with a bigger dick fucking her while i sucking her nipples. It seams she get more open for it as time go by and I think it's just a matter of time until she cuck me with another man.
In her fantasy my wife also desire for it tbecause she needs more than my average cock. She only can have a good orgasm from her big dildo
I realy desire to shear her with a man with a big dick who realy sexualy sattisfy her. I keep telling her so and she know it.

But she's to affraid to let it happen yet. She's affraid it will arm our marriage or relation.
Mentaly it's not OK for her but physical she would love it as well.

My wife is bi-sexual, has already cucked me with other woman a few times in the past. But she does not see that as a treath to our relation.

Last week me and my wife watched a porn movie. There was a black guy with a big dick fucking a milf. My wife got verry horny.
She fucked her big dildo realy hard while looking into my eyes. She noticed I was extreme horny. I told her again I realy need this to happen for real. She admited she could see how unbelievable horny it makes me. I confessed while I looked into her eyes that fanatsize a threesome with another man and imagining her fuck in front off me by a man with a big dick is the only thing I can think of these days. At that moment I saw she got a impulse of pleasure in her womb and she purses her lips. "OMG Whe realy have to do this for you isent't it ?" she asked me. Whe were both in trance I guess. Mayby next holiday honey she said but not here in our home.

So it go's on for a few years now. The next morning mostly she's over it and keep remind me it's only a fantasy... .
I will not push her. She know I'm OK with it and she decides if it ever will happen, where and with whom.
 
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So I’ve read over the comments and here’s my review.
Everyone has an opinion, be careful it’s not their wife, family or life that’s at stake.
Women are often more conservative in our fantasies, men nudge us and we evolve. Sexually I was so different in my 20-30s I’m possibly now a dirty old lady. BUT, I don’t act on most of my fantasies. Why not? Because being in a monogamous relationship is much more of a long term fulfilling life for me.
Now role play. Just take it slow and use it to fuel her fire.
My ex hadn’t explored sexually in the world, the way I had and wanted to try role playing. It was fun when he said one night as he was doing me doggie style, “You are so hot... umm your pussy is so wet and tight... umm just imagine that you’ve got a big black dick in your mouth.” Bam I came all over him.
The key is to move on from something if she doesn’t react and try other things. Also don’t obsess on any one fantasy it can’t always just be about your fantasies, she’ll start developing them, she probably isn’t going to share them either, but her pussy will let you know you’ve hit on something.
Also, I recommend the 1970s book, “My Secret Garden,” by Nancy Friday. This book made me understand my dark fantasies aren’t strange but just normal. We usually like to think we’re not weird. We also don’t want to do things we’ll regret because you often can’t fix a broken marriage.
Finally, I was married to the love of my life who always wanted me to do kinky *******. He has premature ejaculation issues (he was young this was normal), I had an affair (living and working far away), from which he never recovered. But... he set a lot of this ******* up by always wanting me to do kinky *******. The last time we had sex he said, “I’m not sure I can sexually satisfy you, so you can have other men.”
In fantasy everyone comes out unscathed, in real life there’s egos and so much more. Today my fantasies usually are given to strangers I’ll never meet who can’t affect my life. Easy! Orgasms, porn, stories shared, go off into them when “I” chose because it’s my life at stake here, others could really care less if they hurt me, because, well, people are self centered and often fools.
Tread lightly!
Well talking of her pussy letting me know we started to talk about swinging couple weeks back and she was soaking ended up having sex 3 times that night . 3 usually do it 3 times a week lol . It was the most turned on I seen her in an while she even asked me which would you like me to fuck a older guy or a younger guy? And we been speaking about it since I was very shocked to say the least
 
So I had this fetish/fantasy for 5 years now, my wife's aware of what I like she doesn't talk on it to much though . We have a black dildo she enjoys it alot and so do I watching her ride it , she cums and creams up on it hard and its her fav dildo out our selection.. sometimes I think things are better left a fantasy to avoid disappointment, I think the reality will never be as good as you imagine in your head , especially as my wife claims not to be that into black guys , but I love this site and I wont ever stop IR porn and the fantasy will stick with me for the rest of my life I feel , it's a hot fantasy to have i enjoy taking to people who share the same feelings . Dont get me wrong I'd love to see my wife getting blacked theres nothing more I'd love to see then some bbc balls deep in her but I know it cant be a reality for numerous reasons but still il live with this fantasy for the rest of my life as obviously you cannot ******* you wife into something you like for your own pleasure
I will have to stay with fantasy because my wife will not take black dick. However, over time she's said yes twice to taking black dick and we've had two black vibrators. We started to use them but they've disappeared over the last few years. I rest my story. Any help and advice appreciated.
 
Well, from fantasy to reality maybe a very long development, if she is really interested to make it happen. Took 4 years for Sarah to do it. And it happened on vacations with a really cool guy. Everything on this special evening was perfect, the mood, the excitement and finally we did it, She was the centre of attention, we both kissed and caressed her. I will never forget when i frenchkissed my wife as the black guy started to push his big cock in Sarahs pussy---it was so natural and amazing---Sex lasted all night long and we never regretted it. Back from vacations we started to think about a regular bull, but that was very complicated.
Finally dont push your wife---let the things roll --or maybe it will never happen---thats life.
 
I’ve discussed the fantasy with my wife for years, at least 10, but it will remain a fantasy for us. Over the years she’s gone from repulsed at the idea of extramarital sex to watching cuckold porn and masturbating and role playing in the bedroom which has been getting hotter through the years. But it’ll always be fetish/fantasy
 
Thanks for your reply. She's a very one person women. She's been with me 11 years and we have a great relationship. Great sex life to . We literally use the black dildo every fortnight I'd say it's her favourite one but she tells me she's not into black guys.. she thinks cheating is disgusting and stuff so its quite hard to touch on .. she found IR porn on my phone before she says u love black dicks in white pussies dont you . I just laughed it off haha .. she knows I like hence the dildo . I think I mentioned it before and she was like if you love me you wouldn't want another man to touch me so I just left it there really I ain't the type to pressure her

well, your wife slammed the door with "if you love me you wouldn't want another man to touch me"
ok, fair enough, but just saying...
she knows you have this fantasy about her and she seems to be ok with it to some degree.
so, I'm thinking, next time she's fucking herself with that black dildo, when she's close to orgasm or in it,
maybe whisper, "I'd love to see a Black man fucking you like this"

She might get off then say shut up afterwards lol.
Or, she might really begin to associate in her mind her orgasm with sex with a Black man. The possibility.
Maybe worth a try without pushing it too hard.
 
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