(...) Cause if a bull made it to the point where he is around your wife last thing on the mind is being disrespectful.....(...)
Thank you. That is exactly the point i was trying to make.
Yea, the fact that your last 3 lines are riddle in violence and aggression. Shows you already lost the battle. (...)
My statement wasn`t anything even close to being violent or aggressive. If it comes across like that then i am honestly sorry. - That wasn`t my intention
at all!
BTW as far as i am concerned there is no "battle" here to be won or lost in the first place.
My posting was a response to what`s been said in earlier posts on this thread. Maybe it helps to reread the thread in order to get the correct context?
What i was trying to say is that couples participating in this kind of sexual lifestyle have their life apart from meeting with guys. Usually it is
not their top priority to entertain a stranger. They are a couple for a reason, and naturally the partners will always come first.
Some guys do not (want to) understand that and therefore start bitching about to no avail. *lol*
(...)If you already feeling that way this isn't the lifestyle for you.(...)
That may be true. Depending on what exact lifestyle you are talking about.
My sense of the lifestyle
i take part in is a safe, sane and consensual environment where there is a place and respect for every one involved. i consider an additional player neither a toy nor a master. i accept the fact that everyone has a life, a schedule, and a reason to be in an adult lifestyle
of their choice. Only if our mindsets are on the same page i will even consider to play.
That implies that there has to be a conversation with a potential player first in order to find out if we make a match or not.
Like
@poundcake26 said on
another thread...
(...) Some of what comes across as wasting someone’s time is actually the “getting to know you” period. Some folks like to get to know who they might be meeting up with. (...)
So, to anyone who doesn`t feel the need to put some effort in the process that might lead to an actual meeting and those who think "the lifestyle" is all about them getting pussy ASAP, i suggest to stick to their own
true lifestyle. That is the
vanilla single and dating lifestyle.