Whats the best way to get wifes forst bbc

[Wifewant1stbbc]

Do i set her up and let her fuck a guy behind my back and leave it to her to tell me? Or set it up and be part of it, both situations turn me on, and i can still leave it to her to be the agressor

 

[Kivi003]

the way she wants it. just be close by but let her have privacy i guess its the best thing