What don't I enjoy? Mainly it was all the BS guys would tell us just to get into our bed. It's amazing how many 12 inch dicks turn out to be 6 when you finally get the real pics. It's amazing how many guys think that a caveman-like approach will get them into our bed. It's amazing how many "couples" turned out to be guys with imaginary mates. It's amazing how many BS stories guys tell. Really? How stupid do they think we are?
What they don't understand: We're submissive ... absolutely. You can be totally aggressive in the sack ... take total control ... live your darkest fantasy ... we love that. But we're also not dumb and we're not push overs unless we want to be. It takes more than a hardon, a double digit IQ and transparent lies to get us into bed.
We did manage to find a few ... out of dozens ... that were honest, got through the initial coffee shop meeting and ultimately ended up in bed with us. Not an easy process .... but oh sooooo hot when it worked out!
Now we've evolved our plans into private parties. Someone else does the screening. Someone else hosts. Instead of just one guy or one couple we have several to choose from when we get there. Much better ... much better odds of success.