I said foreplay as well. Just as real life is not all about sex (contrary to what some on this board may want to believe), sex is not all about penetration. Especially when things are new between partners, it's absolutely electrifying to feel his lips on yours, his hands roaming all over your body. Caressing your back, your breasts, your hair, your face, before ending up on your backside to pull you closer to him.
And then, to do it all again once the clothes come off.
Him, between your legs, using his tongue and lips to push you up Bliss mountain and set off the fireworks that send you to extasy. Then you, between his legs, using your lips and tongue to explore every inch of his shaft and now aching balls.
Getting both of you hot and bothered and oh so ready for the rest to follow. And, with great foreplay, what follows is even better than it would be otherwise.