I don't think there's anything perverse about another man fucking my wife because I love her very much. Although, I'm almost eight inches, there's a lot of humiliation involved with an oversized black man. For example, I did badger Janet for three long years to have sex with another guy. She says, "now it's my turn to honor her" and while I'm not under-endowed she thinks, "it's good for me to be put in my place." She told me, "a happy wife needs both support and sexual satisfaction and I am supporting her while she's catching up on me by having sex with a well-endowed black man." She has told me, "Its' my duty to shower her with encouragement so she'll know I don't think less of her and I'm an active participant in her sexual fulfillment." We agree on what she said that, "Many black dudes will be surprised when they realize that my sexual satisfaction is your only duty."
Janet has said, "We're here because you brought us here and you need to accept the fact that you can't satisfy me like a black man, but I love you and I don't hold it against you and you don't need to worry about me leaving you." I did want to see her make it with another guy although I didn't specify a black guy. Finally, in the the four experiences that Janet has enjoyed (although some have lasted as long as a year and a half and none has been shorter than six months) I learned that it turns a black guy on fucking your wife in front of you and making her orgasm like crazy while her husband is reduced to masturbating while he watches them.