What Are the Thoughts by Black Men who are set up with White Girl Friends, Wives and Mothers.

[The Arranger]

First off I know that this does not happen often as I have checked out more than a few of the male responses about not meeting up. So this is for those that have met up. Was it what you expected. If so why. If not why.

Did the husband miss represent the couple.
Did the husband miss represent their expectations.
Was the meeting rushed.

How could the husband have improved the meeting.

In my case I like to meet on a public beach with a news paper bag full of toys like a foot ball, base balls and gloves. A game of catch is a great ice breaker.

if the meeting is mid week I like to have the meeting at a clothing optional beach again with my news paper bag of ice breaking balls and gloves.

If all goes well the next move is a meal on a patio near by.

Why because of the amount of effort in meeting a possible play mate i ‘ We want it to succeed if all possible.

 

[SCBlknNsty]

The topic is a great one, although I'm not as comfy with the choices. Overwhelmingly my experience has been most communication has been initiated by the male partner. While I think 'misrepresented' is too strong a word, I do think most of them moreso express their own fantasy/ view as opposed to hers or what aspects they agree on. Lastly, most first meetings are to 'do the deed' than to meet and assess then meet again for it.

 

[The Arranger]

first off thanks for taking the time to reply.
I am open to more choices if it makes meetings more comfortable for all involved.
meetings in a public area be it part or beach give everyone the opportunity to say no this is not working for me.

now if all the ladies wanted was a quick roll in the hay there are singles bars and male ******* ads.

no the ladies are looking for more.
so what I am looking for is how to make a better experience for the male half so that he wants to have as second date.

 

[Pcrook]

For me it was successful and not too intimidating because I don't expect it to be any pressure. I do except to actually meeting the people. I have had some successful meetings and others not so much. You must go with an open mind and self-esteem that you have done all you can to make it happen!

 

[blkbull4whtcpl]

I've been in this lifestyle for many years now...the most successful meets are with women who WANT to meet YOU! Most of us already know that a good number of gfs/wives are dragged into this without full committment for a variety of reasons. NOT that they don't fantasize about sex with someone else...MOST women do just like men do. However, women are NOT like men...they just don't go..."oh, he wants to fuck me...sure no problem, I'll just take a shower and head over to his house". It takes so level of connection/attraction to develop first. I've found that men can help set up the FIRST meet and the rest is up to the woman and you. Even if she is feeling you...MOST won't just go to the nearest hotel room with you. Unless that was the arrangement from the beginning. Again my experience has taught me the BEST sex comes from time invested in the relationship. Sure it feels good to have uncomplicated sex from some man's woman. It hasn't been anywhere close to the intensity when it is developed over time. Time could mean a couple meets and chats...or months of chatting, followed by a meet once or twice and finally that moment. Regardless which option the meet is (meet n fuck or develop it) the woman has to drive it...she has to really want it. Not just doing this for hubby. My objective has always to drive her desire for me to be long lasting...want to meet me again no matter the stakes, think about me and she together often, masturbate or have sex wishing it were me. That simply doesn't happen as often or as well with a meet n greet n fuck. Nor does it work well if the husband is really driving things and she is merely going along with it. Been in a enough of those scenarios to have learned early...."very nice offer, I'm flattered you would pick me...but I decline...good luck!"

 

[Apostle]

I've been in this lifestyle for many years now...the most successful meets are with women who WANT to meet YOU! Most of us already know that a good number of gfs/wives are dragged into this without full committment for a variety of reasons. NOT that they don't fantasize about sex with someone else...MOST women do just like men do. However, women are NOT like men...they just don't go..."oh, he wants to fuck me...sure no problem, I'll just take a shower and head over to his house". It takes so level of connection/attraction to develop first. I've found that men can help set up the FIRST meet and the rest is up to the woman and you. Even if she is feeling you...MOST won't just go to the nearest hotel room with you. Unless that was the arrangement from the beginning. Again my experience has taught me the BEST sex comes from time invested in the relationship. Sure it feels good to have uncomplicated sex from some man's woman. It hasn't been anywhere close to the intensity when it is developed over time. Time could mean a couple meets and chats...or months of chatting, followed by a meet once or twice and finally that moment. Regardless which option the meet is (meet n fuck or develop it) the woman has to drive it...she has to really want it. Not just doing this for hubby. My objective has always to drive her desire for me to be long lasting...want to meet me again no matter the stakes, think about me and she together often, masturbate or have sex wishing it were me. That simply doesn't happen as often or as well with a meet n greet n fuck. Nor does it work well if the husband is really driving things and she is merely going along with it. Been in a enough of those scenarios to have learned early...."very nice offer, I'm flattered you would pick me...but I decline...good luck!"

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[Hardrock19999]

First off I know that this does not happen often as I have checked out more than a few of the male responses about not meeting up. So this is for those that have met up. Was it what you expected. If so why. If not why.

Did the husband miss represent the couple.
Did the husband miss represent their expectations.
Was the meeting rushed.

How could the husband have improved the meeting.

In my case I like to meet on a public beach with a news paper bag full of toys like a foot ball, base balls and gloves. A game of catch is a great ice breaker.

if the meeting is mid week I like to have the meeting at a clothing optional beach again with my news paper bag of ice breaking balls and gloves.

If all goes well the next move is a meal on a patio near by.

Why because of the amount of effort in meeting a possible play mate i ‘ We want it to succeed if all possible.

I am a black bi bull in North Houston Texas. I was with my last couple, caucasian, hotwife and cuck, for over a year until they moved recently. I find that the guy usually is the one with the fantasy first. He doesn't tell his wife the part where not only does he want to watch..but he wants to suck cock and get fucked as well. In my last couple we moved slowly to that point. I played alone with him until she was comfortable watching her "alpha" husband get dominated by me. By then it was a huge turn on for her

 

[Hardrock19999]

I am a black bi bull in North Houston Texas. I was with my last couple, caucasian, hotwife and cuck, for over a year until they moved recently. I find that the guy usually is the one with the fantasy first. He doesn't tell his wife the part where not only does he want to watch..but he wants to suck cock and get fucked as well. In my last couple we moved slowly to that point. I played alone with him until she was comfortable watching her "alpha" husband get dominated by me. By then it was a huge turn on for her

I also agree that the best experiences have come from conversations, getting to know the couple and making sure she is onboard from the beginning. Most interesting to me is when the guy is curious and the wife doesn't realize it, And once expressed how interesting the conversation can become

 

[William]

I've been in this lifestyle for many years now...the most successful meets are with women who WANT to meet YOU! Most of us already know that a good number of gfs/wives are dragged into this without full committment for a variety of reasons. NOT that they don't fantasize about sex with someone else...MOST women do just like men do. However, women are NOT like men...they just don't go..."oh, he wants to fuck me...sure no problem, I'll just take a shower and head over to his house". It takes so level of connection/attraction to develop first. I've found that men can help set up the FIRST meet and the rest is up to the woman and you. Even if she is feeling you...MOST won't just go to the nearest hotel room with you. Unless that was the arrangement from the beginning. Again my experience has taught me the BEST sex comes from time invested in the relationship. Sure it feels good to have uncomplicated sex from some man's woman. It hasn't been anywhere close to the intensity when it is developed over time. Time could mean a couple meets and chats...or months of chatting, followed by a meet once or twice and finally that moment. Regardless which option the meet is (meet n fuck or develop it) the woman has to drive it...she has to really want it. Not just doing this for hubby. My objective has always to drive her desire for me to be long lasting...want to meet me again no matter the stakes, think about me and she together often, masturbate or have sex wishing it were me. That simply doesn't happen as often or as well with a meet n greet n fuck. Nor does it work well if the husband is really driving things and she is merely going along with it. Been in a enough of those scenarios to have learned early...."very nice offer, I'm flattered you would pick me...but I decline...good luck!"

Thanks very helpful information..

 

[Mike Awesome]

I completely agree with everything said here. Just to piggy back. There is also a misconception of most bulls being the bullshitters and ghosting couples. A good amount of the time it's couples, or the husband, or couples really not fully ready playing games. Making you jump thru multiple hoops, re asking for more pics right now etc etc....Yes there must be trust, safety, attraction, understanding from both side on wants, needs, and who is running the show. Are we free to play or are we gonna have do this do that move around like this or that. Cause some husbands are super overbearing about this. I tend to try and find the long term situation works out best to build up a relationship of loyalty and trust with one couple you enjoy the most, and that enjoys you and stick with it. This way you avoid alot of the BS you see people talk about on BTW.

 

[William]

I've been in this lifestyle for many years now...the most successful meets are with women who WANT to meet YOU! Most of us already know that a good number of gfs/wives are dragged into this without full committment for a variety of reasons. NOT that they don't fantasize about sex with someone else...MOST women do just like men do. However, women are NOT like men...they just don't go..."oh, he wants to fuck me...sure no problem, I'll just take a shower and head over to his house". It takes so level of connection/attraction to develop first. I've found that men can help set up the FIRST meet and the rest is up to the woman and you. Even if she is feeling you...MOST won't just go to the nearest hotel room with you. Unless that was the arrangement from the beginning. Again my experience has taught me the BEST sex comes from time invested in the relationship. Sure it feels good to have uncomplicated sex from some man's woman. It hasn't been anywhere close to the intensity when it is developed over time. Time could mean a couple meets and chats...or months of chatting, followed by a meet once or twice and finally that moment. Regardless which option the meet is (meet n fuck or develop it) the woman has to drive it...she has to really want it. Not just doing this for hubby. My objective has always to drive her desire for me to be long lasting...want to meet me again no matter the stakes, think about me and she together often, masturbate or have sex wishing it were me. That simply doesn't happen as often or as well with a meet n greet n fuck. Nor does it work well if the husband is really driving things and she is merely going along with it. Been in a enough of those scenarios to have learned early...."very nice offer, I'm flattered you would pick me...but I decline...good luck!"

Thanks, great advice...
I'm at the fantasy stage, my wife is 58, and enjoys interracial porn and stories talks to me about being a black cock slut, cleaning up after.
So I believe she has a genuine attraction.

 

[runincuck]

I've been in this lifestyle for many years now...the most successful meets are with women who WANT to meet YOU! Most of us already know that a good number of gfs/wives are dragged into this without full committment for a variety of reasons. NOT that they don't fantasize about sex with someone else...MOST women do just like men do. However, women are NOT like men...they just don't go..."oh, he wants to fuck me...sure no problem, I'll just take a shower and head over to his house". It takes so level of connection/attraction to develop first. I've found that men can help set up the FIRST meet and the rest is up to the woman and you. Even if she is feeling you...MOST won't just go to the nearest hotel room with you. Unless that was the arrangement from the beginning. Again my experience has taught me the BEST sex comes from time invested in the relationship. Sure it feels good to have uncomplicated sex from some man's woman. It hasn't been anywhere close to the intensity when it is developed over time. Time could mean a couple meets and chats...or months of chatting, followed by a meet once or twice and finally that moment. Regardless which option the meet is (meet n fuck or develop it) the woman has to drive it...she has to really want it. Not just doing this for hubby. My objective has always to drive her desire for me to be long lasting...want to meet me again no matter the stakes, think about me and she together often, masturbate or have sex wishing it were me. That simply doesn't happen as often or as well with a meet n greet n fuck. Nor does it work well if the husband is really driving things and she is merely going along with it. Been in a enough of those scenarios to have learned early...."very nice offer, I'm flattered you would pick me...but I decline...good luck!"

One-hundred percent totally true.