Turning IR cuckold fantasies into reality or keeping it a fantasy

Since you have initiated the talk , I would like to tell my story.
I never realized if cuckolding exist back in 2017 but when I came across to one of the video which totally shook up and made me aware about this wonderful lifestyle. Before this I wanted to share my partner but it was just a thought and I was not bothering it too much. Since that first video I have been only watching BBC , interracial porn and only thinking about my partner with a BBC. This is still a fantasy for me but I am trying to make my partner realize how wonderful it will be for her to climb one BBC and I am seeing it.
I understand the desire to see your white wife have sex with a big black lover. It is something that I also desire intensely, though I don't have a wife or partner. I think once the thought of seeing your white wife with a big hung black man has been conceived it's not easy to exclude it from one's mind.

Once the image and associated feeling is there, it is so hard to revoke it. Do I wish I could? I don't know. It is now a part of who I am and what I want.
 
I understand the desire to see your white wife have sex with a big black lover. It is something that I also desire intensely, though I don't have a wife or partner. I think once the thought of seeing your white wife with a big hung black man has been conceived it's not easy to exclude it from one's mind.

Once the image and associated feeling is there, it is so hard to revoke it. Do I wish I could? I don't know. It is now a part of who I am and what I want.
You can imagine since you don't have any partner yet and feeling like this ...how I am feeling when I have a wife . Sometimes cant control such feelings...it overpowers me.
 
Most of us white cuck wannabes fantasise about being in a interracial cuckold relationship but how many actually want to make it a reality? It appears that many cuck wannabes on here are actually already married or with a partner but haven't yet disclosed their interracial fantasies to their partner. I wonder if most of these cuck wannabes would truly like to see their partner with big black men or is it an exciting fantasy that they want to keep to themselves?

On reflecting on past relationships I would have had trouble broaching this interracial subject with a partner, and I think I would have also found it difficult to make the transition from a monogamous vanilla relationship to an interracial cuckold one. I feel the perceptions my partners had of me would have been completely shaken and we would be taking a direction that wasn't expected at the outset of the relationships. Not to say that's a bad thing, but I don't think I could have broached the subject.

Other cuck wannabes who aren't married (like myself) are in a slightly different position, in that we don't have the angst of trying to broach the interracial subject with a partner, but we do have the difficulty of actually finding a partner. This means stating at the outset that you are a cuck, with a cuck's sexuality and psychology. And this may not be attractive to most women, especially white women who like big black men, the ones we want as partners.

And again, is it just a fantasy or do we want to make it a reality? Of course, this depends on the individual cuck wannabes but do most of us cuck wannabes actually know ourselves how far will we go? Will we back out at the last moment? I do know that the IR cuckold desires only seem to increase with time and for some, what was once a fantasy may actually manifest itself into reality.

Would like to hear how others feel about this.
I've been a wanna be cuck for over 10 years I think it's time I live these fantasy's out in real life
 
We discussed this issue years ago , my husband is a lot older than me , one night we we watching a porn movie with two black men with a white woman , the sex scene turned us both on ,Steve over the next few months bought up the scene in bed and I must admit it did turn me on to point I ended up very wet ,that gave him the idea to seek a black lover .
I became comfortable with the idea so long as I liked the male he found , he befriended a black co worker and you can read the result , we have had some great results over the years ,now in my fifties and still enjoy the lifestyle.
 
Most of us white cuck wannabes fantasise about being in a interracial cuckold relationship but how many actually want to make it a reality? It appears that many cuck wannabes on here are actually already married or with a partner but haven't yet disclosed their interracial fantasies to their partner. I wonder if most of these cuck wannabes would truly like to see their partner with big black men or is it an exciting fantasy that they want to keep to themselves?

On reflecting on past relationships I would have had trouble broaching this interracial subject with a partner, and I think I would have also found it difficult to make the transition from a monogamous vanilla relationship to an interracial cuckold one. I feel the perceptions my partners had of me would have been completely shaken and we would be taking a direction that wasn't expected at the outset of the relationships. Not to say that's a bad thing, but I don't think I could have broached the subject.

Other cuck wannabes who aren't married (like myself) are in a slightly different position, in that we don't have the angst of trying to broach the interracial subject with a partner, but we do have the difficulty of actually finding a partner. This means stating at the outset that you are a cuck, with a cuck's sexuality and psychology. And this may not be attractive to most women, especially white women who like big black men, the ones we want as partners.

And again, is it just a fantasy or do we want to make it a reality? Of course, this depends on the individual cuck wannabes but do most of us cuck wannabes actually know ourselves how far will we go? Will we back out at the last moment? I do know that the IR cuckold desires only seem to increase with time and for some, what was once a fantasy may actually manifest itself into reality.

Would like to hear how others feel about this.
My ex wife and I had an amazing 20 year marriage and incredible sex life even for a bit after our divorce. Sex that included but not dominated or overwhelmed by this lifestyle. But obviously once there was a BBC, then when another guy was involved he was black
As far as now, I date snd have sec with different women. Each one that comes along, I deeply hope she will be open to exploring great sex, all types
But first choice would be BBC,
 
Since you have initiated the talk , I would like to tell my story.
I never realized if cuckolding exist back in 2017 but when I came across to one of the video which totally shook up and made me aware about this wonderful lifestyle. Before this I wanted to share my partner but it was just a thought and I was not bothering it too much. Since that first video I have been only watching BBC , interracial porn and only thinking about my partner with a BBC. This is still a fantasy for me but I am trying to make my partner realize how wonderful it will be for her to climb one BBC and I am seeing it.
which video?
 
We discussed this issue years ago , my husband is a lot older than me , one night we we watching a porn movie with two black men with a white woman , the sex scene turned us both on ,Steve over the next few months bought up the scene in bed and I must admit it did turn me on to point I ended up very wet ,that gave him the idea to seek a black lover .
I became comfortable with the idea so long as I liked the male he found , he befriended a black co worker and you can read the result , we have had some great results over the years ,now in my fifties and still enjoy the lifestyle.
Great to hear you've had so much pleasure from the interracial cuckold lifestyle. Interesting how powerful watching interracial porn can be too. I'm not sure many white couples could watch black men/white women IR porn and not get excited by the aesthetic beauty and eroticism.
 
I think it may take years to move from interracial cuckold desires to actually living the IR cuckold relationship. There is just such a profound shift in self-perception, open discussion with partners of your desires and meeting the right people.

That said, I can't go back, I can only go forward. And that means finding the lady to make my, and her, dreams come true.
 
I think it may take years to move from interracial cuckold desires to actually living the IR cuckold relationship. There is just such a profound shift in self-perception, open discussion with partners of your desires and meeting the right people.

That said, I can't go back, I can only go forward. And that means finding the lady to make my, and her, dreams come true.
Much depends on the woman and her attitude about sex. Is she fully satisfied with her current sex life? Is she adventurous and inclined to try new things? Some women are much more easy to convince than others. My first wife was very xcited about taking a black lover since she had heard from one of her friends about how virile black men are. Sometimes it doesn't take as long to convince your woman as you might think.
 
For me it's not a question of convincing my partner to try the interracial cuckold lifestyle, but rather meet a white lady who wants to live the interracial cuckold lifestyle. Not sure which is the easier?
 
Most of us white cuck wannabes fantasise about being in a interracial cuckold relationship but how many actually want to make it a reality? It appears that many cuck wannabes on here are actually already married or with a partner but haven't yet disclosed their interracial fantasies to their partner. I wonder if most of these cuck wannabes would truly like to see their partner with big black men or is it an exciting fantasy that they want to keep to themselves?

On reflecting on past relationships I would have had trouble broaching this interracial subject with a partner, and I think I would have also found it difficult to make the transition from a monogamous vanilla relationship to an interracial cuckold one. I feel the perceptions my partners had of me would have been completely shaken and we would be taking a direction that wasn't expected at the outset of the relationships. Not to say that's a bad thing, but I don't think I could have broached the subject.

Other cuck wannabes who aren't married (like myself) are in a slightly different position, in that we don't have the angst of trying to broach the interracial subject with a partner, but we do have the difficulty of actually finding a partner. This means stating at the outset that you are a cuck, with a cuck's sexuality and psychology. And this may not be attractive to most women, especially white women who like big black men, the ones we want as partners.

And again, is it just a fantasy or do we want to make it a reality? Of course, this depends on the individual cuck wannabes but do most of us cuck wannabes actually know ourselves how far will we go? Will we back out at the last moment? I do know that the IR cuckold desires only seem to increase with time and for some, what was once a fantasy may actually manifest itself into reality.

Would like to hear how others feel about this.
I can tell you from someone that was in this for many years and in the end it ended my marriage.
The sharing was my idea and the interacial part happened with the last guy just by chance. Yes it was a big fantasy of mine to see her with black and it turns out it was for her to even though she never admit that till the end. It did however change our marriage quickly she stopped seeing me as her main man in the marriage and quickly became about him.

Yes we divorced if you want to know more message me.

Yes now single and it's extremely hard finding a woman into this from the get go.
 
I understand the desire to see your white wife have sex with a big black lover. It is something that I also desire intensely, though I don't have a wife or partner. I think once the thought of seeing your white wife with a big hung black man has been conceived it's not easy to exclude it from one's mind.

Once the image and associated feeling is there, it is so hard to revoke it. Do I wish I could? I don't know. It is now a part of who I am and what I want.
I think about it daily.
 
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