Trying to venture into this lifestyle need help..

[mw29]

Advice and direction desperately needed by cuckold minded white husband 11 yrs in committed marriage.

I cannot satisfy her with my tiny cock (almost never cums) as we rarely have sex but she is sexual person and still wants me sexually, I need help and guidance on how to persuade her to be with another man (black). She is unaware I want this for her and our marriage but has been talking about bigger cock and black men when i push her in fantasy talk in a joking playfully way. I am desperate for any help please from black men or anyone that can truly guide and help our marriage..

 

[rocuck]

This seems to be a common problem and it really should not be. First of all I believe that black men are better than white boys. All the time and in every way. Some will not agree but I base this on what I see in the real world. Secondly I think most white women would secretly like to be with black men. I also think that white boys go through *******. There is a part of a white boy who tries to fight reality and tries to act like a man. If you are white you are a boy and will get frustrated trying to be a man. The other part of a white boy is one who deep down knows how things are meant to be. They want to be more submissive and in some cases even feminine. They actually appreciate guidance that they can get from a white woman or, if lucky, a black man. So white boys have this inner struggle and they often turn to porn and fantasy to get relief. White women also struggle with how they think they should behave and be and what they really want. Black men are also frustrated having to deal with white boys who may interfere with them and white women who act aloof. They are entitled to something different. This is how I feel things are.

I think the burden to fix this should fall on the white boy mainly and also the white woman. Black men have done nothing wrong and are being victimized every time a white woman is with a white boy. They did not cause the issue. They are the solution. From the point of a white boy I think a starting point is the size of the penis. White boys are smaller and less virile on average but there is a spectrum. It is the fact that you are white that matters, However, being small helps. A small penis is under four inches. Under two inches is a micropenis. If you are a white boy with a wife or girlfriend you can use this to her advantage. First of all your goal is to become a friend to your wife or girlfriend. Not a lover or a romantic interest. With a smaller penis you can constantly apologize for the size. You can make fun of it. You can try to be sure it does not work. If your wife is interested in sex you should masturbate two or three times before so you are spent. You should watch interracial porn always when masturbating as it does not hurt for both of you to begin to associate orgasm with a black cock. You can perform oral on your wife or girlfriend but try to discourage her doing it for you. The main thing is to try and be limp. You can tell her how sexy she is and how she deserves better. While this is going on you can start acting like a friend. Do housework. Take her out shopping. Try to buy sexy outfits for her. Whenever you go out and you see a black man you should tell her that the black guy was checking her out. Always. Always comment on interracial couples and always compliment your wife. You can be out with her and just joke around and mention how she seems to be a magnet for black men. Tell her that she has not even dressed the part or done anything to attract the attention. She may ask back in a joking matter if she should dress sexier. You should encourage that and just keep it fun. She will eventually make some comment or question about why you always talk about black men. At that point you can be serious and just tell her that everyone knows that black men are really masculine and more or less better and that white boys are just a little jealous. You can then add that you want her to know that you are not jealous that she gets stared down by black men. You are actually proud of her and somewhat in awe. Tell her that that is the ultimate compliment for a white woman. To be looked at or approached by a black man. Make it all fun. If the opportunity arises make some comment in front of a friend of hers. It lets her know that this is natural and OK. For boys who are larger in size I think the approach is sort of the same but you cannot comment on your size. The keeping it limp part helps but everything else should work.

I think all of this will set the stage. At home you can watch mainstream movies or videos featuring interracial relationships. They are becoming the norm so it should be easy. Always try to search these out and make it fun. Be positive. If conditions seem right you can try to act like a joke but find a reason to watch an interracial porn video. You can start like just a fun thing and then just tell her how great the man is. And tell her how natural and lovely the woman is. When done you can say something like you now understand why there is so much interracial. You can sort of joke that you could never ever compete but you know she could. If she is going along with all of this you can then try to connect her. You can go out to a nightclub or just some routine place like the grocery for that matter. If there is a black man there find a reason to try and start a conversation. You can then personally find some other place to go to like the bathroom and leave your wife with him for a t least a short time. When you come back you can mention how he seemed to be turned on by her and how exciting that was for you. When she says that she is married or she would never cheat or something like that you can then make your pitch. You can tell her that you appreciate how she feels and that you love her but if she ever had an opportunity to be with a black man you would never say no to that. After all not everybody gets to actually realize something like that and that you would always want what is best for her. You can also joke and say something like "It's not exactly like I can scratch that itch". Once she is with a black man a single time she will be hooked in all likelihood. It is important then that you give her and her new boyfriend space and you encourage her and commend her at all times. Tell her it is the most exciting thing you have seen and you are happy that she is finally getting a decent sex life that you could not give her. You can beg her to do it again and tell her how happy you are to not have the pressure on you to do something you are not good at. Be positive and encouraging. Branching out from this to becoming more subservient to black men outside of sex will follow for both of you in my opinion.

I was motivated to kind of write a long reply to this but I think this is one approach. There will be some who do not agree with me and actually come to this with an idea of what they can get out of it all. I think all us will be happier if white women are exclusive to black men. It is just that simple. White boys are more naturally suited to support and serve and stroke and be bottoms or whatever. Anyways that is how I see it. I would be interested in any other ideas or modifications. Best of luck mw. You seem to really be thinking the right way. I suspect your wife will figure it all out.

 

[mw29]

This seems to be a common problem and it really should not be. First of all I believe that black men are better than white boys. All the time and in every way. Some will not agree but I base this on what I see in the real world. Secondly I think most white women would secretly like to be with black men. I also think that white boys go through *******. There is a part of a white boy who tries to fight reality and tries to act like a man. If you are white you are a boy and will get frustrated trying to be a man. The other part of a white boy is one who deep down knows how things are meant to be. They want to be more submissive and in some cases even feminine. They actually appreciate guidance that they can get from a white woman or, if lucky, a black man. So white boys have this inner struggle and they often turn to porn and fantasy to get relief. White women also struggle with how they think they should behave and be and what they really want. Black men are also frustrated having to deal with white boys who may interfere with them and white women who act aloof. They are entitled to something different. This is how I feel things are.

I think the burden to fix this should fall on the white boy mainly and also the white woman. Black men have done nothing wrong and are being victimized every time a white woman is with a white boy. They did not cause the issue. They are the solution. From the point of a white boy I think a starting point is the size of the penis. White boys are smaller and less virile on average but there is a spectrum. It is the fact that you are white that matters, However, being small helps. A small penis is under four inches. Under two inches is a micropenis. If you are a white boy with a wife or girlfriend you can use this to her advantage. First of all your goal is to become a friend to your wife or girlfriend. Not a lover or a romantic interest. With a smaller penis you can constantly apologize for the size. You can make fun of it. You can try to be sure it does not work. If your wife is interested in sex you should masturbate two or three times before so you are spent. You should watch interracial porn always when masturbating as it does not hurt for both of you to begin to associate orgasm with a black cock. You can perform oral on your wife or girlfriend but try to discourage her doing it for you. The main thing is to try and be limp. You can tell her how sexy she is and how she deserves better. While this is going on you can start acting like a friend. Do housework. Take her out shopping. Try to buy sexy outfits for her. Whenever you go out and you see a black man you should tell her that the black guy was checking her out. Always. Always comment on interracial couples and always compliment your wife. You can be out with her and just joke around and mention how she seems to be a magnet for black men. Tell her that she has not even dressed the part or done anything to attract the attention. She may ask back in a joking matter if she should dress sexier. You should encourage that and just keep it fun. She will eventually make some comment or question about why you always talk about black men. At that point you can be serious and just tell her that everyone knows that black men are really masculine and more or less better and that white boys are just a little jealous. You can then add that you want her to know that you are not jealous that she gets stared down by black men. You are actually proud of her and somewhat in awe. Tell her that that is the ultimate compliment for a white woman. To be looked at or approached by a black man. Make it all fun. If the opportunity arises make some comment in front of a friend of hers. It lets her know that this is natural and OK. For boys who are larger in size I think the approach is sort of the same but you cannot comment on your size. The keeping it limp part helps but everything else should work.

I think all of this will set the stage. At home you can watch mainstream movies or videos featuring interracial relationships. They are becoming the norm so it should be easy. Always try to search these out and make it fun. Be positive. If conditions seem right you can try to act like a joke but find a reason to watch an interracial porn video. You can start like just a fun thing and then just tell her how great the man is. And tell her how natural and lovely the woman is. When done you can say something like you now understand why there is so much interracial. You can sort of joke that you could never ever compete but you know she could. If she is going along with all of this you can then try to connect her. You can go out to a nightclub or just some routine place like the grocery for that matter. If there is a black man there find a reason to try and start a conversation. You can then personally find some other place to go to like the bathroom and leave your wife with him for a t least a short time. When you come back you can mention how he seemed to be turned on by her and how exciting that was for you. When she says that she is married or she would never cheat or something like that you can then make your pitch. You can tell her that you appreciate how she feels and that you love her but if she ever had an opportunity to be with a black man you would never say no to that. After all not everybody gets to actually realize something like that and that you would always want what is best for her. You can also joke and say something like "It's not exactly like I can scratch that itch". Once she is with a black man a single time she will be hooked in all likelihood. It is important then that you give her and her new boyfriend space and you encourage her and commend her at all times. Tell her it is the most exciting thing you have seen and you are happy that she is finally getting a decent sex life that you could not give her. You can beg her to do it again and tell her how happy you are to not have the pressure on you to do something you are not good at. Be positive and encouraging. Branching out from this to becoming more subservient to black men outside of sex will follow for both of you in my opinion.

I was motivated to kind of write a long reply to this but I think this is one approach. There will be some who do not agree with me and actually come to this with an idea of what they can get out of it all. I think all us will be happier if white women are exclusive to black men. It is just that simple. White boys are more naturally suited to support and serve and stroke and be bottoms or whatever. Anyways that is how I see it. I would be interested in any other ideas or modifications. Best of luck mw. You seem to really be thinking the right way. I suspect your wife will figure it all out.

Amazing advice.. I could never thank you for it.

 

[Thegoodtj]

Advice and direction desperately needed by cuckold minded white husband 11 yrs in committed marriage.

I cannot satisfy her with my tiny cock (almost never cums) as we rarely have sex but she is sexual person and still wants me sexually, I need help and guidance on how t

Advice and direction desperately needed by cuckold minded white husband 11 yrs in committed marriage.

I cannot satisfy her with my tiny cock (almost never cums) as we rarely have sex but she is sexual person and still wants me sexually, I need help and guidance on how to persuade her to be with another man (black). She is unaware I want this for her and our marriage but has been talking about bigger cock and black men when i push her in fantasy talk in a joking playfully way. I am desperate for any help please from black men or anyone that can truly guide and help our marriage..

Advice and direction desperately needed by cuckold minded white husband 11 yrs in committed marriage.

I cannot satisfy her with my tiny cock (almost never cums) as we rarely have sex but she is sexual person and still wants me sexually, I need help and guidance on how to persuade her to be with another man (black). She is unaware I want this for her and our marriage but has been talking about bigger cock and black men when i push her in fantasy talk in a joking playfully way. I am desperate for any help please from black men or anyone that can truly guide and help our marriage..

Greetings from TJ and TheG00dFellaz. I will have a presentation on just this topic Friday Oct 23 at 10pm eastern. The topic of the discussion will be Considering the Shared Wife Lifestyle. I take into consideration the different mindsets that a husband or wife may have when the topic of Wife Sharing is presented to them. I will be asking and answering some of the following questions: Why does he want to share me?, Will she leave me for a lover I shared her with? and What's the Interracial fascination and few more questions. Also, at the end of the presentation, participants will have an opportunity to ask any other questions they may have concerning the Wife Sharing Lifestyle.

 

[Deadrick Thoma]

its best to start wit vids, but not just ir, start with reg vids, short ones, then have a IR video after a lil while...let it play for a while and after she watches it for 5-10 min reach down and see if she is really sticky wet, if she is then tell her that it turns you on that it turned her on so much....go down and after a few min ask her while video still on if she ever thought about doing a black guy...depending on her answer say you think its hot the way the skin contrast is on the guy and girl, and comment on how his cock glistens...tell her you would fuck a bbc if you were a woman...comment on how sexy it looks going into the girl, ask her if she thinks its hott? if she says yes then tell her you would love to imagine her doing it....then after a lil while tell her you have fantasized about her doing it for quite a while sometimes, but didnt wanna scare her or be disrespectful....tell her you wanna just fantasize with her about what it would be like watching her because how sexy she is...but let one step lead to the next dont rush ******* or deals off for sure

Yes o will bang you babe

 

[mw29]

Advice and direction desperately needed by cuckold minded white husband 11 yrs in committed marriage.

I cannot satisfy her with my tiny cock (almost never cums) as we rarely have sex but she is sexual person and still wants me sexually, I need help and guidance on how to persuade her to be with another man (black). She is unaware I want this for her and our marriage but has been talking about bigger cock and black men when i push her in fantasy talk in a joking playfully way. I am desperate for any help please from black men or anyone that can truly guide and help our marriage..

 

[mw29]

Advice and direction desperately needed by cuckold minded white husband 11 yrs in committed marriage.

I cannot satisfy her with my tiny cock (almost never cums) as we rarely have sex but she is sexual person and still wants me sexually, I need help and guidance on how to persuade her to be with another man (black). She is unaware I want this for her and our marriage but has been talking about bigger cock and black men when i push her in fantasy talk in a joking playfully way. I am desperate for any help please from black men or anyone that can truly guide and help our marriage..

 

[Thegoodtj]

Have you paid attention to how she responded to your joking fantasy talk? For most women their first question to you would be "Why does he want to share me? So, you have to really create a safe space for her to share her deep dark fantasies or desires.

1. Pillow Talk but not about your fantasy ask her about her fantasies. She will likely say she doesn't have any, but phrase the question like, if you had a hall pass which guy(s) would you choose to use it on? If she is still reluctant you can start her mind twirling by saying one of your friends (someone she may find attractive) complemented her.

2. She probably never really put much thought on being shared because she is happy being married. I met a wife in a clothing store and I approached her and she said "I am sorry, but I am married and held up her ring finger. I was like, but if you weren't married you would meet with me for coffee and she said of course. She didn't know that it was a setup with me and her husband to try and get her into the idea (the wrong way I might add), but she went straight home that evening and shared with him what happened and they had some great sex because she was aroused and surprised at the way he responded to the interaction.

A. Start with the Suggestion-The power of suggestion
B. Find out if there men she finds attractive (in real life or Celebrities)
C. Once you find out what attracts her you can play with the fantasy a little more with bedroom pillow talk bringing the fantasy male into the marrital bedroom through talking. Or setting a scene with you and her and all the things he will do to her.

Just remember it may not happen overnight to get her to open up and TRUST you at that level. She will not want to do anything that will put her family at risk unless you create a very supportive, understanding and loving space on the topic of Wife Sharing.

I can go on, but I don't want to bore anyone. LOL

TJ

 

[Thegoodtj]

Any feedback on why the setup with a husband to approach his wife in a store was the “wrong way”? I’ve thought about doing this a few times.

For her she felt like he tricked her. And although she enjoyed the attention it just was not organic once she found out.

 

[mw29]

Have you paid attention to how she responded to your joking fantasy talk? For most women their first question to you would be "Why does he want to share me? So, you have to really create a safe space for her to share her deep dark fantasies or desires.

1. Pillow Talk but not about your fantasy ask her about her fantasies. She will likely say she doesn't have any, but phrase the question like, if you had a hall pass which guy(s) would you choose to use it on? If she is still reluctant you can start her mind twirling by saying one of your friends (someone she may find attractive) complemented her.

2. She probably never really put much thought on being shared because she is happy being married. I met a wife in a clothing store and I approached her and she said "I am sorry, but I am married and held up her ring finger. I was like, but if you weren't married you would meet with me for coffee and she said of course. She didn't know that it was a setup with me and her husband to try and get her into the idea (the wrong way I might add), but she went straight home that evening and shared with him what happened and they had some great sex because she was aroused and surprised at the way he responded to the interaction.

A. Start with the Suggestion-The power of suggestion
B. Find out if there men she finds attractive (in real life or Celebrities)
C. Once you find out what attracts her you can play with the fantasy a little more with bedroom pillow talk bringing the fantasy male into the marrital bedroom through talking. Or setting a scene with you and her and all the things he will do to her.

Just remember it may not happen overnight to get her to open up and TRUST you at that level. She will not want to do anything that will put her family at risk unless you create a very supportive, understanding and loving space on the topic of Wife Sharing.

I can go on, but I don't want to bore anyone. LOL

TJ

Amazing thoughts and advise TJ. I am going to try and go by your guidance and keep you posted. Thank you so much

 

[Jdingo619]

Advice and direction desperately needed by cuckold minded white husband 11 yrs in committed marriage.

I cannot satisfy her with my tiny cock (almost never cums) as we rarely have sex but she is sexual person and still wants me sexually, I need help and guidance on how to persuade her to be with another man (black). She is unaware I want this for her and our marriage but has been talking about bigger cock and black men when i push her in fantasy talk in a joking playfully way. I am desperate for any help please from black men or anyone that can truly guide and help our marriage..

I call it "the ******* bait and switch"!

On a well planned date night after she is ******* or has a really good buzz going you need to put on some interracial bbc porn while you guys are having sex. While the movie is playing and you guys are too guage her interests by asking her questions:

1. Do you think it's sexy seeing that white chick take that big black cock?

2. Do you think you could handle a big black cock like that?

3. If it were a fantasy of mine to watch you take a big black cock, would you do it for me?

Her answers will let you know where you stand. Be sure she is ******* or had at least a few drinks first or it could backfire on you! ✌