True story of a possible conversion into hotwife
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Oh wow! Nice!
CuriousSwinging
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Have you let your wife chat with the bbc bull alone? She may be more receptive if you’re not there.
You are so lucky!
Why?What happened?
Something I believe bulls need to understand better is this: Every time you back out, make excuses, have to apologize for not making it etc, you negatively impact the mental state, confidence and energy a woman has worked hard on, in preparation for an exciting new relationship.
Our wives are not just pieces of meat to throw around because you are horny on a particular day. They are emotionally relationship driven beings, that see being stood up or toyed with as rejection.
Wives don't be hard on yourselves, it is not your fault.
Hope you both can find the right Black Man, be patient, he is out there.
Our wives are not just pieces of meat to throw around because you are horny on a particular day. They are emotionally relationship driven beings, that see being stood up or toyed with as rejection.
Wives don't be hard on yourselves, it is not your fault.
Hope you both can find the right Black Man, be patient, he is out there.
Unfortunately he backed out due to something coming up. Basically he’s out and on to the next. I’m fortunate my wife has strong personality and knows her worth so she’s more annoyed than depressed. It’s rather interesting watching guys completely blow their chances. In some cases it’s been rather spectacular. For this guy it was a sure thing but found a way to screw up. On to the next
I hope you will find the right bbc! Your wife looks amazing!
My wife and I swung for a long time. When the guy begins canceling or never shows, he's a phony living in a fantasy you are helping him to play out. He's either married or some other issue that he's not telling you about. I canvased all the guys who wanted to talk to my wife and weeded out the phonies. I always began by explaining that due to the number of phonies, any guy wanting to apply to be her bull would have to submit a full face photo and a naked body shot, not just cock pictures, and a telephone number where he could be reached.
I said clearly in my ads on interracial sites that my wife and I were seeking a full time, local, single and well hung bull that could hang out on weekends, sleep over and date my wife frequently. Since my wife prefers bareback I insisted on the prospective bull being tested and we sought out stable guys who wanted a steady sexual relationship at our home.
There's a lot of phonies out there and you should intervene in the initial interviews before she ever talks to him. There's sites like Iloveinterracial that are devoted exclusively to interracial profiles and dating. If she keeps getting disappointed about no shows and phonies she's going to give up and stop trying.
Advertise for local and single on several web sites including friendfinder or swinglifestyle.
Like I say, you should be interviewing the guy before he ever talks to your wife. I used to meet the new guy out for a ******* and short chat only after I showed her his picture and asked if she liked what she saw. If that meeting took place and he showed up, then we'd move on to scheduling a ******* or dinner in a public place with them both present. Once he was verified, I stepped out of the picture on scheduling and sex between them.
The first time he stood us up would be the last.
Basically back to taking applications. She’s convinced to do it now. We joke about and she even teases me from time to time. She has even started messaging men without me finding them first. This transition is about complete. It’s crazy to think that it’s made it this far and she has bought in the lifestyle.
This is great news. I have experienced this and when it happened my wife blew it off and said not doing that again. She had one bad meet up and it left a bad taste in her mouth. Your wife has the will power it sounds like and will not get discouraged. If you have the patients it sounds like it will happen. Good luck and keep us posted.
She had an online chat with another bull. She actually likes this one. During the talk He had her wanting to undress but didn’t pursue it besides commenting on her ass when asked to show it. They have another chat for this week and if things go well I’m sure they will schedule a time to meetup.
At this point it’s definitely going to happen. We talk about and even joke about it regularly in normal conversation. We text each other about it. She openly orgasms during sex about it m. Talks about getting blacked. I’m still in shock about it from time to time but our relationship is awesome and our sex life is daily so this is gonna be fun. Obviously kinda worried because the stats on surviving this is slim but so is modern day marriage.
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