True love or lonely cuck?

[SnowStarr]

I am concerned for those wanting a hotwife/cuckold relationship without having a real relationship first. A meaningful relationship is far more important and rewarding than any kink. I implore you single people looking for love in the wrong places that its a recipe for disaster. Find someone adventurous you can bond with that meets your goals as a life partner FIRST and foremost. Sex ie cuckolding is NATURAL, it doesn’t have to be ******. What are your thought? Is your kink the most important thing in your relationship?

 

[MattSmith25815]

Yes this type of lifestyle takes more commitment and more trust then any other type of relationship.

 

[submission52]

I've come to the realization that the likelihood of building a successful cuckold relationship/marriage is higher when you have the vanilla connection first, and then work your way into cuckolding.
Sure, relationships can work with having the cuckold aspect up front, but they are few and far between.

 

[MNCuck4Queen]

I am concerned for those wanting a hotwife/cuckold relationship without having a real relationship first. A meaningful relationship is far more important and rewarding than any kink. I implore you single people looking for love in the wrong places that its a recipe for disaster. Find someone adventurous you can bond with that meets your goals as a life partner FIRST and foremost. Sex ie cuckolding is NATURAL, it doesn’t have to be ******. What are your thought? Is your kink the most important thing in your relationship?

Developing the core of relationship is the most essential, necessary of any type of relationship. The issue is that if the core develops too far without having at least talked about lifestyle preferences then when it gets to that point you may be putting a very wonderful relationship (95%) on the chopping block for that last 5% when you bring it up. The reactions by women can vary vastly and it is probably the single biggest fear and point of contention for cuckolds. It is like you're fighting two different sides of yourself out of fear that she might break up with you over the BIG (freakshow) NEWS when it is finally out in the open. I think that's why cucks seek THAT first so the biggest point of contention is verified as a point of compatibility before the heart was on The chopping block.

Better to risk rejection right away. It's much harder being rejected once your heart soul time and energy is fully invested. It's not easy when someone you developed a deep connection with all the sudden turns on you cause you're free and then uses it as a weapon to hurt or shame you. Women can be very ******* if at all comes out at once like a revelation. What if the woman you love is repulsed or angry with the revelation? Then what? Being rejected sexually is much much different than being rejected as a person by someone you love.

That's my two cents, but I agree with your assessment of what's important in a relationship nothing for most people into the lifestyle my advice would be to not look for something so specific but just look for a general open-mindedness within a woman and a general streak of dominant behaviors. I think it's pretty safe to bet that an open-minded dominant leaning woman will take to a duck in water when the conversation of cuckolding cums into the equation.

 

[BBCcuck4u]

My only reason to be cuckolded starting out is from being cuckolded by my ex for years. Maybe at the very least make sure to be honest about the need, so she can know and it not become a major issue later because she was kept in the dark. Communication. Be honest with her from day one if you it's going to be a LTR.

 

[Normalwhiteguy]

I am concerned for those wanting a hotwife/cuckold relationship without having a real relationship first. A meaningful relationship is far more important and rewarding than any kink. I implore you single people looking for love in the wrong places that its a recipe for disaster. Find someone adventurous you can bond with that meets your goals as a life partner FIRST and foremost. Sex ie cuckolding is NATURAL, it doesn’t have to be ******. What are your thought? Is your kink the most important thing in your relationship?

I couldn't agree more.
To me the relationship and emotional connection is the most important thing and must be established before it can be called cuckolding. To watch someone you aren't emotionally connected with having sex with another man isn't much different than watching porn. To feel like I'm being cuckolded I must have deep feelings for my woman as she is giving what I treasure so much to a superior black man. That's what unlocks the magic.

 

[Seattlehub]

I am concerned for those wanting a hotwife/cuckold relationship without having a real relationship first. A meaningful relationship is far more important and rewarding than any kink. I implore you single people looking for love in the wrong places that its a recipe for disaster. Find someone adventurous you can bond with that meets your goals as a life partner FIRST and foremost. Sex ie cuckolding is NATURAL, it doesn’t have to be ******. What are your thought? Is your kink the most important thing in your relationship?

Great perspective!

 

[live2bcuckold1]

I am concerned for those wanting a hotwife/cuckold relationship without having a real relationship first. A meaningful relationship is far more important and rewarding than any kink. I implore you single people looking for love in the wrong places that its a recipe for disaster. Find someone adventurous you can bond with that meets your goals as a life partner FIRST and foremost. Sex ie cuckolding is NATURAL, it doesn’t have to be ******. What are your thought? Is your kink the most important thing in your relationship?

For me it’s about finding a woman who wants this type of relationship and values it. So both of us will work at it and our needs and wants.