darkginger9
Female
be that as it may. The aspect of 'otherism' still exists. I am not worried about my boyfriend (sexually wise), but we both feel that race isn't a non-factor. 5% of us enjoying being taboo as a WW/BM couple is OK,
Toxic Fetishism vs. Preference
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There's definitely a racist tinge to this whole thing. A cursory glance at the history of race relations will reveal this. The personal is the political.
Don't let these uneducated fools in this forum fool you. Interracial sex cannot be divorced from the ******* history between Blacks and Whites. Black men were seen as animalistic whole white women were seen as the pinnacle of womanhood and purity. Sex between those two becomes an act of transgression-and we all know that transgressive sex is the best. Redefining what hss traditionally been a sin is freeing. This is why Blacks reclaimed the N-word. Same with some feminists reclaiming slut, or the word gay.
You may frame it any way you want, but the relationship between a White woman and Black is politically charged. To be fucked by someone society has told you not to fuck is an act of rebellion. An act of practising your freedom against restrictive social codnditioning. To fuck a white woman is, for many Black men, aj act of rebellion against
The White woman and Black woman have always suffered a somewhat similar fate. A fate controlled by white men. White men have controlled sexual narratives and norms since, idk, many the 16 century. Especially the narrative between Black men's sexualitand white women's sexuality. Black men were viewed as sexual beasts while White women were the paragon of virtue. Think about the symbolism behind sin being black and Jesus' saving grace being white as wool. Black men love white women because it boosts their ego. This gentleman above me just told us that "white woman have a different energy". That's the energy I'm talking about. Look into porn and everyday life- the woman has historically been seen as tainted if she fucks Black. It ain't just sex. It goes beyond. Remember Trump saying Mexicans being rapists? Remember the alleged hordes f Arab immigrants ******* Scandinavian women? How about Adele's recent SNL skit on African men's dicks? Even the most liberal of whites often buys into these esswntializing and racist notions of Black men.
I always say look at the power dynamics of a bull, a cuck and the hotwife. Who has the power in that dynamic? The husband. Because he gave the initial green light for that arrangement. As a matter of fact, it represents the hierarchical power white people still have. They want to switch places and be in the lowest position as the cuck while the Black man assumes a position of power over the white woman. But it's all for the pleasure of the voyeur in the first place. It's a temporary trade- but one often happening with the White man's signing off. ( read threads in this forum where people ask if wives fuck their Bulls without the husband's permission. Why? Because it's about control baby.) Sex is about power. As a matter of fact, the best sex IS BETWEEN UNEQUALS.
The personal is political. Always. All these people in here need to read history. Not just history written by white men. Sex has always been political. We may choose to bury our heads in the sand and act like it ain't. Fair enough, but remember that after the cuckold session is done- in almost all cases, the Black dude goes back to his everyday life where, in almost all cases, he earns less than the couple he pleasured. It's no wonder why some women here look for the "thug" archetype in Black men. As almost always, Blacks are the losers here. We just get pussy while white women, AND MEN, get supposedly magical Black dick and the extra added satisfaction of thinking racism is over because of their sexcapades. I hear a white couple asking, "Who me? Racist? But I fucked a Black guy last night while my husband jerked off cleaned up my pussy. How can we be racist?" For the Black, fucking white women gives us some sort of psychological clap-back to the system. Racism persists. BUT....
We can ethically enjoy interracial sex and include all the race play and whatnot Imo, this can be a therapeutic exercise where racial tensions are lessened- in much the same way that some therapy modalities expose the patient to triggering events and traumatic experiences. Just like BDSM, education and honesty is key. But most people either ain't ready for it, or are too fragile to just talk
Don't let these uneducated fools in this forum fool you. Interracial sex cannot be divorced from the ******* history between Blacks and Whites. Black men were seen as animalistic whole white women were seen as the pinnacle of womanhood and purity. Sex between those two becomes an act of transgression-and we all know that transgressive sex is the best. Redefining what hss traditionally been a sin is freeing. This is why Blacks reclaimed the N-word. Same with some feminists reclaiming slut, or the word gay.
You may frame it any way you want, but the relationship between a White woman and Black is politically charged. To be fucked by someone society has told you not to fuck is an act of rebellion. An act of practising your freedom against restrictive social codnditioning. To fuck a white woman is, for many Black men, aj act of rebellion against
The White woman and Black woman have always suffered a somewhat similar fate. A fate controlled by white men. White men have controlled sexual narratives and norms since, idk, many the 16 century. Especially the narrative between Black men's sexualitand white women's sexuality. Black men were viewed as sexual beasts while White women were the paragon of virtue. Think about the symbolism behind sin being black and Jesus' saving grace being white as wool. Black men love white women because it boosts their ego. This gentleman above me just told us that "white woman have a different energy". That's the energy I'm talking about. Look into porn and everyday life- the woman has historically been seen as tainted if she fucks Black. It ain't just sex. It goes beyond. Remember Trump saying Mexicans being rapists? Remember the alleged hordes f Arab immigrants ******* Scandinavian women? How about Adele's recent SNL skit on African men's dicks? Even the most liberal of whites often buys into these esswntializing and racist notions of Black men.
I always say look at the power dynamics of a bull, a cuck and the hotwife. Who has the power in that dynamic? The husband. Because he gave the initial green light for that arrangement. As a matter of fact, it represents the hierarchical power white people still have. They want to switch places and be in the lowest position as the cuck while the Black man assumes a position of power over the white woman. But it's all for the pleasure of the voyeur in the first place. It's a temporary trade- but one often happening with the White man's signing off. ( read threads in this forum where people ask if wives fuck their Bulls without the husband's permission. Why? Because it's about control baby.) Sex is about power. As a matter of fact, the best sex IS BETWEEN UNEQUALS.
The personal is political. Always. All these people in here need to read history. Not just history written by white men. Sex has always been political. We may choose to bury our heads in the sand and act like it ain't. Fair enough, but remember that after the cuckold session is done- in almost all cases, the Black dude goes back to his everyday life where, in almost all cases, he earns less than the couple he pleasured. It's no wonder why some women here look for the "thug" archetype in Black men. As almost always, Blacks are the losers here. We just get pussy while white women, AND MEN, get supposedly magical Black dick and the extra added satisfaction of thinking racism is over because of their sexcapades. I hear a white couple asking, "Who me? Racist? But I fucked a Black guy last night while my husband jerked off cleaned up my pussy. How can we be racist?" For the Black, fucking white women gives us some sort of psychological clap-back to the system. Racism persists. BUT....
We can ethically enjoy interracial sex and include all the race play and whatnot Imo, this can be a therapeutic exercise where racial tensions are lessened- in much the same way that some therapy modalities expose the patient to triggering events and traumatic experiences. Just like BDSM, education and honesty is key. But most people either ain't ready for it, or are too fragile to just talk
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darkginger9
Female
^^^^ BING BONG.
Can I also just say this. An ex I dated for a long time. Her ******* would say some of the vilest stuff, without batting an eyelid, to anyone who just didn't fit the world view of the typical conservative. To him, it didn't even register how crazy he sounded. But he would often say he loved me like a *******. And genuinely treated me well. But holy crap, I didn't get it lol. And it also made me realize how complicated this stuff is.
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darkginger9
Female
It is more complicated than people realize. People love to simplify it down to white girl and big black cock. But that ain't it.
darkginger9
Female
But where is the line? Men like being told they have a big dick. How much vocalization of a black guy having a big one is over the line?
"Carry the weight of being black" and there lies a problem, this idea that being black is some otherworldly thing. It's not, at the end of the day we are all the same with a few different characteristics.
'Otherworldly' is in the eye of the beholder, as is the case with the white men and women here who LOVE the physical, sexual, and even psychological aesthetic of black men and white women together.
I love my boyfriend..and i just want to try a bbc..whats wrong with that? Thats my pussy
Then that must be the same with black women with white men. Accepting your thesis, it must be impossible for people to just be attracted to one another despite their race. Wow!
She is in bliss
Everyone is here because we all enjoy black men and white women sexually. The racial aspect is such a turn on. I fetishise the whole thing- the beautiful dark skinned men and beautiful pale white girls having mind blowing sex and love every second of it.
Definitely the same reason why I enjoy interracial porn between black men and white women.
Knowing as a black women that white women are seen as the pinnacle of womanhood and purity drives me crazy with jealousy knowing that I have and will never be seen like that by anyone. Knowing that black men crave that and I do too since I can only enjoy porn with white women in it. It’s like I’m jealous of white women for the way they are portrayed, I’m angry with black men for lusting after them but I’m a hypocrite because sexually I believe white women are superior. It’s like how can I be angry at black men for preferring white women when I also prefer white women myself?
Disagree my black queen . I fuck them all , I'm just here because I fuck white women also.....I would never marry or date one though .
I know but I can’t help that I can only get off to black men with white women
Why wouldn't you marry one though? Aren't we all "just humans" as everyone seems to say here
Because he probably relates more, has more in common with and gets along more with black women. But prefers fucking white women.
SanDiegoBlack
Male
Couple of quick points. I just wrote about this yesterday, so check out my post. The pinnacle is both real and a myth. It was created to "protect" white women from Blacks, but in many cases it's having the opposite affect. White women know what time it is, and they're not falling for that protection stuff anymore. We (blacks and whites) have made it, in part, a purely sexual thing. White men know they're not going to "control" their women with this myth any longer, and now they're curious about it too. Personally, I don't "prefer" one race over another, but you're right, it is a turn on to have a site (with all of the b.s. that that we all have to wade through) where the sexual side is laid out for all to see and hopefully, enjoy. I'd suggest putting your anger away, because this site is all about the enjoyment of interracial sex, and that part will drive you to anger if you're expecting to not see it on a site that promotes it. If you want to discuss it more, hit me up! I'd enjoy hearing more from you!
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