Your comments are appreciated. But there are two things wrong with the OP's thread and also your comments.
And that is there are legit game players on this site. Verification is one way to really increase your odds of meeting someone. So if anyone is not verified, then well, you kind of get what you get.
You guys are not verified. Now its not a requirement, but your chances of making this real are much lower than anyone else. Now, you dont have to make this reality. You can just play with your spouse and just indulge in the fantasy. But the direct answer is - there is a verification wall and its there for a reason. The people who get verified are not just who they say they are - but also interested with a capital "I"
I would not call you a "fake" but I would call you a window shopper, so anything you say to me or anyone else I dont take seriously. So no, you are not a fake, you are a real human being, but what you have to say and offer is just very very limited and not as valuable as someone who is verified.