I've traveled for business for years, and have had a few affairs!
I am a very take charge woman, due to my job!
I learned quickly that if I ever allowed a black man to walk me to my room, He would be in control! It's good to submit to a real man, who knows what our bodies are made for, and expresses it!
Is it taboo? Maybe! Is it lust? Definitely!
I must admit that my mind tries to convince me that it is wrong, but when He makes me his, all thoughts are on the pleasure!