Besides the collar, my owner has a several pairs of real handcuffs with different chain lengths, he’s cuffed me with...
- my hands behind my back
- hands together above my head, cuffed to a bed frame
- kneeling and face down on a coffee table, hands cuffed to the opposite legs
- on my belly, hands cuffed to ankles
- on my knees with my hands between my legs cuffed to my ankles
- single ankle to a bed frame & opposite wrist cuffed above my head.
He doesn’t use them all the time thankfully, I prefer to have my hands free so i can feel him and interact, but sometimes he likes to use them for effect, when there are others to heighten my anxiety, to objectify me.
The first time he brought them out, it was scary and i struggled more than i should have, I just ended up bruising my wrists. Now I find it IS kinda hot, to just be there as a thing to be used.