Thoughts on my wife and BBC?

[Sterling1492]

In monogamous relationship. Wife likes to masturbate to get wet before sex about half the time and asks I tell her sexual stories while she does. Discovered the wettest she gets is when I involve her getting fucked by a black guy. In fact sometimes she used to ask me to make it “dirtier” and it became obvious this is for bbc. Now all stories jump right to the point (bbc) and she gets ridiculously wet and cums so hard every time. When she doesn’t masturbate before set she takes a while to get wet and never gets that wet.

Now-once we are done we never talk about sex or anything. And while she will very occasionally make jokes about black men and size with her friends we’ve never addressed what we do in bedroom.

Given the thought of bbc provides her with so much pleasure I now fantasize about her trying to real thing. It turns me on to see her turned. I love this so much. Want to move to at least a bbc dildo but afraid of even doing this as it might stop the story telling which now gets me off so much too.

Thoughts on how to proceed?

 

[Jellycapone]

In monogamous relationship. Wife likes to masturbate to get wet before sex about half the time and asks I tell her sexual stories while she does. Discovered the wettest she gets is when I involve her getting fucked by a black guy. In fact sometimes she used to ask me to make it “dirtier” and it became obvious this is for bbc. Now all stories jump right to the point (bbc) and she gets ridiculously wet and cums so hard every time. When she doesn’t masturbate before set she takes a while to get wet and never gets that wet.

Now-once we are done we never talk about sex or anything. And while she will very occasionally make jokes about black men and size with her friends we’ve never addressed what we do in bedroom.

Given the thought of bbc provides her with so much pleasure I now fantasize about her trying to real thing. It turns me on to see her turned. I love this so much. Want to move to at least a bbc dildo but afraid of even doing this as it might stop the story telling which now gets me off so much too.

Thoughts on how to proceed?

Take things slow man . You should read my thread "great progress" key is to take things slow . Bbc dildo is definitely a good way to give her the idea you like it . Then along the line introduce some ir porn see how she reacts. I didn't ever think my wife would ride a dildo now saying to me do I love watching her ride black cock and she loves watching porn with me now too. She the most sweet and innocent looking and she's reserved only for me . She's always been a slut in the bedroom for me but when we talk about the fantasy she gets wet and creamy like I never seen before!

 

[Jellycapone]

In monogamous relationship. Wife likes to masturbate to get wet before sex about half the time and asks I tell her sexual stories while she does. Discovered the wettest she gets is when I involve her getting fucked by a black guy. In fact sometimes she used to ask me to make it “dirtier” and it became obvious this is for bbc. Now all stories jump right to the point (bbc) and she gets ridiculously wet and cums so hard every time. When she doesn’t masturbate before set she takes a while to get wet and never gets that wet.

Now-once we are done we never talk about sex or anything. And while she will very occasionally make jokes about black men and size with her friends we’ve never addressed what we do in bedroom.

Given the thought of bbc provides her with so much pleasure I now fantasize about her trying to real thing. It turns me on to see her turned. I love this so much. Want to move to at least a bbc dildo but afraid of even doing this as it might stop the story telling which now gets me off so much too.

Thoughts on how to proceed?

Also check my media of my wife riding her black dildo ..hopefully you can get to that stage soon enough

 

[cuccubus]

Your wife is clearly into it.

Dildos + storytelling = fun. I see no reason getting a moderate-sized BBC dildo would do anything negative, and I think it's more likely to enhance the stories. Steve Jobs always said the customer didn't know what they wanted until he showed them.

Amateur IR porn is also very effective, but, yeah, go slow. Curate, curate, curate.

This one, though not amateur, had a huge impact on my wife and was the first IR I ever showed her.

 

[Sterling1492]

Your wife is clearly into it.

Dildos + storytelling = fun. I see no reason getting a moderate-sized BBC dildo would do anything negative, and I think it's more likely to enhance the stories. Steve Jobs always said the customer didn't know what they wanted until he showed them.

Amateur IR porn is also very effective, but, yeah, go slow. Curate, curate, curate.

This one, though not amateur, had a huge impact on my wife and was the first IR I ever showed her.

Thx. Nice video too. I think I’m gonna go with the bbc dildo. Fingers crossed. Not sure how to introduce it though : )

 

[Sterling1492]

Also check my media of my wife riding her black dildo ..hopefully you can get to that stage soon enough

Wow. Would love to get there

 

[Jellycapone]

Wow. Would love to get there

You will man she seems like she's curious as it is just take it slow. It took me a while man to even convince her to get the dildo but now we are role playing this out and really enjoying it . Taking it to the next level might not ever happen but the fantasy is amazing on its own

 

[cuccubus]

Thx. Nice video too. I think I’m gonna go with the bbc dildo. Fingers crossed. Not sure how to introduce it though : )

Does she already have experience with dildos? If so just introduce it. If not, time to do some research. We tend to use a cordless magic-wand style vibrator in concert with a lifelike dildo. The combo is powerful.

 

[Sterling1492]

Does she already have experience with dildos? If so just introduce it. If not, time to do some research. We tend to use a cordless magic-wand style vibrator in concert with a lifelike dildo. The combo is powerful.

It’s been many years since she’s used one

 

[Jellycapone]

Does she already have experience with dildos? If so just introduce it. If not, time to do some research. We tend to use a cordless magic-wand style vibrator in concert with a lifelike dildo. The combo is powerful.

We have a wand too there great it's a mini wand though

 

[cuccubus]

It’s been many years since she’s used one

When I got my wife the BBC dildo it had also been many years for us. I have a slightly larger than average penis, and got a dildo a bit larger than that in both girth and length and it seems to do things for her my penis never did. That may be somewhat psychological because we use it while watching IR porn or fantasizing/storytelling, but at this point I think it's at least as much physical. That little bit of extra size is a big deal. Getting the size right is really important and may take trial and error. Also, lube lube lube.

 

[Sterling1492]

When I got my wife the BBC dildo it had also been many years for us. I have a slightly larger than average penis, and got a dildo a bit larger than that in both girth and length and it seems to do things for her my penis never did. That may be somewhat psychological because we use it while watching IR porn or fantasizing/storytelling, but at this point I think it's at least as much physical. That little bit of extra size is a big deal. Getting the size right is really important and may take trial and error. Also, lube lube lube.

I’m hoping this works. The good thing (I think) is the stories she gets off on are very very kinky —-waaaaay beyond a dildo but one is tangible I guess.

 

[wickedcouple]

In monogamous relationship. Wife likes to masturbate to get wet before sex about half the time and asks I tell her sexual stories while she does. Discovered the wettest she gets is when I involve her getting fucked by a black guy. In fact sometimes she used to ask me to make it “dirtier” and it became obvious this is for bbc. Now all stories jump right to the point (bbc) and she gets ridiculously wet and cums so hard every time. When she doesn’t masturbate before set she takes a while to get wet and never gets that wet.

Now-once we are done we never talk about sex or anything. And while she will very occasionally make jokes about black men and size with her friends we’ve never addressed what we do in bedroom.

Given the thought of bbc provides her with so much pleasure I now fantasize about her trying to real thing. It turns me on to see her turned. I love this so much. Want to move to at least a bbc dildo but afraid of even doing this as it might stop the story telling which now gets me off so much too.

Thoughts on how to proceed?

Tell her that you want to try a BBC dildo.....honesty carries a ton a weight in this lifestyle

 

[Jellycapone]

Tell her that you want to try a BBC dildo.....honesty carries a ton a weight in this lifestyle

I second that

 

[Jellycapone]

I’m hoping this works. The good thing (I think) is the stories she gets off on are very very kinky —-waaaaay beyond a dildo but one is tangible I guess.

What's the stories ?

 

[Sterling1492]

What's the stories ?

I tell her stories that she masturbates to. All about her and bbc but very kinky and the dirtier the wetter she gets.

 

[Berlin Storyteller]

I tell her stories that she masturbates to. All about her and bbc but very kinky and the dirtier the wetter she gets.

Wanna tell us?

 

[mariagarcia38]

Thx. Nice video too. I think I’m gonna go with the bbc dildo. Fingers crossed. Not sure how to introduce it though : )

Just don’t say anything. I warm my wife’s BBC dildos in a heating pad then just slip it without saying anything while I’m eating her pussy. Believe me she’ll love it.

 

[Jellycapone]

Just don’t say anything. I warm my wife’s BBC dildos in a heating pad then just slip it without saying anything while I’m eating her pussy. Believe me she’ll love it.

Heating pad ? Where do you those ? We use hot water

 

[mariagarcia38]

Heating pad ? Where do you those ? We use hot water

They are electric like for backaches and stuff.