I think it depends on how they got into the lifestyle. If the husband had pushed the wife into having sexual relations with black men it would seem unfair for him to arbitrarily make her stop. The two of them need to work out some kind of compromise. This is why this type of lifestyle can be so destructive to legitimate marriages.
Thoughts on cheating?
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Marriedsuz
Male
Cheating is acceptable, keep going
HOT TUBs any male whom sits in one at 104 degrees F for more than 25 minutes next NUT is DOA if taken in short order. Old BC I found out about.. double check this before trusting it... have a shot on a microscope and see them not moving. ask a professional Medical but I own one and heard this..... Not verified so beware,
plezrnpain
Couple
Birth control script is pretty inexpensive even without insurance. Planned Parenthood pretty much gives them away.
plezrnpain
Couple
For real!!!Exactly.
If she can't afford birth control, wait until she finds out how expensive divorce is going to be
I cheated on my hubby for 10yrs with black men before hubby got involved and there were no adverse effects on or relationship. I no that is extremely rare, but it worked for me.
Maybe he just needs some reassurance that you love him and have no intentions on leaving him and give it just a little time, he will come around.
Same for me. I lost my virginity behind my hubbys back to a black guy back when we were still dating and I had guilt for many years and when I finally told hubby many years later, he loved it lol. This lifestyle works perfect for us too.
Hubby and I had been married for 19yrs when I popped my black cherry.
We have been married 13 years but together for 22 years and when hubby finally revealed his dark secret to me he was shocked to find out it was also my biggest fantasy and I was already into black men. I never had a clue there was this alt underground lifestyle until he introduced me
That was the same as my husband. Couldn't believe it but was very happy he was and I could continue
Oh yes I understand that 100%.. Have you ever had any pregnancy scares or anything? I use IUD birth control but I do take breaks every now and then to be sure I am negative then continue on lol
I have been knocked up twice by black men. Unfortunately, I lost both to miscarriage and after the last one I could no longer have children
.But that was a long time ago.
Aw I’m so sorry!! When we first started in this lifestyle we both said and agreed that if we ever have a slip up we’ll do what’s right and keep it and raise it as our own. As far as family and friends, we’ll cross that bridge when we get to it. We don’t have any *******. We have just always enjoyed doing what we want whenever lol.I have been knocked up twice by black men. Unfortunately, I lost both to miscarriage and after the last one I could no longer have children
But that was a long time ago.
Thank you, sweetie
Just keep doing what you are doing and as long as you both enjoy it and are happy
Sorry for your loss.I have been knocked up twice by black men. Unfortunately, I lost both to miscarriage and after the last one I could no longer have children
But that was a long time ago.
Thank you
