The definitive four step program to get your wife to fuck black men

[erika9009]

In my conversations with couples the 2 main objections have been her fear that he wants to be with other women so giving her license to be with other men is his first step on that path and her fear that she will alter their relationship for the worse if she is with another man. That second fear is generalized usually without a specific known outcome.

There's no one way to open this door. Every couple navigates the process their own way. But I do suggest getting out of town. Don't do this in your backyard to begin. And not with friends. That's too high risk. Plan a getaway and tell her it's your gift to her. No strings attached, no reciprocation expected. It happens one night and it doesn't need to happen again. Give her the space to be carefree and the security to know she is in a stable relationship before and after the experience.

When I hear advice that focuses on the male half of the couple that sounds like fantasy talk. Real advice focuses on her. Her safety, security, comfort, etc. And then you open the door and get out of the way. She either walks through or she doesn't and you respect her decision either way.

Thank you for being a light that shines on reality about this subject.

So many of the posts here focus on what the guy wants his wife to do. The last time I checked, I was the one taking my underwear off for sex, not my husband. So, let's look a little harder at what I (the wife) want to happen.

From what I have done, being with a new guy is kinda awkward the first few times. Even before my underwear comes off, I have to like the guy. Getting to know someone takes a bit of time. I'm not talking months, but not being introduced and 10 min later going up to the room and laying on my back.

 

[Eduardorm225]

Thank you for being a light that shines on reality about this subject.

So many of the posts here focus on what the guy wants his wife to do. The last time I checked, I was the one taking my underwear off for sex, not my husband. So, let's look a little harder at what I (the wife) want to happen.

From what I have done, being with a new guy is kinda awkward the first few times. Even before my underwear comes off, I have to like the guy. Getting to know someone takes a bit of time. I'm not talking months, but not being introduced and 10 min later going up to the room and laying on my back.

Ain't that the truth?! From a Black man's perspective, if I just wanted to stick my dick in any ol' hole then it wouldn't matter to me either. Chemistry would be out the window. But that's not my life. Not my style. The energy must be right. I can do my part but if hubby is pushing his own agenda then we've got a problem.

Fellas, if you want it more than your wife then slow down. Take a lesson from the smooth brotha you're hoping she spreads her legs and invites inside. Be cool. Be supportive. Be a gentleman. Be you a Bull or a cuck, those rules always apply.

 

[Acorn]

LOL....this scenario was played on me in 1994 but, the only problem was initially I wouldn't take the bait because of my code of Honour to NEVER play with a friend's wife. Month later they both invited me over for drinks and cautiously revealed they SWING and you know the rest.

Anyway steps 1 & 2 are solid but, take your time and develop a solid relationship before requesting his services to banf sexy-ass samantha....

notice i never said anything about requesting. The joke was essentially if you actually want your wife to fuck black men, just bring black men into her social circle and let nature take its course.

 

[erika9009]

Ain't that the truth?! From a Black man's perspective, if I just wanted to stick my dick in any ol' hole then it wouldn't matter to me either. Chemistry would be out the window. But that's not my life. Not my style. The energy must be right. I can do my part but if hubby is pushing his own agenda then we've got a problem.

Fellas, if you want it more than your wife then slow down. Take a lesson from the smooth brotha you're hoping she spreads her legs and invites inside. Be cool. Be supportive. Be a gentleman. Be you a Bull or a cuck, those rules always apply.

The smooth talkin', well-dressed, outwardly focused gentleman usually had my underwear off faster than a cocky guy that thinks he's doing me a favor by having sex with me.

 

[Eduardorm225]

The smooth talkin', well-dressed, outwardly focused gentleman usually had my underwear off faster than a cocky guy that thinks he's doing me a favor by having sex with me.

That cocky guy is the best. Crashes and burns as the perfect setup to my genuine approach.

A guy once asked me what I say to women when I approach them because I'm so successful. (Whatever that means.....) My response? "Hi, how are you?"

It's just not that hard.....

 

[michael87]

Black men are superior lovers in so many different ways. They are handsome, in shape, well hung, have great stamina and can go multiple rounds. They are charming, confident, passionate and make a woman feel sexy and desired. I was smart enough to wave the white flag of surrender immediately after our honeymoon 7 years ago.

I totally agree, and I'm a very well-built handsome very well-hung guy that plenty of women lust over. But I'm white, dammit, and my ex's young lover and husband, my best buddy, is black and easily bests me in every aspect of sexual allure and performance. Plus he's such a perfect charmer I'm in love with him too.

 

[michael87]

The smooth talkin', well-dressed, outwardly focused gentleman usually had my underwear off faster than a cocky guy that thinks he's doing me a favor by having sex with me.

Atta girl Erika!

That said, for reasons that completely elude me I happen to be a magnet in my attractiveness to certain types of women---usually baby-wanting ones---who I haven't consciously signalled sexually or made any effort to attract.

When they hit on me I'm always genuinely surprised, take the compliment and nearly always politely decline the invitation. Except if it comes out that the woman's husband is sterile and she is obviously coveting my genes along with my body. Then, with me being desired for what I am in toto including reproductively, it's all on---apart from the condom of course.

 

[andrelv009]

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[petco]

Thank you for being a light that shines on reality about this subject.

So many of the posts here focus on what the guy wants his wife to do. The last time I checked, I was the one taking my underwear off for sex, not my husband. So, let's look a little harder at what I (the wife) want to happen.

From what I have done, being with a new guy is kinda awkward the first few times. Even before my underwear comes off, I have to like the guy. Getting to know someone takes a bit of time. I'm not talking months, but not being introduced and 10 min later going up to the room and laying on my back.

well said.

 

[erika9009]

That cocky guy is the best. Crashes and burns as the perfect setup to my genuine approach.

A guy once asked me what I say to women when I approach them because I'm so successful. (Whatever that means.....) My response? "Hi, how are you?"

It's just not that hard.....

Funny, I started the thread below on how black guys are a little different (RE, the "Hi, how are you?" statement)

You Black Men are just...

great at introducing yourself. I have only been active on this site for a few days. When a cuck contacts me, the first thing they say is they want to clean me, be my bitch, and all that other cuck dribble. No name, don't ask how I'm doing....just cuck blabber. Now, when a black man contacts...

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[blackandkinky]

I clicked on this thread ready to have a good laugh but you know what...this is actually good practical advice that a lot of the fantasizers in the lifestyle just REFUSE TO UNDERSTAND. Spending years online trying to find a "hung bbc dom bull stallion to seduce my shy curious church wife" is so damn lame! All husbands should follow this guide.

 

[Acorn]

I clicked on this thread ready to have a good laugh but you know what...this is actually good practical advice that a lot of the fantasizers in the lifestyle just REFUSE TO UNDERSTAND. Spending years online trying to find a "hung bbc dom bull stallion to seduce my shy curious church wife" is so damn lame! All husbands should follow this guide.

The joke is that it takes four steps. It's really a one step guide. lmao.

 

[Eduardorm225]

Funny, I started the thread below on how black guys are a little different (RE, the "Hi, how are you?" statement)

You Black Men are just...

great at introducing yourself. I have only been active on this site for a few days. When a cuck contacts me, the first thing they say is they want to clean me, be my bitch, and all that other cuck dribble. No name, don't ask how I'm doing....just cuck blabber. Now, when a black man contacts...

www.blacktowhite.net

Yes! So true. So ridiculous. It's like some guys think the magic is in the over-the-top opening line. As if she wouldn't fuck you under normal circumstances but gosh that pickup line was just too good so now she'll at least have to blow you.

 

[Acorn]

Eye contact and a smile with good body language tends to make the actual words much less important.

 

[Shecuckedme]

Where is this guide?

The second thread in the cuckold forum.

 

[bobbyhotone2]

So many guys in here want to learn how to get their wives interested in black men to lead to sex. Well I've finally been convinced to make my patented guaranteed 4 step program available to the public. Scroll down only of you are truly ready...... This program will lead to your wife fucking black men even without you ever having to beg her or convince her.

Step 1. Make some black friends. Actually make some black friends. Not internet porn friends but actual in the wild, in public buddies. Get to know some black guys, go to sports bars, join a basketball league, softball league, join a gym. Find some dudes you actually like hanging out with, get to know them and make friends. I promise more friends is a reward in and of itself.

Step 2. Have your friends over. BBQ, Football sunday, NBA watch parties, MMA fight night, whatever. Bring your friends over your house to casually hang out.

Step 3. Wait..... Repeat Step 1 and 2 until your wife enjoys having your guys over. Let her get to know them and let her get to know your flow, inside jokes, etc.

Step 4. There is no step four. Step 3 leads to her getting fucked eventually. She might not tell you about it, they might not tell you, but they will be flirting with her, eventually get her number, and it will lead to sex. If they truly think you are cool and your wife actually thinks you could handle it, they might let you know. When you find out, be cool. Don't freak out.

Sounds like a good practical plan. My wife has been fucked by several black men. I think the main reason is that she had many black men friends and was and is very comfortable around them, even when she is naked.

 

[bobbyhotone2]

that s what i just started. she like black music _ so we joined a party group specially for this. hope to get in contact with some nice guys and woman. there are a lot of black people involved.
we will see if it is working.

but i believe somewhere between step 2 and step 4 she need to know that she will be safe about my reactions.

I agree that your wife should have no doubt that you enjoy her being fucked by other men, especially black men.

 

[StewM]

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[michael87]

Black men are superior lovers in so many different ways. They are handsome, in shape, well hung, have great stamina and can go multiple rounds. They are charming, confident, passionate and make a woman feel sexy and desired. I was smart enough to wave the white flag of surrender immediately after our honeymoon 7 years ago.

I can certainly attest to that. My wife's live-in lover qualifies on your every count and criterion. Plus he was a stripling of barely 19 when he started fucking her nearly 7 years ago, so he has always had Youth very much on his side.

To top ot all off he has always been a torrential ejaculator and was enviably multi-orgasmic from the very beginning of their wonderfully hot romance, which through all its fascinating stages I've been privileged to witness close-up on our marriage bed.

 

[MaineSailor207]

I can certainly attest to that. My wife's live-in lover qualifies on your every count and criterion. Plus he was a stripling of barely 19 when he started fucking her nearly 7 years ago, so he has always had Youth very much on his side.

To top ot all off he has always been a torrential ejaculator and was enviably multi-orgasmic from the very beginning of their wonderfully hot romance, which through all its fascinating stages I've been privileged to witness close-up on our marriage bed.

Your Hotwife is a very lucky woman and you are a very lucky cuckold to have enjoyed a front row seat for all 7 years. Presumably he is sleeping full time in the Master Bedroom with your wife and you are in the guest bedroom?