I wish they had a Hotwife theme week. Keys and Anklets (podcast), Bulls and Bitches. When we go to the local swing party its always a thing to explain he doesn't play. Even when they had a hotwife theme we still had to explain it. Our place has colored wrist bands for anything goes, couples only,single male ok ect. I know you can't have a laundry list of colors for every dynamic but I think Hotwifing is pretty common