Talking about penis size

[tomtomjim]

Perhaps think about breaking down his walls a little more with feminization play, pegging.. stuff like that.
Don't let him out to get satisfaction of orgasming like a man.
Use Prostate massage or a wand vibrator on his chastity device until he squirts.

did she do that to you or did you submit willingly

 

[hotknkycpl8081]

did she do that to you or did you submit willingly

Kinda both. Because I had to be convinced that it was all okay

 

[tomtomjim]

not easy for most men to be a cuck or stag regardless of what you call it. He has to accept that his wife fucks other men and others know it. He has to accept that when she fucks her attention is not on him and there is more. Fantasy is not like reality and it does not matter if the other men have bigger cocks because a woman can have pleasure from anything hard. Being a cuck is submission to a pussy which is supposed to be abnormal but many men submit to women

 

[hotknkycpl8081]

Kinda both. Because I had to be convinced that it was all okay

Also, by the time she started using spanking for every slip up I made I'd been fully broken down. So many things have happened since we moved into the territory of a true FLR that were not my idea or something I wanted.

 

[one2submit]

Very! Thank you. I just want to get a better understanding of his desires, for so long he's kept stuff from me for fear I'll think less of him as a man, that I don't even know if I'd recognize the complete truth if I heard it lol

The thing to do would be to not go to far with the humiliation factor. Ease into it for yourself and him. See his reaction as well as yours. That will open the door to see if it’s something you both can handle. And yes, after care will let you and him know that the respect and love is always intact.

 

[one2submit]

Men are frustrating.

And the ladies aren’t?

 

[one2submit]

Men are frustrating.

Honestly, reading that second screen shot he’s trying to gently put himself into your hands and let you know that these things, though confusing and conflicting within him, greatly excite him. And yes it can be a minefield of emotions as you move through the experience together. “Together” always being the operative word.

 

[hotknkycpl8081]

not easy for most men to be a cuck or stag regardless of what you call it. He has to accept that his wife fucks other men and others know it. He has to accept that when she fucks her attention is not on him and there is more. Fantasy is not like reality and it does not matter if the other men have bigger cocks because a woman can have pleasure from anything hard. Being a cuck is submission to a pussy which is supposed to be abnormal but many men submit to women

I think there's literally no difference between "cuck" and "stag". A lot of guys just prefer "stag" because they associate "cuck" with more extreme play than they're currently comfortable with.

 

[AllyG]

not easy for most men to be a cuck or stag regardless of what you call it. He has to accept that his wife fucks other men and others know it. He has to accept that when she fucks her attention is not on him and there is more. Fantasy is not like reality and it does not matter if the other men have bigger cocks because a woman can have pleasure from anything hard. Being a cuck is submission to a pussy which is supposed to be abnormal but many men submit to women

He's still wishy washy, but I guess I don't help when I'm timid about carrying out his fantasy. I was too shy to make him clean me in front of our bull last time.. I guess that took away a part that he was looking forward to most and perhaps felt like I was neglecting him.. I just haven't fully grasped it mentally, how some men find pleasure in doing that.

Sent him some pictures and what I was thinking about while I played with myself to test some waters..

 

[hotknkycpl8081]

His love style is controller. I've learned throughout our marriage that he will do anything to avoid feeling the pain, shame, helplessness, etc that he felt so much as a kid. Things he endured as a kid also being something that very well could have a huge part in why he has these fantasies, I guess I kinda just realized why it's been such a huge recurring issue in our marriage.

Blah.

Lol
Here's a realistic porn plot
"let me fulfill your fantasy.."
"Ok but that will require therapy first."

LoL. Great points!

 

[AllyG]

Honestly, reading that second screen shot he’s trying to gently put himself into your hands and let you know that these things, though confusing and conflicting within him, greatly excite him. And yes it can be a minefield of emotions as you move through the experience together. “Together” always being the operative word.

Thank you for this insight on it. It does feel like walking into a field of landmines! Lol


But I will give it another shot. Definitely

 

[paar70er]

So hubs and I may be trying again after a two year break. He's still not sure if he identifies more as a cuck or stag.. I'm guessing cuck because I am fairly positive that he would like for me to encourage he please our bull, he's just afraid to ask for it. (See 2nd pic and tell me what you think?)

But I mostly want to know is how do I talk to my husband about penis size without feeling like I'm downright being mean. I love my husbands penis, but I also love the feeling of a girthier one as well. When I was seeing my last bull, I was always so eager to feel his thick cock that I would cum upon penetration. I'm nervous to tell my husband things like this because sometimes when I have given into requests in the past, they've backfired and he expressed anger, shame, sadness, etc. It really makes me feel bad because it takes courage for me to try all these desires for him, and then his reaction makes me feel like I messed up, I did something wrong. But if he keeps bringing it up, obviously he wants it?

It's all so confusing and I don't want to do the wrong thing.

I - as the hubby - can totaly understand your husband and know how the mixed feelings are inside him. I feel it the same way and i'm excited how it goes on and where it can lead us to. I'm open for it and would love it to go this way much further with my beloved and hot, sexy wife.

 

[AllyG]

And the ladies aren’t?

Don't change the subject.

 

[extrafun]

So hubs and I may be trying again after a two year break. He's still not sure if he identifies more as a cuck or stag.. I'm guessing cuck because I am fairly positive that he would like for me to encourage he please our bull, he's just afraid to ask for it. (See 2nd pic and tell me what you think?)

But I mostly want to know is how do I talk to my husband about penis size without feeling like I'm downright being mean. I love my husbands penis, but I also love the feeling of a girthier one as well. When I was seeing my last bull, I was always so eager to feel his thick cock that I would cum upon penetration. I'm nervous to tell my husband things like this because sometimes when I have given into requests in the past, they've backfired and he expressed anger, shame, sadness, etc. It really makes me feel bad because it takes courage for me to try all these desires for him, and then his reaction makes me feel like I messed up, I did something wrong. But if he keeps bringing it up, obviously he wants it?

It's all so confusing and I don't want to do the wrong thing.

Yes he probably would want you to tell him to go down on you after you get a cream pie. If it makes him "save face" by being told to vs asking for it then so be it. He still wants to be looked at as your man and doing what he secretly wants to but can pretend its your idea.
I say play along.

 

[Ilmiocornuto]

Interesting, I didn't know that

 

[Haywood72]

This is just too small for me.

 

[COHotwife22]

So hubs and I may be trying again after a two year break. He's still not sure if he identifies more as a cuck or stag.. I'm guessing cuck because I am fairly positive that he would like for me to encourage he please our bull, he's just afraid to ask for it. (See 2nd pic and tell me what you think?)

But I mostly want to know is how do I talk to my husband about penis size without feeling like I'm downright being mean. I love my husbands penis, but I also love the feeling of a girthier one as well. When I was seeing my last bull, I was always so eager to feel his thick cock that I would cum upon penetration. I'm nervous to tell my husband things like this because sometimes when I have given into requests in the past, they've backfired and he expressed anger, shame, sadness, etc. It really makes me feel bad because it takes courage for me to try all these desires for him, and then his reaction makes me feel like I messed up, I did something wrong. But if he keeps bringing it up, obviously he wants it?

It's all so confusing and I don't want to do the wrong thing.

Start by introducing larger dildos for him to please you with in the bedroom. The thicker and bigger the dildo make sure to squirm and loan a lot. He will notice the difference. Then start getting him to talk dirty in bed. And make sure to say things like don't you love watching me cum with bigger dicks. After a while, bring up that his is a lot smaller then your toys while you are stroking him and he's close to cumming. Then progress to talking about your desires and needs from there.

 

[Shecuckedme]

I love when my wife talks about other mens bigger cocks but it took her quite a long time to realize it even after I told her she was skeptical, finally she was telling me about a dream she had where they guys cock felt so big and hot and heavy in her hand I reached over and held her hand on my crotch so she could feel how much it turned me on.

 

[bobter65]

So hubs and I may be trying again after a two year break. He's still not sure if he identifies more as a cuck or stag.. I'm guessing cuck because I am fairly positive that he would like for me to encourage he please our bull, he's just afraid to ask for it. (See 2nd pic and tell me what you think?)

But I mostly want to know is how do I talk to my husband about penis size without feeling like I'm downright being mean. I love my husbands penis, but I also love the feeling of a girthier one as well. When I was seeing my last bull, I was always so eager to feel his thick cock that I would cum upon penetration. I'm nervous to tell my husband things like this because sometimes when I have given into requests in the past, they've backfired and he expressed anger, shame, sadness, etc. It really makes me feel bad because it takes courage for me to try all these desires for him, and then his reaction makes me feel like I messed up, I did something wrong. But if he keeps bringing it up, obviously he wants it?

It's all so confusing and I don't want to do the wrong thing.

I love being humiliation off bull and wife while watching them calling me names and the size of pies. Really enjoy

 

[K&K]

What about us couples in the gray area between these lifestyles? Obviously he leans more towards cuck - but I still want him to maintain respect within the dynamic. Just because I believe he will clean my juices off a bull at my request (and be secretly thrilled I asked) .. I don't want him to think that our bull feels superior to him in any way other than pleasing me.

Hello, I had the same doubts and hesitations. I didn't want to see my husband in a submissive role. That was very weird for me and made me losing the urge for sex. It came out naturally when my Black Master asked me to ******* my husband to be submissive to Him. I felt so hot and wet when I heard that and it happened and lasts over 3 years now. Kisses from Poland. Kasia the wife