Talking about penis size

[czveronika]

I've had similar issues with my bf. I'm pretty sure now that he would be the perfect cuck. I mean he's got all the right assets. He's submissive in bed (wants to wear my panties, wants me to sit on his face etc.), his dick is just about average in length but super lacking in girth, masturbates to interracial porn and even some cuckolding porn (I've seen his history). But even despite the above and the fact that I can visibly see his dick gets hard, he gets angry whenever I drop a remark about the size or sharing me (It's got better though.) I recommend being more dominant with your husband, watch movies with interracial/cuckolding sex - in particular those ones where the size difference is clearly visible and hint at it frequently. I think that one day he'll finally accept the reality and give it a go.

 

[AllyG]

Yes. You have to keep communicating until it's all out in the open.

Men are frustrating.

 

[hotknkycpl8081]

Men are frustrating.

I know. But once you have him trained as a submissive cuck. (Like me) it will be easier.

 

[hotknkycpl8081]

I know. But once you have him trained as a submissive cuck. (Like me) it will be easier.

Also, Consider spanking him

 

[AllyG]

I've had similar issues with my bf. I'm pretty sure now that he would be the perfect cuck. I mean he's got all the right assets. He's submissive in bed (wants to wear my panties, wants me to sit on his face etc.), his dick is just about average in length but super lacking in girth, masturbates to interracial porn and even some cuckolding porn (I've seen his history). But even despite the above and the fact that I can visibly see his dick gets hard, he gets angry whenever I drop a remark about the size or sharing me (It's got better though.) I recommend being more dominant with your husband, watch movies with interracial/cuckolding sex - in particular those ones where the size difference is clearly visible and hint at it frequently. I think that one day he'll finally accept the reality and give it a go.

Easier said than done. Especially, like you said, when they get angry for suggesting it.

Heck I've gotten lashed out at for doing things he flat out asked for.

I understand there's a bunch of emotions involved, but it's not fair to me to pump myself up to do something out of my comfort zone - because he said he wants it ... Just to have him lash out at me for it.

It's toxic for our relationship.

 

[czveronika]

Heck I've gotten lashed out at for doing things he flat out asked for.

I can totally relate lol.. It's called the post nut clarity... The best solution would probably be denial and chastity (though I know that this might be even more difficult to bring up)

 

[hotknkycpl8081]

I can totally relate lol.. It's called the post nut clarity... The best solution would probably be denial and chastity (though I know that this might be even more difficult to bring up)

Consistently enforced discipline, chastity, denial, feminization was hands down the best thing my Mistress ever did for me and our marriage. I can never express how grateful I am for the work she has put into it all

 

[BWCinthe313]

Men are frustrating.

One day a hotwife explained "You have to understand he[the cuck] is actually a girl. Make sure we give him a little attention all is good". This was after I hadn't texted him back after three weeks. and she's write if I just send a quick message once a week that guy stays a perfectly happy bitch

 

[cuckQuixote]

Unfortunately if your cuck cannot deal with it than it might best to leave it alone. There are more cuck wannabes than real cucks (able to deal with really) . If this is solely about his fantasies and not also about your pleasure that it won't work.

 

[AllyG]

One day a hotwife explained "You have to understand he[the cuck] is actually a girl. Make sure we give him a little attention all is good". This was after I hadn't texted him back after three weeks. and she's write if I just send a quick message once a week that guy stays a perfectly happy bitch

That's the problem. That sounds like basically narcissistic behavior which honestly I would be going against my nature to treat him this way. Like everything else, it will take me time to collect the courage to try. Once I do, I always find that it intrigues me, but I'm never all in from the get go.

 

[AllyG]

Unfortunately if your cuck cannot deal with it than it might best to leave it alone. There are more cuck wannabes than real cucks (able to deal with really) . If this is solely about his fantasies and not also about your pleasure that it won't work.

Exactly, I've tried to leave it alone but it continuously comes back into question. Obviously he enjoyed seeing me with another man, I enjoyed it too. It just gets complicated when we try to sprinkle in more lol

 

[hotknkycpl8081]

That's the problem. That sounds like basically narcissistic behavior which honestly I would be going against my nature to treat him this way. Like everything else, it will take me time to collect the courage to try. Once I do, I always find that it intrigues me, but I'm never all in from the get go.

Personally, I'm willing to bet that deep down he really wants all of this but is having trouble finding the courage & grace to accept it fully, to be honest with himself and with you, and to love/respect himself for what he is

 

[hotknkycpl8081]

Perhaps a therapist that specializes in human sexuality is in order. For both couples sessions and sessions with just him

 

[AllyG]

Personally, I'm willing to bet that deep down he really wants all of this but is having trouble finding the courage & grace to accept it fully, to be honest with himself and with you, and to love/respect himself for what he is

Yea, same. And at the fact that he's being dishonest with me would be a little easier to handle if he is in fact having trouble accepting the truth himself. But after 13 years and the pain we have both endured over issues where sex was at the root of the issue.... He needs to chop chop hurry the fuck up and suck it the fuck up and decide what makes him happy regardless of social norms. Our marriage depends on it.

 

[hotknkycpl8081]

Yea, same. And at the fact that he's being dishonest with me would be a little easier to handle if he is in fact having trouble accepting the truth himself. But after 13 years and the pain we have both endured over issues where sex was at the root of the issue.... He needs to chop chop hurry the fuck up and suck it the fuck up and decide what makes him happy regardless of social norms. Our marriage depends on it.

You guys should have a 100% honest conversation with a therapist about all of it

 

[hotknkycpl8081]

You guys should have a 100% honest conversation with a therapist about all of it

And yes, at first he will think it's a nightmare to open up about his fantasies with a therapist but they're professionals. It wouldn't be the weirdest thing they'd heard. Not by a long shot

 

[AllyG]

And yes, at first he will think it's a nightmare to open up about his fantasies with a therapist but they're professionals. It wouldn't be the weirdest thing they'd heard. Not by a long shot

His love style is controller. I've learned throughout our marriage that he will do anything to avoid feeling the pain, shame, helplessness, etc that he felt so much as a kid. Things he endured as a kid also being something that very well could have a huge part in why he has these fantasies, I guess I kinda just realized why it's been such a huge recurring issue in our marriage.

Blah.

Lol
Here's a realistic porn plot
"let me fulfill your fantasy.."
"Ok but that will require therapy first."

 

[Carl C]

As I was the one who suggested my wife find a younger guy with more stamina, I was hardly offended when she did. We have a strong marriage with no significant issues and I find our lives and marriage just as good, if not better now. Any humiliation is good natured pertaining to the difference in size and my lack of stamina. As it’s true and made in a loving manner, I’m not offended. I’m happy my wife has a great sex life and am guilt-free about not being able to do what a guy 20 years younger does. I’m still very much a part of her sex life, just not what is considered in the “normal” sense. I don’t resent either my younger wife or the fact she sees others.

 

[AllyG]

As I was the one who suggested my wife find a younger guy with more stamina, I was hardly offended when she did. We have a strong marriage with no significant issues and I find our lives and marriage just as good, if not better now. Any humiliation is good natured pertaining to the difference in size and my lack of stamina. As it’s true and made in a loving manner, I’m not offended. I’m happy my wife has a great sex life and am guilt-free about not being able to do what a guy 20 years younger does. I’m still very much a part of her sex life, just not what is considered in the “normal” sense. I don’t resent either my younger wife or the fact she sees others.

Ok so perfect, how does your wife humiliate you that way. Like give details. Record it if possible lol jk

 

[Carl C]

She once said having me in her doesn’t count as sex as she couldn’t feel me after her guy had her just before me. She says my face is what she sits on rather than my dick. Also if my tongue stopped working then I would totally be useless in the sack. She has shared details like this with her friends.