Heck the Swing Clubs I used to go to early 2000´s...had excellent meals...the atmosphere was positive...a lot folks did business with others...etc...People where just being themselves...If you hooked up great...If not great...Many couples played and just enjoyed themselves...Sounds like you have an strong foundation...and that´s important...Couldn’t agree more. I know this. When we go to a swing club we are going to have sex. Note that may mean that we are only going to play together. But I know what I have with him and that I’ll have a great time.