Very true. They become like a junk food advert for ******* or a beer commercial on a hot day. I started with a lot of CEI videos then once you start shaving, wearing panties/ heels etc. and anal toys, they sort of get a hold on you. You either get so turned on looking at yourself in the mirror or sharing pics and getting lots of positive comments, you start to see yourself differently (so will your wife) sexually. The intensity of your orgasms get stronger, which also become addictive and all you can think about is the next time you'll have the house to yourself. So many times i've cum all over my face in heels/ stockings, and later laid there laying in my own semen and said thats it, that the last time, i have to stop this... yet sure enough, watch a few sissy ******* vids and 4 weeks later out comes the outfits, toys and do it all over again.