Shy Wife is coming out of her shell
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3 years before i started dating her when she was 15 she went to a house party at a block of flats/apartments. She was 15 at the time and in her words was "just messing about" with a black guy in the bathroom. When it got to the stage that he wanted a blow job she got scared and wanted to get out of there.
He told her nobody says no to him and made her give in to him, she was a virgin at the time but she told me that he "broke her in slowly" which leads me to believe it wasn't as ****** as she was making out. When i started dating her she told me about it after a few months. Secretly i was turned on by it,, but i have never told her about that. All through our time together she has always been shy and conservative in the bedroom, which i alsways put down to what happened that night.
I noticed a change in her last year, it's as if either someone has made her "snap out of" her usual views to sex or that at the age of 44 she is either thinking its now or never to have some fun as the body clock is ticking. She has became a lot more adventurous and expressive during sex, and she doesn't know that i can see what files she views on my laptop and she has been known to watch interracial movies while shes had days off work and I've been out at work.
She told me she had found my porn but didnt tell me that she has been watching it
He told her nobody says no to him and made her give in to him, she was a virgin at the time but she told me that he "broke her in slowly" which leads me to believe it wasn't as ****** as she was making out. When i started dating her she told me about it after a few months. Secretly i was turned on by it,, but i have never told her about that. All through our time together she has always been shy and conservative in the bedroom, which i alsways put down to what happened that night.
I noticed a change in her last year, it's as if either someone has made her "snap out of" her usual views to sex or that at the age of 44 she is either thinking its now or never to have some fun as the body clock is ticking. She has became a lot more adventurous and expressive during sex, and she doesn't know that i can see what files she views on my laptop and she has been known to watch interracial movies while shes had days off work and I've been out at work.
She told me she had found my porn but didnt tell me that she has been watching it
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Probably you will need to progress carefully, but hope the time is now right and wish you success. One early bad experience should not put her off black guys forever. Judging by her amazing breasts, she has no reason to be shy!
husband247
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Going to let things go at her pace.. hopefully she will open up some more over time. ;-)
husband247
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Just a quick update. I have been dropping lots of hints in the week about black men. Bought her a box of chocolates and she even made a joke about the Chocolate Man giving her a treat. I quickly replied with "The Black Magic Man" (a brand of chocolates in Uk) would give her a real treat. She texted me while i was at work and mentioned him again in conversation without me even prompting her.
She was telling me she had seen a woman wearing a Xmas jumper that said the famous lyrics "all i want for Christmas is" and then the word Wine... she gigled asking me if she could have one with Mr Black Magic on it instead of Wine....
We both have a lot on at work at the moment so i am looking forward to next weekend when we can have some time together. Does anybody have any tips that i could use to try and get her to the next step?
She was telling me she had seen a woman wearing a Xmas jumper that said the famous lyrics "all i want for Christmas is" and then the word Wine... she gigled asking me if she could have one with Mr Black Magic on it instead of Wine....
We both have a lot on at work at the moment so i am looking forward to next weekend when we can have some time together. Does anybody have any tips that i could use to try and get her to the next step?
