Rules for new wives

Things are going in the right direction for my wife and her new friend. I don't want to call him her black owner or bull yet because she hasn't met with him yet, she is still a little scared of his BBC, but they are talking more today than ever and she sent him a full nude pic and said she is excited to meet him. What i want to know is are there any rule for her to follow and is there any for me to follow??