Roadblock help

[1414bigdcoubple]

So got my gf into the idea of trying a bbc. Started with a bbc Dildo, porn and dirty talk. Big day came, and it was disappointing. The guy wasn’t that big, couldn’t keep hard and was really sweaty. Turned her off! We found a better bbc (like 10”) and almost got her to try it again but now progress has stopped. We even went and got lingerie for it, but no. She’s not showing interest in it. Wants a 3 sum with a girl now (which believe me I’m happy about too, just don’t want to totally give up on bbc). Any advice!? M35 F25

 

[smallglans]

Unfortunately you're in a predicament. First impressions count in any realm of life, and because your first encounter with a bull transpired poorly, your wife will forever have that experience clouding her ability to enjoy future encounters. It may be a good year or two before she comes around again. My humble suggestion is to step back and make the possibility erotic and sensual once again, using the powers of suggestion and anticipation. Role play, use toys, engage in pillow talk, make her feel beautiful each and every day. In many ways it's like planting a seed and having to wait for it to germinate, grow, and blossom. Women are complicated, divine creatures, and we can only do what we can to inspire changes within them.

 

[Sexlifeupgrade]

We had a similar experience but with us. We met with 5 different men 3 of them never got hard. The other 2 might have lasted 3 minutes each. I am trying to convince her to try again but so far no go