Respecting Boundaries!

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When a couple says "respect our boundaries" in their introduction what exactly are they talking about? What are some important boundaries for bulls to be mindful of when dealing with couple's? šŸ¤”
 
That would be anybody's guess. Their preferences would be my first thought, Ours would have been no anal or Bi sexual, No ******* for sure. The possibilities are too many to write down. I would say this to the second part of your question. Any of the things they list as a do or don't. Don't cross the line if they make it clear something is out of play. Also make it clear what you like as well, your a part of the whole thing so speak up. We always respected the guys who expressed what they wanted to get from the meeting. Do that before if possible so all parties are on the same page. Nothing worse than meeting and finding out the other party has no interest in what you like to do.
 
@artgirl summed it up well. It's their preferences and their do and don't list. When talking with a couple or woman, these things should be discussed up front and agreed upon. This also protects you. You never want to walk into the room with any ambiguity about what is permissible, from your side or theirs.
 
No kissing?!?! Well thatā€™s just nuts- IMO. Kissing is part of the sexy fun. And anal is definitely game- IF he isnā€™t too big AND he knows what the hell heā€™s doing! If this isnā€™t the case, then bring out the toys šŸ˜‰
All seems reasonable. Itā€™s good that you can communicate that.
 
No kissing?!?! Well thatā€™s just nuts- IMO. Kissing is part of the sexy fun. And anal is definitely game- IF he isnā€™t too big AND he knows what the hell heā€™s doing! If this isnā€™t the case, then bring out the toys šŸ˜‰
I like the way you think when it comes to sexy fun! ā™ ļø

As far as something being too big, if they thought that way about climbing Mount Everest, or putting a man on the moon then it would have never gotten done. So let's break out the KY Jelly, and the toys and believe that together we can accomplish anything! šŸ˜
 
I like the way you think when it comes to sexy fun! ā™ ļø

As far as something being too big, if they thought that way about climbing Mount Everest, or putting a man on the moon then it would have never gotten done. So let's break out the KY Jelly, and the toys and believe that together we can accomplish anything! šŸ˜
Ahhh good point! Iā€™m down for trying...but he has got to know what heā€™s doing! A good lube always helps, but I donā€™t like KY šŸ¤Ŗ my best friend told me sheā€™s only had anal one time, and it was horrible. Her bf put her in doggy and in one thrust was all the way in her ass- no lube, no ā€œprep workā€!! I told her ā€œwell, he doesnā€™t know what the hell he is doing!ā€ But then again they donā€™t have ANY sex toys- he thinks if she has toys then that means he isnā€™t capable of pleasing her....ummm, negative ghost rider- toys make it all so much more fun! Then again, I might be biased cause Iā€™ve got quite a toy collection šŸ¤£
 
No kissing?!?! Well thatā€™s just nuts- IMO. Kissing is part of the sexy fun. And anal is definitely game- IF he isnā€™t too big AND he knows what the hell heā€™s doing! If this isnā€™t the case, then bring out the toys šŸ˜‰
I'm with you.. No kissing, no deal lol

I also won't fw guys who unilaterally say they don't eat pussy. It's not even something I enjoy all that much but to me that screams "selfish lover" and life's too short for lackluster sex.
 
I'm with you.. No kissing, no deal lol

I also won't fw guys who unilaterally say they don't eat pussy. It's not even something I enjoy all that much but to me that screams "selfish lover" and life's too short for lackluster sex.
You're a very smart woman šŸ˜ŠšŸ‘šŸ¾
 
Iā€™ve actually never had a guy say he doesnā€™t eat pussy- most are like ā€œyou good to face sit?ā€ šŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø
I've heard it tons but usually in the vetting stage so I don't waste my time meeting them. The last guy didn't mention it until we grabbed drinks and I got up and left after hearing that. He followed me into the parking lot saying he'd do it for me if I gave him a chance.. I got in my car, texted my fwb that lives around the corner from the bar and got my pussy ate šŸ’šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø
 
I've heard it tons but usually in the vetting stage so I don't waste my time meeting them. The last guy didn't mention it until we grabbed drinks and I got up and left after hearing that. He followed me into the parking lot saying he'd do it for me if I gave him a chance.. I got in my car, texted my fwb that lives around the corner from the bar and got my pussy ate šŸ’šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø
next go away GIF
 
When a couple says "respect our boundaries" in their introduction what exactly are they talking about? What are some important boundaries for bulls to be mindful of when dealing with couple's? šŸ¤”
Boundaries are too broad, especially when they also get broken by the same people who make them. Play your field correct when meeting new people and Iā€™d say you ā€œLearnā€ those boundaries as time goes. But when a couple comes at you with the ā€œRespect our boundariesā€ deal while you donā€™t even know each-other yet, Iā€™d say move along as sticklers make getting to know them a pain. They are always out there
 
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Ahhh good point! Iā€™m down for trying...but he has got to know what heā€™s doing! A good lube always helps, but I donā€™t like KY šŸ¤Ŗ my best friend told me sheā€™s only had anal one time, and it was horrible. Her bf put her in doggy and in one thrust was all the way in her ass- no lube, no ā€œprep workā€!! I told her ā€œwell, he doesnā€™t know what the hell he is doing!ā€ But then again they donā€™t have ANY sex toys- he thinks if she has toys then that means he isnā€™t capable of pleasing her....ummm, negative ghost rider- toys make it all so much more fun! Then again, I might be biased cause Iā€™ve got quite a toy collection šŸ¤£
I'm glad that you are down to try. That means if I only have one good shot at turning you into anal loving hotwife then I have to do it right the first time.

When it comes to anal prep is the most important thing. Porn stars have a specific way that they prep for doing an anal aex scene. First they take an *******
Ahhh good point! Iā€™m down for trying...but he has got to know what heā€™s doing! A good lube always helps, but I donā€™t like KY šŸ¤Ŗ my best friend told me sheā€™s only had anal one time, and it was horrible. Her bf put her in doggy and in one thrust was all the way in her ass- no lube, no ā€œprep workā€!! I told her ā€œwell, he doesnā€™t know what the hell he is doing!ā€ But then again they donā€™t have ANY sex toys- he thinks if she has toys then that means he isnā€™t capable of pleasing her....ummm, negative ghost rider- toys make it all so much more fun! Then again, I might be biased cause Iā€™ve got quite a toy collection šŸ¤£
When I comes to anal I love it when the woman loves it and is she is all into it. I love it when she is telling me to "fuck her ass" or "stretch her asshole" and even better when hubby is cleaning up afterwards. ā™ ļø

The key to anal is the prep according to porn stars. They take 1 ******* and clean themselves out. Then that take the second ******* and pour out half the solution and replace it with lube. They cleans themselves a second time and now they are not only clean but properly lubed up inside so when they shoot their porn scene they don't have to stop and lube up. Now even before all of this if you are going to enjoy anal sex with big cocks then on your own time your gonna have to get at least a butt plug and start getting used to something sizable being up there. The boyfriend of your friend who feels some kind of way about toys is literally projecting his insecurities in the sex department.šŸ¤·ā€ā™‚ļø Alpha's who are not only confident with their sex attributes but their manhood period do not see sex toys or even added sex playmates as a threat.

A sexual Alpha sees a woman's sex toys as just another excuse to get even freakier. If I see you already have a collection of sex toys then I'm automatically just going to go out an get you the one that I don't see in your collection. I will get you that butt plug for your collection if its missing! šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£

Nowadays it is very common in the adult industry for woman to take 2 big cocks in the ass at the same time. I'm talking about about petite teens, to average size women, to the curvier full figured one's all taking big dick in their ass 2 at a time. Now yes they are getting paid but they still have to prep and they still have to take that dick in their ass just like every other woman has too. So when I hear a woman talking about size and how anal hurts I know that no prep work was done for that first experience.

Check out these clips they get extreme but all these women had to prep and use toys on their own time even before the come to the shoot and do their porn star prep.








Let me know what you think about anal after you watch those clips?
 
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