As a pansexual bareback swinger couple my lady and I are willing to make others feel comfortable. During the "vetting" process I'll ask for Facebook pictures and full body nudes as we're willing to share the same including our names and fb. Not worried about anything coming out on fb we all have vanilla friends and family. But we get actual hate mail on other sites adultfriendfinder and fling specifically calling Mr "gay" or nasty etc and even the ones who say they're down but then disappear stop chatting after making plans. Just so used to it nowadays.