So when I told my wife, I more or less told her by way of sending her a podcast from Venus Cuckoldress. Whether you’re in to full on cuckolding or stag/vixen, or whatever, the premise is still kind of the same, that is you want to see your wife with another guy. I sent her one about “what happens when she finds cuckolding on your phone”. To me it wasn’t “sprung” on her. We had role played a lot, we use bbc dildos and watched some wife sharing porn and in my mind it wasn’t a stretch to share that with her. I had some angst about it and in some ways she didn’t exactly take it the way I thought she would, but she didn’t say no. She initially thought, like many wives, that this was a way for me to be with other women, which was totally not the case. The key was she didn’t say “no”. We’ve still not went all the way, but it’s only been a couple of months since I told her. I think it took her a bit to understand what it’s all about, but has become more open minded about it. We listen to podcasts together a good bit and use those as a way to wind down and hear about different dynamics and different ways people go about it. I would suggest checking out Keys and Anklets or maybe some of the Venus podcasts, they are a source of good information. Best wishes!