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Jellycapone
Guest
So do I just try and quit IR obsession or just admit i want to see my wife blacked and I cant escape my desires ? Will it ever go away ? And do I even want it to go away 
You may try to quit and possibly do it, but I’m betting it won’t be without much effort if you do. As for myself, it’s been 20+ years of wanting and desiring this and I don’t see it ever stopping. I’ve tried to suppress and quit a few times over the years but it never lasts. Usually the best thing to do is own up and admit to what you like and then do what you can to make it happen. The way I look at it is life’s too short to be miserable so do what you can to be happy and enjoy it.
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Jellycapone
Guest
This is it .. I dont think I can stop I dont want to stop lol
That’s probably true. It is for me anyway and from what I’ve read in many places on the internet about this subject, it’s true for countless others as well. Once you go down the rabbit hole it’s near impossible to come back out.
Davie
Male
I feel for you buddy
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Jellycapone
Guest
Yeah I feel that's true guys
What’s wrong with that?
That's what you ultimately want though right?
Well then y'all have to let her live that out! You know how lucky you are? A wife that want's it too is kinda rare. Let her get that black dick man! And if she needs more (which she will) then you just sit back and enjoy her being totally satisfied sexually! You know you want this! ;-)
So do I just try and quit IR obsession or just admit i want to see my wife blacked and I cant escape my desires ? Will it ever go away ? And do I even want it to go away
quit. no obsession is ever good or healthy. get therapy and live a happy life.
I've been obsessed with IR sex for 20 years. I'm a wannabe cuck and the thoughts never go away. I've just come to accept it. It's probably like trying to tell a gay person to go straight.......it would never work out and will lead to unhappiness.So do I just try and quit IR obsession or just admit i want to see my wife blacked and I cant escape my desires ? Will it ever go away ? And do I even want it to go away
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Jellycapone
Guest
This is exactly the way I look at it to ..
If y’all are able already to communicate so much about it, being her desire too, then you are safe to make it happen. You trust her already. Just openly tell her your absolute, greatest fear is that she would leave you permanently for a Black man whom you acknowledge are all superior and far more masculine than you. You just want to be honest with her and completely honest and vulnerable, so she knows you trust her so much you wanted to admit to her she has that power over you. But you still trust her, so you want her to finally get a Black Man to dominate both of y’all so she gets to have a real man’s mighty Black cock
we all need therapy from time to time. its not healthy to keep stuff bottled up and not talking about it with anyone. though finding people to tell when ur living a taboo life - that's quite difficult. i didnt have anyone to talk to initially, just hubby. what do u do when there're things u feel and want to say, and u know it's going to hurt them, but they're the only one u can share it with? u end up bottled things, and carrying the guilt, shame, stress with u.
i was so happy once others reached out to me through my blog. suddenly i had sisters, in similar situation to me, same stresses, same guilt trips. finally people to share with. it's a great feeling knowing ur not alone.
for me family always comes first. to balance u have to kind of live 2 lives. the home life is the one everyone knows u as. respectable mum, hijabi, conservative. and then the 'me' life, where i'm free to explore my desires and needs, away from home, away from responsibilities and away from hubby. living 2 lives is something any asian woman who's grown up in the west, will understand.
Maybe its already happened? Well communication is the KEY!
