Questions for couples

My wife and I are new to this page, and shes new to the idea. Were both in our early 30s together for 10 years married 6, on our second baby. Weve always had a great sex life, but I'm just average and self conscious. she claims I hit her cervix and fulfill all her needs. Shes only had a few before me never any black and claims the ones that were bigger JUST HURT.... I've had the fantasy since I was a teen but always was afraid and was chastised for the though. My wifes known of it but i just fully opened up to her during our quarantine together. My interracial fetish has been known since we were in college, she found it on our computer back then, just not to the extent of hotwifeing. Since I fully opened up shes been curious asking questions and talking what if scenarios, and talking possible boundaries. Shes said if we were to it would be entirely for me and shes not sure of the size thing as stated before they hurt in the past. Weve done minamal roleplay and have yet to get any toys. Our question are

Was it yours or your husband's fantasy, and how did that partner convince the other partner?

Did either of you have regrets afterwards?

How did you go about your first time?

Did you have problems adjusting to the size?

Sorry for the 20 questions and long winded just nervous and excited on the idea. Just not sure of the aftermath and not being able to turn back. It's my dark fantasy, shes just getting off on how hot I get during our talks. Dont want a bad experience to ruin a fantasy or worse our marriage. Just looking for real life experiences to judge weather or not to keep this a fantasy.
 
Don’t rush, let it evolve , don’t ******* wife but certainly nudge
I felt bad after the first time , particularly after I ejaculated. But felt excited again after few hours to see her fucked .
guys will feel bad after ejaculation briefly but soon their original self and their fantasy will be back of seeing their wife get fucked .
mon size let her not be pushed into something too big. She will open up gradually . It may take months or years . Enjoy the journey . Rush will spoil .
 
If and when you commit and actually have a meet, do it together. Be there for each other, hand holing, words of encouragement, looking in eyes, light kisses. A good lover will enjoy this and welcome it. Take your time and get to know the other person.
 
My wife and I are new to this page, and shes new to the idea. Were both in our early 30s together for 10 years married 6, on our second baby. Weve always had a great sex life, but I'm just average and self conscious. she claims I hit her cervix and fulfill all her needs. Shes only had a few before me never any black and claims the ones that were bigger JUST HURT.... I've had the fantasy since I was a teen but always was afraid and was chastised for the though. My wifes known of it but i just fully opened up to her during our quarantine together. My interracial fetish has been known since we were in college, she found it on our computer back then, just not to the extent of hotwifeing. Since I fully opened up shes been curious asking questions and talking what if scenarios, and talking possible boundaries. Shes said if we were to it would be entirely for me and shes not sure of the size thing as stated before they hurt in the past. Weve done minamal roleplay and have yet to get any toys. Our question are

Was it yours or your husband's fantasy, and how did that partner convince the other partner?

Did either of you have regrets afterwards?

How did you go about your first time?

Did you have problems adjusting to the size?

Sorry for the 20 questions and long winded just nervous and excited on the idea. Just not sure of the aftermath and not being able to turn back. It's my dark fantasy, shes just getting off on how hot I get during our talks. Dont want a bad experience to ruin a fantasy or worse our marriage. Just looking for real life experiences to judge weather or not to keep this a fantasy.
 
My wife and I are new to this page, and shes new to the idea. Were both in our early 30s together for 10 years married 6, on our second baby. Weve always had a great sex life, but I'm just average and self conscious. she claims I hit her cervix and fulfill all her needs. Shes only had a few before me never any black and claims the ones that were bigger JUST HURT.... I've had the fantasy since I was a teen but always was afraid and was chastised for the though. My wifes known of it but i just fully opened up to her during our quarantine together. My interracial fetish has been known since we were in college, she found it on our computer back then, just not to the extent of hotwifeing. Since I fully opened up shes been curious asking questions and talking what if scenarios, and talking possible boundaries. Shes said if we were to it would be entirely for me and shes not sure of the size thing as stated before they hurt in the past. Weve done minamal roleplay and have yet to get any toys. Our question are

Was it yours or your husband's fantasy, and how did that partner convince the other partner?

Did either of you have regrets afterwards?

How did you go about your first time?

Did you have problems adjusting to the size?

Sorry for the 20 questions and long winded just nervous and excited on the idea. Just not sure of the aftermath and not being able to turn back. It's my dark fantasy, shes just getting off on how hot I get during our talks. Dont want a bad experience to ruin a fantasy or worse our marriage. Just looking for real life experiences to judge weather or not to keep this a fantasy.
First, take your time and communicate about everything! Desires, fantasies, emotions, discuss them all.
1. The wife and I have enjoyed everything about being swingers, single male play, IR, solo dates, 3somes and more. But, we’ve done so over nearly 20yrs, paced ourselves, and talked about everything. We’ve had struggles navigating around family time. And maybe not applicable to you, but complications when emotions developed between a playmate and I.
2. Our journey developed as swingers, but may have some mutual lessons. We went to a sex club where we happened to find a new couple and kept play simple where just the women played. We progressed to “soft” play (m/f oral only), then same room full swap, to eventually solo play.
If you’re just looking for an IR experience, a few suggestions. First, I do suggest a sex club or maybe a larger house party. DM for details on where to find. That would allow you an intro into a sexy atmosphere without any pressure for her to do anything. Also, in group settings just giving a BJ is a friendly hello and can be a low risk intro. Glory holes are a similar option. You could try a regular club and have her be flirty, but the difference between a swinger or kink crowd compared to other places is consent. She won’t be randomly touched or feel pressure like may happen in another setting.
Next would be sex. While there are some gifted studs on this page, you don’t need a 9+” monster cock to start with (or at all). You can start w a dildo. Maybe starting w a 6” and moving up to 9”. Go black for the fun of it. Add in some fantasy talk or IR porn to go with it.
When your ready, a single male can be the answer, but it takes some sorting. Start by sifting online together, then chatting, then finally set up that date. Because you may be inundated, I (husband) filter first and then present possible options together. We always plan on a no sex first meeting so she can see if they match without any pressure.
3. As for size, see above. Sometimes the excitement of the moment, and talking w your bull about taking their time can relax her enough to take more than she ever has!
 
Hi there. I'm using Marco's log-in. This is Alyssa.

Was it yours or your husband's fantasy, and how did that partner convince the other partner?
It was actually mine, but he found out. He set it up. I warned him about the consequences when it was happening, but he didn't stop it.
Did either of you have regrets afterwards?
Not really. We've just learned to accept it as part of loving each other.
How did you go about your first time?
He wrote it here somewhere.

Did you have problems adjusting to the size?
The guy knew what he was doing and how to get me ready. When your wife is really ready, she'll be able to take a very large man fully. I'm pretty small, but he was better than 12 inches & he got fully in. It just took some time. Of course, because I was ovulating, there were consequences. But hey, that's what this really all about, isn't it?
 
Thanks for the info, my wifes not into getting pregnant by a black man. It's my fantasy my wife hadn't thought of the idea before I introduced it. I just recently bought a 8" black dildo and its girthie just over 7" in diameter and the first time we played with it to my surprise shes took it all with some play beforehand. Since shes been able to take it without the foreplay. After the first time shes couldn't believe how she acomidated it all, and said I guess women really can adjust. I could see the gears turning. Were not sure yet if we will go any further than the dildo play. But I do have a fantasy of her having passionate sex with a black man and for him to finish balls deep in her for me to clean and reclaim afterwards. Were not into her getting pregnant and raising an iligitame baby, we have 2 ******* already and dont need to explain that plus the harrassment they would receive isn't fair to them for our guilty pleasure. Just interested in the sex and to enjoy an erotic experience.
 
Thanks for the info, my wifes not into getting pregnant by a black man. It's my fantasy my wife hadn't thought of the idea before I introduced it. I just recently bought a 8" black dildo and its girthie just over 7" in diameter and the first time we played with it to my surprise shes took it all with some play beforehand. Since shes been able to take it without the foreplay. After the first time shes couldn't believe how she acomidated it all, and said I guess women really can adjust. I could see the gears turning. Were not sure yet if we will go any further than the dildo play. But I do have a fantasy of her having passionate sex with a black man and for him to finish balls deep in her for me to clean and reclaim afterwards. Were not into her getting pregnant and raising an iligitame baby, we have 2 ******* already and dont need to explain that plus the harrassment they would receive isn't fair to them for our guilty pleasure. Just interested in the sex and to enjoy an erotic experience.
i see my wife was using my log in again.
i doubt alyssa had thought about getting pregnant either.
given her background & upraising, she'd probably never would've considered it either.
when it all happened though, it just happened.
her body pretty much took over.
she said she warned me. well, not really...but i knew the risks going in.
this man had sired better than a dozen children, so i knew there was risk.
...there is always risk, & no way he was going to wear a condom!
my wife fairly petite, but like you, we played with a dildo when she'd been drinking.
i'm pretty sure she didn't remember it, but all 10 went in & she came off hard!
she was also especially happy & perky the next morning.
i will say i'm glad i got my ******* from her first, because i might not have after her first time.
as for your wife. you never know.
things happen when instincts take over & your lower head is screaming louder than your upper one.
remember also, it really ends up being her choice.
...and if she does end up pregnant, you need to ask, do you love her enough to love her baby too?
i did, and very much do!
 
My wife and I are new to this page, and shes new to the idea. Were both in our early 30s together for 10 years married 6, on our second baby. Weve always had a great sex life, but I'm just average and self conscious. she claims I hit her cervix and fulfill all her needs. Shes only had a few before me never any black and claims the ones that were bigger JUST HURT.... I've had the fantasy since I was a teen but always was afraid and was chastised for the though. My wifes known of it but i just fully opened up to her during our quarantine together. My interracial fetish has been known since we were in college, she found it on our computer back then, just not to the extent of hotwifeing. Since I fully opened up shes been curious asking questions and talking what if scenarios, and talking possible boundaries. Shes said if we were to it would be entirely for me and shes not sure of the size thing as stated before they hurt in the past. Weve done minamal roleplay and have yet to get any toys. Our question are

Was it yours or your husband's fantasy, and how did that partner convince the other partner?

Did either of you have regrets afterwards?

How did you go about your first time?

Did you have problems adjusting to the size?

Sorry for the 20 questions and long winded just nervous and excited on the idea. Just not sure of the aftermath and not being able to turn back. It's my dark fantasy, shes just getting off on how hot I get during our talks. Dont want a bad experience to ruin a fantasy or worse our marriage. Just looking for real life experiences to judge weather or not to keep this a fantasy.
Husband’s idea, didn’t take convincing, we love turning each other on.

not one regret, Fucking fun and hot

first time was fantastic

definitely takes adjusting, work in progress.
 
My husband and I became swingers after he brought a swingers magazine home. He showed to me as a joke. After looking at the magazine we made the joint decision to get involved in the swing lifestyle. Our sex lives literally exploded. One of the first couples we played with introduced me to my bisexual side. I loved sex with women! I can remember the first time we went to a swinger's club in Oakland. At one point during the night, we ended up in a group room with me and 8 or 10 guys. I don't think any of them were black. It was so turned on being naked in the middle of a huge bed with a bunch of naked guys. I crawled over to one guy stroking his cock and started sucking his cock. Obviously, that left my pussy not only exposed but available to anyone. It was a huge mental turn on for me not knowing who was fucking me.

The first black cock that I played with was also in Oakland, CA at the once famous Edgewater hotel. It was a clothing optional hotel with a pool in the middle. I'm sure some of the people on this site remember the Edgewater. I'll never forget Jim. I had never seen let alone played with a black cock before. It was like I couldn't get enough of him. I love his huge cock in my mouth and pussy. That was the beginning of my addiction to black cock.

Over time I found that the vast majority of guys that I played with were black guys. The exception of course was my husband. Our sex life was amazing. We became very active swingers. We attended swinger's parties and events all over the country.

We have been in the swing lifestyle for in excess of 45 years. We have had so many amazing adventures over the years. Swinging was and is a lifestyle for us. In October we were at Hedonism for the 30th time. Over those years our alternative lifestyle and changed and evolved. When we started, we mostly played with couples. We usually only played with single guys when there were no couples we were attracted to. There were exceptions of course, I'm sure some of you remember the parties at Thad's in San Diego. Thad promoted the club to young Navy guys and Marines in San Diego. The guys had to get naked as soon as they entered the club women in lingerie. There were always lots of young naked guys! I wasn't dressed in much more, sheer lingerie, but it gave women the power because the guys were naked. I don't think I ever went to Thad's when I didn't fuck multiple guys, and they were all black.

Now that we are older it's hard for us to connect with couples. Women in general keep themselves up better than men. Just look around at mature couples the next time you are out. The women would flirt with my husband, but I didn't want an old white guy with a huge beer gut. I want the young black Adonis!

Size is an interesting question. When I was younger there were few guys that I would not fuck until I had a warmup cock or two first. This year at Splash Mocha in Houston I played with the biggest cock I've ever had. He fucked me with a condom, and I thought for sure that I would be sore the next day. I wasn't. I'm not sure if that is a change in my body or if it's mental. You don't think you can take it, so you don't.

There are several things that avoided doing. We always play together with very rare exceptions, like you meet a guy who wants to fuck you in the Men's restroom! The relationship we have is our only relationship. I don't date guys and neither does my husband. We talk about our experiences. We are in constants communication. We talk about what we like and don't like.

Do we have any regrets? None! We have an amazing marriage, 50 years. We've had for us an incredible sex and married life. We never argue or have heated discussions. There is no jealousy. We have a very close relationship with our ******* and grandkids. This lifestyle has been very good for our life overall. I think the key to success is communication. The reality is that marriage fails 50% of the time. The 'rules" prescribed by religion simply don't work. A large number of those 50% who do stay together are extremely unhappy and living separate lives. I think the key to our success is that we decided what was best for our marriage and relationship not society or a church. That is why our marriage worked and continues to work.

I hope it works out for you guys.
 
My husband and I became swingers after he brought a swingers magazine home. He showed to me as a joke. After looking at the magazine we made the joint decision to get involved in the swing lifestyle. Our sex lives literally exploded. One of the first couples we played with introduced me to my bisexual side. I loved sex with women! I can remember the first time we went to a swinger's club in Oakland. At one point during the night, we ended up in a group room with me and 8 or 10 guys. I don't think any of them were black. It was so turned on being naked in the middle of a huge bed with a bunch of naked guys. I crawled over to one guy stroking his cock and started sucking his cock. Obviously, that left my pussy not only exposed but available to anyone. It was a huge mental turn on for me not knowing who was fucking me.

The first black cock that I played with was also in Oakland, CA at the once famous Edgewater hotel. It was a clothing optional hotel with a pool in the middle. I'm sure some of the people on this site remember the Edgewater. I'll never forget Jim. I had never seen let alone played with a black cock before. It was like I couldn't get enough of him. I love his huge cock in my mouth and pussy. That was the beginning of my addiction to black cock.

Over time I found that the vast majority of guys that I played with were black guys. The exception of course was my husband. Our sex life was amazing. We became very active swingers. We attended swinger's parties and events all over the country.

We have been in the swing lifestyle for in excess of 45 years. We have had so many amazing adventures over the years. Swinging was and is a lifestyle for us. In October we were at Hedonism for the 30th time. Over those years our alternative lifestyle and changed and evolved. When we started, we mostly played with couples. We usually only played with single guys when there were no couples we were attracted to. There were exceptions of course, I'm sure some of you remember the parties at Thad's in San Diego. Thad promoted the club to young Navy guys and Marines in San Diego. The guys had to get naked as soon as they entered the club women in lingerie. There were always lots of young naked guys! I wasn't dressed in much more, sheer lingerie, but it gave women the power because the guys were naked. I don't think I ever went to Thad's when I didn't fuck multiple guys, and they were all black.

Now that we are older it's hard for us to connect with couples. Women in general keep themselves up better than men. Just look around at mature couples the next time you are out. The women would flirt with my husband, but I didn't want an old white guy with a huge beer gut. I want the young black Adonis!

Size is an interesting question. When I was younger there were few guys that I would not fuck until I had a warmup cock or two first. This year at Splash Mocha in Houston I played with the biggest cock I've ever had. He fucked me with a condom, and I thought for sure that I would be sore the next day. I wasn't. I'm not sure if that is a change in my body or if it's mental. You don't think you can take it, so you don't.

There are several things that avoided doing. We always play together with very rare exceptions, like you meet a guy who wants to fuck you in the Men's restroom! The relationship we have is our only relationship. I don't date guys and neither does my husband. We talk about our experiences. We are in constants communication. We talk about what we like and don't like.

Do we have any regrets? None! We have an amazing marriage, 50 years. We've had for us an incredible sex and married life. We never argue or have heated discussions. There is no jealousy. We have a very close relationship with our ******* and grandkids. This lifestyle has been very good for our life overall. I think the key to success is communication. The reality is that marriage fails 50% of the time. The 'rules" prescribed by religion simply don't work. A large number of those 50% who do stay together are extremely unhappy and living separate lives. I think the key to our success is that we decided what was best for our marriage and relationship not society or a church. That is why our marriage worked and continues to work.

I hope it works out for you guys.
Thanks for sharing with us all.
 
My husband and I became swingers after he brought a swingers magazine home. He showed to me as a joke. After looking at the magazine we made the joint decision to get involved in the swing lifestyle. Our sex lives literally exploded. One of the first couples we played with introduced me to my bisexual side. I loved sex with women! I can remember the first time we went to a swinger's club in Oakland. At one point during the night, we ended up in a group room with me and 8 or 10 guys. I don't think any of them were black. It was so turned on being naked in the middle of a huge bed with a bunch of naked guys. I crawled over to one guy stroking his cock and started sucking his cock. Obviously, that left my pussy not only exposed but available to anyone. It was a huge mental turn on for me not knowing who was fucking me.

The first black cock that I played with was also in Oakland, CA at the once famous Edgewater hotel. It was a clothing optional hotel with a pool in the middle. I'm sure some of the people on this site remember the Edgewater. I'll never forget Jim. I had never seen let alone played with a black cock before. It was like I couldn't get enough of him. I love his huge cock in my mouth and pussy. That was the beginning of my addiction to black cock.

Over time I found that the vast majority of guys that I played with were black guys. The exception of course was my husband. Our sex life was amazing. We became very active swingers. We attended swinger's parties and events all over the country.

We have been in the swing lifestyle for in excess of 45 years. We have had so many amazing adventures over the years. Swinging was and is a lifestyle for us. In October we were at Hedonism for the 30th time. Over those years our alternative lifestyle and changed and evolved. When we started, we mostly played with couples. We usually only played with single guys when there were no couples we were attracted to. There were exceptions of course, I'm sure some of you remember the parties at Thad's in San Diego. Thad promoted the club to young Navy guys and Marines in San Diego. The guys had to get naked as soon as they entered the club women in lingerie. There were always lots of young naked guys! I wasn't dressed in much more, sheer lingerie, but it gave women the power because the guys were naked. I don't think I ever went to Thad's when I didn't fuck multiple guys, and they were all black.

Now that we are older it's hard for us to connect with couples. Women in general keep themselves up better than men. Just look around at mature couples the next time you are out. The women would flirt with my husband, but I didn't want an old white guy with a huge beer gut. I want the young black Adonis!

Size is an interesting question. When I was younger there were few guys that I would not fuck until I had a warmup cock or two first. This year at Splash Mocha in Houston I played with the biggest cock I've ever had. He fucked me with a condom, and I thought for sure that I would be sore the next day. I wasn't. I'm not sure if that is a change in my body or if it's mental. You don't think you can take it, so you don't.

There are several things that avoided doing. We always play together with very rare exceptions, like you meet a guy who wants to fuck you in the Men's restroom! The relationship we have is our only relationship. I don't date guys and neither does my husband. We talk about our experiences. We are in constants communication. We talk about what we like and don't like.

Do we have any regrets? None! We have an amazing marriage, 50 years. We've had for us an incredible sex and married life. We never argue or have heated discussions. There is no jealousy. We have a very close relationship with our ******* and grandkids. This lifestyle has been very good for our life overall. I think the key to success is communication. The reality is that marriage fails 50% of the time. The 'rules" prescribed by religion simply don't work. A large number of those 50% who do stay together are extremely unhappy and living separate lives. I think the key to our success is that we decided what was best for our marriage and relationship not society or a church. That is why our marriage worked and continues to work.

I hope it works out for you guys.
We are from Nebraska but remember the Edgewater back in the day. Did you ever go to the Power Exchange in San Francisco?
 
We are from Nebraska but remember the Edgewater back in the day. Did you ever go to the Power Exchange in San Francisco?
Yes we were at the Power Exchange several times in different locations. We aways have an interesting time there! Mike Powers who started it moved to Vegas. We got to know him here in Vegas. His ******* is running the club now. The Edgewater was always very interesting. I remember one time there was a woman who was inviting everyone to watch her dog fuck her. I really wish the Edgewater was still there.
 
Yes we were at the Power Exchange several times in different locations. We aways have an interesting time there! Mike Powers who started it moved to Vegas. We got to know him here in Vegas. His ******* is running the club now. The Edgewater was always very interesting. I remember one time there was a woman who was inviting everyone to watch her dog fuck her. I really wish the Edgewater was still there.
We miss them. One year at the Halloween party at the Power Exchange, I had Scott wear assless chaps and nothing else. Well, except a collar and leash. Those were the days. Where can we go in Vegas next time we are there?
 
My wife and I are new to this page, and shes new to the idea. Were both in our early 30s together for 10 years married 6, on our second baby. Weve always had a great sex life, but I'm just average and self conscious. she claims I hit her cervix and fulfill all her needs. Shes only had a few before me never any black and claims the ones that were bigger JUST HURT.... I've had the fantasy since I was a teen but always was afraid and was chastised for the though. My wifes known of it but i just fully opened up to her during our quarantine together. My interracial fetish has been known since we were in college, she found it on our computer back then, just not to the extent of hotwifeing. Since I fully opened up shes been curious asking questions and talking what if scenarios, and talking possible boundaries. Shes said if we were to it would be entirely for me and shes not sure of the size thing as stated before they hurt in the past. Weve done minamal roleplay and have yet to get any toys. Our question are

Was it yours or your husband's fantasy, and how did that partner convince the other partner?

Did either of you have regrets afterwards?

How did you go about your first time?

Did you have problems adjusting to the size?

Sorry for the 20 questions and long winded just nervous and excited on the idea. Just not sure of the aftermath and not being able to turn back. It's my dark fantasy, shes just getting off on how hot I get during our talks. Dont want a bad experience to ruin a fantasy or worse our marriage. Just looking for real life experiences to judge weather or not to keep this a fantasy.
DM me if you want true, real world advice.
 
My wife and I are new to this page, and shes new to the idea. Were both in our early 30s together for 10 years married 6, on our second baby. Weve always had a great sex life, but I'm just average and self conscious. she claims I hit her cervix and fulfill all her needs. Shes only had a few before me never any black and claims the ones that were bigger JUST HURT.... I've had the fantasy since I was a teen but always was afraid and was chastised for the though. My wifes known of it but i just fully opened up to her during our quarantine together. My interracial fetish has been known since we were in college, she found it on our computer back then, just not to the extent of hotwifeing. Since I fully opened up shes been curious asking questions and talking what if scenarios, and talking possible boundaries. Shes said if we were to it would be entirely for me and shes not sure of the size thing as stated before they hurt in the past. Weve done minamal roleplay and have yet to get any toys. Our question are

Was it yours or your husband's fantasy, and how did that partner convince the other partner?

Did either of you have regrets afterwards?

How did you go about your first time?

Did you have problems adjusting to the size?

Sorry for the 20 questions and long winded just nervous and excited on the idea. Just not sure of the aftermath and not being able to turn back. It's my dark fantasy, shes just getting off on how hot I get during our talks. Dont want a bad experience to ruin a fantasy or worse our marriage. Just looking for real life experiences to judrge weather or not to keep this a fantasy.
just saw this. Have you gone any furthur? We started with a 3some, a white freind. It put her at ease and left a desire to experiment
 
It was the girlfriends fantasy but easily embraced by the boyfriend

Did either of you have regrets afterwards?
Not at all. It made our bond even stronger

How did you go about your first time?
Only blow job but such a great big cock

Did you have problems adjusting to the size
A bit but it was fun
 
just saw this. Have you gone any furthur? We started with a 3some, a white freind. It put her at ease and left a desire to experiment
No we hit a standstill after our second baby, lucky most of the time to fine a spare minute so we can full around. It’s mostly my fantasy would love to try it but believe a fantasy it may stay
 
It was the girlfriends fantasy but easily embraced by the boyfriend

Did either of you have regrets afterwards?
Not at all. It made our bond even stronger

How did you go about your first time?
Only blow job but such a great big cock

Did you have problems adjusting to the size
A bit but it was fun
Where are you from?
 
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