Questions for all the cucks/stags and couples👄

[Kaaa]

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[Mootje]

I ll wait to read the comments. interesting topic LMAO

 

[WhiteHubby30]

So I think everyone has or had doubts sometimes(?) and maybe even feel like it’s morally wrong especially if you’ve always been a loyal person previous to this and it goes for both the female and male.. Fantasy vs reality!

What made you want to do it and how did you know for sure that it was right for you? Did you ever get ”disgusted” by your wife, feeling like she betrayed and cheated on you? And how did it make you feel the first time? I want to know if it ever made you struggle and if it was hard to keep your feelings in check at some point in this lifestyle..

I’ve noticed that it’s usually the man who wants it in the beginning and are the one introducing the idea to his woman. Have you ever questioned it and thought your wife could possibly leave you for another man or always trusted her 100%? Where do you draw the limits? I know it’s different for everybody but I would love to see it from other couples,especially the mans point of view.. Is it okay to have an ’emotional’ connection with someone else or is it just sex? And what do you prefer and enjoy most about it? Watching? Cleaning? Humiliation? Making your wife completely satisfied? The feeling?

I know where my own limits are but I just want to hear other thoughts and perspectives of it all Haha I’m so hooked already and haven’t even proceed the fantasy yet!

With us, it was actually my wife who first approached me about black guys

 

[Kaaa]

Where are all the cucks

 

[Canuckcuck69]

Where are all the cucks

Right here.

 

[JKcouplePNW]

Me, the husband did broach the topic of non-monogamy first. I've never questioned my wife's loyalty, or commitment to our marriage. Its something we experience together as a couple to augment an already great sex life. We usually play together and she requires condoms but otherwise dont have many hard rules. We've had a regular now for over a year. We are friendly with him and share what's going on on each other's lives but neither he nor us is looking to change anyone's situation so "feelings" isnt an issue. I prefer a MFM threesome. I have no issue with a solo hall pass, as long as its reciprocal. I dont clean up, humiliation/denial/caging etc have no place in oit dynamic. I just enjoy having sexy adventures with my wife.

This times 1000

 

[bad voodoo]

I didn't have to twist her arm. She's always been interested in black men, so I let her indulge knowing they're really the kind of men she responds to sexually. I want her to be satisfied completely, and IMO we only live once. No sense in keeping her from the kind of men she's so naturally attracted to. I love it because I get to experience her in ways I couldn't if I placed limits on her sexuality. it's amazing. And she looks amazing after being blacked. And she tastes great when she gets home!

 

[2jvixennstag]

Husband here.

What made you want to do it and how did you know for sure that it was right for you?
Very long story, 20+ years long. Readers digest version, I saw a threesome in real life one night, went home told my wife about it and then fantasized that my wife was the one sandwiched between the two men. I knew when I couldn't picture the woman I'd seen but only my wife in my imagination I wanted her to experience it.

Did you ever get ”disgusted” by your wife, feeling like she betrayed and cheated on you?
I have never felt betrayed, I have been angsty and nervous when certain guidelines weren't followed. Just the opposite of disgusted she turns me on so much it's hard not to be able to take her every time I see her.

And how did it make you feel the first time?
I had nothing but butterflies as I watched them begin. I also became so excited to see her begin without any hesitation whatsoever.

Has it ever made you struggle and if it was hard to keep your feelings in check at some point in this lifestyle?
I have only had one slip of the emotions that came from a missed check in. Talked it through and have compromised to ease my issues until I am comfortable in those situations again.

Have you ever questioned it and thought your wife could possibly leave you for another man or always trusted her 100%?
I always have that gut check when we are meeting someone. Especially when I perceive that they are making love not just fucking, but then again I also get harder when this happens.

Where do you draw the limits?
This is only to enhance our relationship by involving someone that we connect with and respect. Whatever we do cannot effect our family life or professional life. Other than that I don't set limits, I make it clear that I am uncomfortable with something and she can make the decision whether it stays in her repertoire.

Is it okay to have an ’emotional’ connection with someone else or is it just sex?
After her first experience, it was clear that some kind of connection other than physical would be required for her to enjoy herself. That could be emotional or intellectual, but something has to click.

What do you prefer and enjoy most about it? Watching? Cleaning? Humiliation? Making your wife completely satisfied? The feeling?
I love seeing the pleasure that she gets, I cannot see it when I make love to her because I am too close. I love that she has become my favorite adult star. Funny how I can't get off now without seeing her under me, under someone else, or fucking someone on video.

 

[Kaaa]

Husband here.

What made you want to do it and how did you know for sure that it was right for you?
Very long story, 20+ years long. Readers digest version, I saw a threesome in real life one night, went home told my wife about it and then fantasized that my wife was the one sandwiched between the two men. I knew when I couldn't picture the woman I'd seen but only my wife in my imagination I wanted her to experience it.

Did you ever get ”disgusted” by your wife, feeling like she betrayed and cheated on you?
I have never felt betrayed, I have been angsty and nervous when certain guidelines weren't followed. Just the opposite of disgusted she turns me on so much it's hard not to be able to take her every time I see her.

And how did it make you feel the first time?
I had nothing but butterflies as I watched them begin. I also became so excited to see her begin without any hesitation whatsoever.

Has it ever made you struggle and if it was hard to keep your feelings in check at some point in this lifestyle?
I have only had one slip of the emotions that came from a missed check in. Talked it through and have compromised to ease my issues until I am comfortable in those situations again.

Have you ever questioned it and thought your wife could possibly leave you for another man or always trusted her 100%?
I always have that gut check when we are meeting someone. Especially when I perceive that they are making love not just fucking, but then again I also get harder when this happens.

Where do you draw the limits?
This is only to enhance our relationship by involving someone that we connect with and respect. Whatever we do cannot effect our family life or professional life. Other than that I don't set limits, I make it clear that I am uncomfortable with something and she can make the decision whether it stays in her repertoire.

Is it okay to have an ’emotional’ connection with someone else or is it just sex?
After her first experience, it was clear that some kind of connection other than physical would be required for her to enjoy herself. That could be emotional or intellectual, but something has to click.

What do you prefer and enjoy most about it? Watching? Cleaning? Humiliation? Making your wife completely satisfied? The feeling?
I love seeing the pleasure that she gets, I cannot see it when I make love to her because I am too close. I love that she has become my favorite adult star. Funny how I can't get off now without seeing her under me, under someone else, or fucking someone on video.

I appreciate you taking your time to answer my questions.. It made things so much clearer for me so thanks

 

[Stag&Vixen4BBC]

Husband here. I started hinting around and watching IR porn with her, talking dirty, calling her my naughty little hotwife. She didnt show any interest in it until she was sure it wasn't a trap or something to check her loyalty. Once I showed her i was serious, she really got into it. She has had 2 black men in 3 years which have become steady. We have no regrets. We are not into cuckold humiliation, clean up or me sucking a cock. Never gunna happen. I enjoy filming and directing while they fuck. I really enjoy watching her suck BBC which is good cause she LOVES to suck her bulls BBC. Good luck and have fun.

 

[Kaaa]

Husband here. I started hinting around and watching IR porn with her, talking dirty, calling her my naughty little hotwife. She didnt show any interest in it until she was sure it wasn't a trap or something to check her loyalty. Once I showed her i was serious, she really got into it. She has had 2 black men in 3 years which have become steady. We have no regrets. We are not into cuckold humiliation, clean up or me sucking a cock. Never gunna happen. I enjoy filming and directing while they fuck. I really enjoy watching her suck BBC which is good cause she LOVES to suck her bulls BBC. Good luck and have fun.

Check her loyalty. . that’s exactly what i thought in the beginning. Have you ever been a jealous person in your relationship prior to this?

 

[Stag&Vixen4BBC]

For a short time when I first met my wife. I had been cheated on, granted we were young, my ex was 17 I was 19. Anyway, i figured if shes going to leave me, oh well thats life and I never worried about it again.

 

[Kaaa]

For a short time when I first met my wife. I had been cheated on, granted we were young, my ex was 17 I was 19. Anyway, i figured if shes going to leave me, oh well thats life and I never worried about it again.

Oh that’s fucked up.. but i’m glad you were able to move on from it though

 

[tomtomjim]

i do not doubt that there is a lot of subconscious stuff going on but we usually find rational ways to justify our feelings. i know from my own experience that it is not just about sex and that the woman needs to feel in control for this to work well

 

[bostonbean]

good thread.

 

[tenaciousQoS]

So I think everyone has or had doubts sometimes(?) and maybe even feel like it’s morally wrong especially if you’ve always been a loyal person previous to this and it goes for both the female and male.. Fantasy vs reality!

What made you want to do it and how did you know for sure that it was right for you? Did you ever get ”disgusted” by your wife, feeling like she betrayed and cheated on you? And how did it make you feel the first time? I want to know if it ever made you struggle and if it was hard to keep your feelings in check at some point in this lifestyle..

I’ve noticed that it’s usually the man who wants it in the beginning and are the one introducing the idea to his woman. Have you ever questioned it and thought your wife could possibly leave you for another man or always trusted her 100%? Where do you draw the limits? I know it’s different for everybody but I would love to see it from other couples,especially the mans point of view.. Is it okay to have an ’emotional’ connection with someone else or is it just sex? And what do you prefer and enjoy most about it? Watching? Cleaning? Humiliation? Making your wife completely satisfied? The feeling?

I know where my own limits are but I just want to hear other thoughts and perspectives of it all Haha I’m so hooked already and haven’t even proceed the fantasy yet!

I have to be honest that no one else can suggest you whats best for you and your partner. There is a whole variety of opinion based on people's own experiences but remember non of them were similar. They all have different ages, different age at which they started this, family situations and whole lot of factors including bulls. As a man I believe every cuck at somepoint in this lifestyle feels bad about it, have regrets but often its too late and there is no way back. Those who re-adjust their clocks and deals it with maturity they survive and others just destroy their families. This is a very rewarding but very difficult paith. Probably those who have started late have the highiest survival. Just a guess.

 

[Cuckcouple24]

So I think everyone has or had doubts sometimes(?) and maybe even feel like it’s morally wrong especially if you’ve always been a loyal person previous to this and it goes for both the female and male.. Fantasy vs reality!

What made you want to do it and how did you know for sure that it was right for you? Did you ever get ”disgusted” by your wife, feeling like she betrayed and cheated on you? And how did it make you feel the first time? I want to know if it ever made you struggle and if it was hard to keep your feelings in check at some point in this lifestyle..

I’ve noticed that it’s usually the man who wants it in the beginning and are the one introducing the idea to his woman. Have you ever questioned it and thought your wife could possibly leave you for another man or always trusted her 100%? Where do you draw the limits? I know it’s different for everybody but I would love to see it from other couples,especially the mans point of view.. Is it okay to have an ’emotional’ connection with someone else or is it just sex? And what do you prefer and enjoy most about it? Watching? Cleaning? Humiliation? Making your wife completely satisfied? The feeling?

I know where my own limits are but I just want to hear other thoughts and perspectives of it all Haha I’m so hooked already and haven’t even proceed the fantasy yet!

I am cuckold and this is how the relationship with my wife has evolved over time. As with most, it was my fantasy to see my wife with a black man. She was against the idea at first. She did not understand why I wanted to see her with another man and she saw it as cheating. She was raised in a conservative family and had only been with a few guys prior including myself. And she had only been with white guys and stated that she never found herself being attracted to men of a different race.It took a few months of in depth conversations to convince my wife to try it. It became a lifestyle for us shortly after her first experience. I love seeing my wife get lost in sexual ectasy with her black bulls. I love to watch especially during those times in which she seems to have forgotten that I am there. I like to see my wife develop a strong relationship with her bull. I guess the danger of losing her to another man is part of the excitement for me. Our relationship progressed to a cuckold relationship over time. And there are times where I get jealous when I witness the degree of satisfaction my wife receives from her encounters. I enjoy being humiliated by both my wife and her bull. Feel free to ask me any questions if you have any.

 

[Kaaa]

I have to be honest that no one else can suggest you whats best for you and your partner. There is a whole variety of opinion based on people's own experiences but remember non of them were similar. They all have different ages, different age at which they started this, family situations and whole lot of factors including bulls. As a man I believe every cuck at somepoint in this lifestyle feels bad about it, have regrets but often its too late and there is no way back. Those who re-adjust their clocks and deals it with maturity they survive and others just destroy their families. This is a very rewarding but very difficult paith. Probably those who have started late have the highiest survival. Just a guess.

You’re right! I see what you’re saying and it’s definitely something to consider before jumping in to things although my man isn’t a cuck or into cuckolding i still know it’s a risk with this certain lifestyles so i’m even more selective than usually if that’s possible but yeah better safe than sorry tbh

 

[makeherhappy2]

Husband here.

What made you want to do it and how did you know for sure that it was right for you?
Very long story, 20+ years long. Readers digest version, I saw a threesome in real life one night, went home told my wife about it and then fantasized that my wife was the one sandwiched between the two men. I knew when I couldn't picture the woman I'd seen but only my wife in my imagination I wanted her to experience it.

Did you ever get ”disgusted” by your wife, feeling like she betrayed and cheated on you?
I have never felt betrayed, I have been angsty and nervous when certain guidelines weren't followed. Just the opposite of disgusted she turns me on so much it's hard not to be able to take her every time I see her.

And how did it make you feel the first time?
I had nothing but butterflies as I watched them begin. I also became so excited to see her begin without any hesitation whatsoever.

Has it ever made you struggle and if it was hard to keep your feelings in check at some point in this lifestyle?
I have only had one slip of the emotions that came from a missed check in. Talked it through and have compromised to ease my issues until I am comfortable in those situations again.

Have you ever questioned it and thought your wife could possibly leave you for another man or always trusted her 100%?
I always have that gut check when we are meeting someone. Especially when I perceive that they are making love not just fucking, but then again I also get harder when this happens.

Where do you draw the limits?
This is only to enhance our relationship by involving someone that we connect with and respect. Whatever we do cannot effect our family life or professional life. Other than that I don't set limits, I make it clear that I am uncomfortable with something and she can make the decision whether it stays in her repertoire.

Is it okay to have an ’emotional’ connection with someone else or is it just sex?
After her first experience, it was clear that some kind of connection other than physical would be required for her to enjoy herself. That could be emotional or intellectual, but something has to click.

What do you prefer and enjoy most about it? Watching? Cleaning? Humiliation? Making your wife completely satisfied? The feeling?
I love seeing the pleasure that she gets, I cannot see it when I make love to her because I am too close. I love that she has become my favorite adult star. Funny how I can't get off now without seeing her under me, under someone else, or fucking someone on video.

Agreed. So many valid thoughts and feelings documented here. This is a real cuck. Guaranteed.

 

[Hyperxxxguy]

I am cuckold and this is how the relationship with my wife has evolved over time. As with most, it was my fantasy to see my wife with a black man. She was against the idea at first. She did not understand why I wanted to see her with another man and she saw it as cheating. She was raised in a conservative family and had only been with a few guys prior including myself. And she had only been with white guys and stated that she never found herself being attracted to men of a different race.It took a few months of in depth conversations to convince my wife to try it. It became a lifestyle for us shortly after her first experience. I love seeing my wife get lost in sexual ectasy with her black bulls. I love to watch especially during those times in which she seems to have forgotten that I am there. I like to see my wife develop a strong relationship with her bull. I guess the danger of losing her to another man is part of the excitement for me. Our relationship progressed to a cuckold relationship over time. And there are times where I get jealous when I witness the degree of satisfaction my wife receives from her encounters. I enjoy being humiliated by both my wife and her bull. Feel free to ask me any questions if you have any.

Fucking hot