Question for Cucks, Why Soft When Watching?

Staying soft is not especially a sign you
If your not aroused watching then you have a problem 😂
Having an erection is a physical proof that you are aroused (also as a cuck) but not having a boner is not the proof that you are not aroused. Next to the physical aspect of being aroused there is also the mental aspect that you can be aoused without having a boner. Lots of men with physical ED and unwanted and wanted ED such as subs and total bottoms are quite aroused without having a hard cock. With time erogenous zones move more to your ass and between your balls and ass and nipples and you get shivers on these places, precum and wetness in your ass.
 
Staying soft is not especially a sign you

Having an erection is a physical proof that you are aroused (also as a cuck) but not having a boner is not the proof that you are not aroused. Next to the physical aspect of being aroused there is also the mental aspect that you can be aoused without having a boner. Lots of men with physical ED and unwanted and wanted ED such as subs and total bottoms are quite aroused without having a hard cock. With time erogenous zones move more to your ass and between your balls and ass and nipples and you get shivers on these places, precum and wetness in your ass.
Never had that without a hard on sorry
 
The thought of a well hung black guy fucking my wife senseless gets me instantly hard. Hell we went for a walk in a local park a couple weeks ago and she whispered some BBC scorching hot fantasy talk in my ear and I had to adjust my cock to make it less noticeable.

Which leads me to my question, I see probably well less than 50% of cucks hard and some stroking their cocks watching the fantasy we want more than anything playing out in real life, but the majority aren’t hard while the action is going down. Why is that?
Very good question. Although watching my wife play is extremely hot and I’m always caged when she plays, with precum continuously oozing from my cock, I rarely get hard while watching.
 
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The thought of a well hung black guy fucking my wife senseless gets me instantly hard. Hell we went for a walk in a local park a couple weeks ago and she whispered some BBC scorching hot fantasy talk in my ear and I had to adjust my cock to make it less noticeable.

Which leads me to my question, I see probably well less than 50% of cucks hard and some stroking their cocks watching the fantasy we want more than anything playing out in real life, but the majority aren’t hard while the action is going down. Why is that?
Sometimes I’m soft in our videos because I came and ruined most of the time or had been moving around filming. I’m typically hard as a rock. If I’m standing still not worry about catching the perfect angle.
 
Common i think. My wife was sucking a black dildo really hard and as i went down on her, i actually got soft. Still leaking but soft.
 
Thanks everyone this has been very helpful. All the reasons given make sense. To summarize:
ED issues, either physical or mental
Cuck not wanting to cum then deal with the post cum blues
Caged

Any other reasons?
If you’re talking about what you’re seeing in porn can simply be they are actors and not really into it.

I don’t stay hard the whole time unless it’s being physically stimulated. And I’m often busy either filming, servicing one or both orally, or otherwise have my hands involved holding up legs or what have you and not just jacking off the whole time. But I’m leaking a sticky river regardless of whether I’m hard.
 
The thought of a well hung black guy fucking my wife senseless gets me instantly hard. Hell we went for a walk in a local park a couple weeks ago and she whispered some BBC scorching hot fantasy talk in my ear and I had to adjust my cock to make it less noticeable.

Which leads me to my question, I see probably well less than 50% of cucks hard and some stroking their cocks watching the fantasy we want more than anything playing out in real life, but the majority aren’t hard while the action is going down. Why is that?
You have a received a variety of responses from cucks to others. Our play is more from the swinger world where it’s not about dominance, caged…. I don’t get hard at times while watching because it’s not about me. My attention is fully focused on my wife’s amazing experience. I go from participant to spectator. Not in a sub way, but as a happy husband. My wife will eventually ask me to rejoin and hare again without a problem.
 
The thought of a well hung black guy fucking my wife senseless gets me instantly hard. Hell we went for a walk in a local park a couple weeks ago and she whispered some BBC scorching hot fantasy talk in my ear and I had to adjust my cock to make it less noticeable.

Which leads me to my question, I see probably well less than 50% of cucks hard and some stroking their cocks watching the fantasy we want more than anything playing out in real life, but the majority aren’t hard while the action is going down. Why is that?
It's so overwhelmingly exciting that we're over stimulated and it shuts it down.
 
The thought of a well hung black guy fucking my wife senseless gets me instantly hard. Hell we went for a walk in a local park a couple weeks ago and she whispered some BBC scorching hot fantasy talk in my ear and I had to adjust my cock to make it less noticeable.

Which leads me to my question, I see probably well less than 50% of cucks hard and some stroking their cocks watching the fantasy we want more than anything playing out in real life, but the majority aren’t hard while the action is going down. Why is that?
No stroking necessary the sight alone makes my cage uncomfortable 🥴
 
I usually am so hard when I watch my wife being fucked by her bull, I don't need hand-stimulus to maintain an erection, my small cock stands proud unsupported, which it rarely did when I used to try PIV sex. If I feminize as fully as I can my wife's bull will sometimes let me suck his cock, and as much as I enjoy it, my own little cock goes even smaller and softer than normal.
 
ok h

had my co worker break up with her bf
i used to tell her i was 9 inchs
never thinking we would hook up
she saw my cock andlaughed, called her bbc friend he showed up . i was rock hard untill he pulled that bbc out

went limp .. they laughed and said.look like a big clit..wtf
😂😂 did he fuck her that day you saw it?
 
i can get as hard as my cage will allow its not much at this point after twenty yeaRS in a cage its all mental for me now not physically erect and turzrned on its physhically limp and mentally turned on to cumming limp. with i do on all the time therse days limp sputting. rather humillillatibng as i cabt get hard any more.
 
No problem here just the thought of her receiving BBC’s I’m harder than a risk steel girder lol and the time she actually got her pussy fucked on a drunken night out I get her home and just going down on her and feeling the burning red hot passion and her pussy was still open gaping and her pussy lips were all puffy and swollen a bit red/pink Then I started to get my tongue on her clit after slowly kissing her from her feet all way down her ankles calf’s and thighs
Soon as I hit her pussy with my tongue

She was moaning and lifting her ass and hips upwards into my mouth and holding the back of my head pulling me in as she started climaxing her toes curled
Her legs shaking
Her eyes rolling in her head crying & laughing mind blowing orgasm

Then the most embarrassing thing ever happens to me
Without any warning without even touching my cock. I also erupted the biggest load I’ve ever blown. Yep all inside my boxer shorts.
Just from licking her well fucked pussy after a black man had just used her like a flesh light lol


I did stay hard tho and slipped into her red hot slippery slick wet pussy before the second load came within a minute or 2 at the most 😳😳😳
I've been pretty much conditioned to cum while I'm still eating her creampie. She loves seeing that.
 
i can get as hard as my cage will allow its not much at this point after twenty yeaRS in a cage its all mental for me now not physically erect and turzrned on its physhically limp and mentally turned on to cumming limp. with i do on all the time therse days limp sputting. rather humillillatibng as i cabt get hard any more.
I squirt in my cage too, don't get hard, but still stay just as horny as before I squirted.
 
I have a great story about some friends of ours we brought into the BBC lifestyle. It's rather long so I won't bore anyone but the husband of the other couple had a "reaction" lol.. I don't think he knew what he was getting into when he saw his wife getting absolutely railed by a large calibre black guy
I'd like to hear about this too!
 
The thought of a well hung black guy fucking my wife senseless gets me instantly hard. Hell we went for a walk in a local park a couple weeks ago and she whispered some BBC scorching hot fantasy talk in my ear and I had to adjust my cock to make it less noticeable.

Which leads me to my question, I see probably well less than 50% of cucks hard and some stroking their cocks watching the fantasy we want more than anything playing out in real life, but the majority aren’t hard while the action is going down. Why is that?
Not sure I get hard just thinking about let alone watching.
 
I have shot my load so many times before doing anything I find my self coming so quickly stroll second time and I’m not really what I call hard that beats me how that happens
 
For me the only time I get hard is watching my wife begging our black bull to fuck her then watching him slowly start penetrating her tight pussy stretching her more than my little white cock has ever managed to do .
The only other time I get hard is after taking viagra .
 
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