Question for Cucks, Why Soft When Watching?

[Wife4Black77]

The thought of a well hung black guy fucking my wife senseless gets me instantly hard. Hell we went for a walk in a local park a couple weeks ago and she whispered some BBC scorching hot fantasy talk in my ear and I had to adjust my cock to make it less noticeable.

Which leads me to my question, I see probably well less than 50% of cucks hard and some stroking their cocks watching the fantasy we want more than anything playing out in real life, but the majority aren’t hard while the action is going down. Why is that?

 

[ridinmydonkey]

I've played with a several couples who's hubby had ED issues, and couldn't get or maintain an erection.

 

[mistercuck]

I'm assuming they either have ED or some angst or are trying so hard not to be aroused so they don't cum and then regret it.

 

[NYCCuck]

This is ironic, as the only time I do get hard is when I’m watching BBC…

 

[jackiecuck]

for us I don't get hard when we play with others but its most likely because she has me locked

 

[paolacpl]

The thought of a well hung black guy fucking my wife senseless gets me instantly hard. Hell we went for a walk in a local park a couple weeks ago and she whispered some BBC scorching hot fantasy talk in my ear and I had to adjust my cock to make it less noticeable.

Which leads me to my question, I see probably well less than 50% of cucks hard and some stroking their cocks watching the fantasy we want more than anything playing out in real life, but the majority aren’t hard while the action is going down. Why is that?

It could be that when it is real, other thoughts, such as embarrassment, come in and work in the opposite direction.
However, I've always been very tough. The embarrassment immediately passed after I watched the Bull take my wife

 

[Staghubby40]

I have a great story about some friends of ours we brought into the BBC lifestyle. It's rather long so I won't bore anyone but the husband of the other couple had a "reaction" lol.. I don't think he knew what he was getting into when he saw his wife getting absolutely railed by a large calibre black guy

 

[nancyscuck]

I am still a wannabe but have noticed when chatting with real alpha men I may only get half hard at best. When I am having my anal orgasms my dick gets so small it tucks up inside my foreskin.
I would imagine if I were to become a cuckold I would also remain soft.

 

[Kivi003]

The thought of a well hung black guy fucking my wife senseless gets me instantly hard. Hell we went for a walk in a local park a couple weeks ago and she whispered some BBC scorching hot fantasy talk in my ear and I had to adjust my cock to make it less noticeable.

Which leads me to my question, I see probably well less than 50% of cucks hard and some stroking their cocks watching the fantasy we want more than anything playing out in real life, but the majority aren’t hard while the action is going down. Why is that?

i get hard even tho im caged when my wife is having sex. it really turns me on. but the thing is im getting more and more trouble staying erect and even achieveing erection. i think thats the cages fault mainly.

 

[DanandD]

I’m usually rock hard while she is getting fucked. Even when I’m at work and she’s home getting nailed I’m rock hard. And I’m usually crazy hard when I get my turn as I love how she feels after she has been fucked.

 

[Wife4Black77]

Thanks everyone this has been very helpful. All the reasons given make sense. To summarize:
ED issues, either physical or mental
Cuck not wanting to cum then deal with the post cum blues
Caged

Any other reasons?

 

[Staghubby40]

Thanks everyone this has been very helpful. All the reasons given make sense. To summarize:
ED issues, either physical or mental
Cuck not wanting to cum then deal with the post cum blues
Caged

Any other reasons?

Some guys aren't ready for how their wife reacts... They think they are.

 

[Pampix]

As a cuck you are or want to be submissive and fitting or want to fit to the idea that you are unable to perform. Also a lot of cucks like humilation, you get this for a part through the situation that somebody else is fucking your girl before you eyes but even more if you can not get it up in a situation where there is sex happening. So having a soft cock fits that idea and function as a cuck. I see a strong parallel with the role as a gay (total) bottom. Being submissive and fitting to the function of receiving the top you do not need to have a hard-on. As a cuck the bull fulfills the function of the penetrating dominant alphamale and the cuck of the beta passive submissive male. Allso age is an important parameter, when you are young you get horny and a boner with a little (visual) trigger when you get older you need much more. Also when you get older you also get more off the mental aspect then when you are younger and a hard-on is less important. Having a cuck with a hard-on is to my opinion not so appropriate because it mixes up the roles of the alpha and beta. To have a nice cuckscene I think it is important that it is clear who is who. My experience is that a lot of men that want to fuck your wife do it for the fucking on itself and prefer not to have the husband around except if they get extra horny by the powerplay of this. Also having the cuck in a chastitycage is a very good and common practice to hold the roles clear but also prevents the cuck to start masturbating what can disturb the bull and make him loose his erection.. The scenes and situations where the cuck is hard is mostly with younger cucks. A long time ago in the first moments my girlfriend had a lover it made me horny and wanting to fuck her all the time as a sort of competition but once I realised he was much better in bed then me I got uncertain and doubting about my sexual stamina and got ED because of that and could not get it up anymore.

 

[VanIsleCpl]

The thought of a well hung black guy fucking my wife senseless gets me instantly hard. Hell we went for a walk in a local park a couple weeks ago and she whispered some BBC scorching hot fantasy talk in my ear and I had to adjust my cock to make it less noticeable.

Which leads me to my question, I see probably well less than 50% of cucks hard and some stroking their cocks watching the fantasy we want more than anything playing out in real life, but the majority aren’t hard while the action is going down. Why is that?

Because I was taught that it is disrespectful to her bull if I get hard. Meaning she may want to play with my cock also, which is for when they're finished. And I just can't get hard while her bull is inside her, probably due to her first bull locking up my cock while he's here so he's the only one with a hard cock, getting hard literally hurt so my cock kind of know not to get hard while he's here, lol

 

[geoffrya]

The thought of a well hung black guy fucking my wife senseless gets me instantly hard. Hell we went for a walk in a local park a couple weeks ago and she whispered some BBC scorching hot fantasy talk in my ear and I had to adjust my cock to make it less noticeable.

Which leads me to my question, I see probably well less than 50% of cucks hard and some stroking their cocks watching the fantasy we want more than anything playing out in real life, but the majority aren’t hard while the action is going down. Why is that?

he has probably jerked off already at the thought i know i have many times

 

[cuckoldcouple69UK]

When we first started I'd always get hard, even arranging the meeting would get me hard, over the years though the effect has worn off. Talking about it, watching porn does nothing for me now. Same with the chastity cage, when I first got it I would get hard before I even got it out, would have to use a bag of ice to shrink it to fit it. Now have no trouble fitting it . Think over the years you get used to it and it doesn't turn me on as much.

 

[WeAllWantBbc]

I have a great story about some friends of ours we brought into the BBC lifestyle. It's rather long so I won't bore anyone but the husband of the other couple had a "reaction" lol.. I don't think he knew what he was getting into when he saw his wife getting absolutely railed by a large calibre black guy

I wanna hear that story.

 

[cuckbyeverygf]

The thought of a well hung black guy fucking my wife senseless gets me instantly hard. Hell we went for a walk in a local park a couple weeks ago and she whispered some BBC scorching hot fantasy talk in my ear and I had to adjust my cock to make it less noticeable.

Which leads me to my question, I see probably well less than 50% of cucks hard and some stroking their cocks watching the fantasy we want more than anything playing out in real life, but the majority aren’t hard while the action is going down. Why is that?

feeling lost
omg

 

[Whitewifeneedsbbc]

No problem here just the thought of her receiving BBC’s I’m harder than a risk steel girder lol and the time she actually got her pussy fucked on a drunken night out I get her home and just going down on her and feeling the burning red hot passion and her pussy was still open gaping and her pussy lips were all puffy and swollen a bit red/pink Then I started to get my tongue on her clit after slowly kissing her from her feet all way down her ankles calf’s and thighs
Soon as I hit her pussy with my tongue

She was moaning and lifting her ass and hips upwards into my mouth and holding the back of my head pulling me in as she started climaxing her toes curled
Her legs shaking
Her eyes rolling in her head crying & laughing mind blowing orgasm

Then the most embarrassing thing ever happens to me
Without any warning without even touching my cock. I also erupted the biggest load I’ve ever blown. Yep all inside my boxer shorts.
Just from licking her well fucked pussy after a black man had just used her like a flesh light lol


I did stay hard tho and slipped into her red hot slippery slick wet pussy before the second load came within a minute or 2 at the most

 

[cuckbyeverygf]

No problem here just the thought of her receiving BBC’s I’m harder than a risk steel girder lol and the time she actually got her pussy fucked on a drunken night out I get her home and just going down on her and feeling the burning red hot passion and her pussy was still open gaping and her pussy lips were all puffy and swollen a bit red/pink Then I started to get my tongue on her clit after slowly kissing her from her feet all way down her ankles calf’s and thighs
Soon as I hit her pussy with my tongue

She was moaning and lifting her ass and hips upwards into my mouth and holding the back of my head pulling me in as she started climaxing her toes curled
Her legs shaking
Her eyes rolling in her head crying & laughing mind blowing orgasm

Then the most embarrassing thing ever happens to me
Without any warning without even touching my cock. I also erupted the biggest load I’ve ever blown. Yep all inside my boxer shorts.
Just from licking her well fucked pussy after a black man had just used her like a flesh light lol


I did stay hard tho and slipped into her red hot slippery slick wet pussy before the second load came within a minute or 2 at the most

No problem here just the thought of her receiving BBC’s I’m harder than a risk steel girder lol and the time she actually got her pussy fucked on a drunken night out I get her home and just going down on her and feeling the burning red hot passion and her pussy was still open gaping and her pussy lips were all puffy and swollen a bit red/pink Then I started to get my tongue on her clit after slowly kissing her from her feet all way down her ankles calf’s and thighs
Soon as I hit her pussy with my tongue

She was moaning and lifting her ass and hips upwards into my mouth and holding the back of my head pulling me in as she started climaxing her toes curled
Her legs shaking
Her eyes rolling in her head crying & laughing mind blowing orgasm

Then the most embarrassing thing ever happens to me
Without any warning without even touching my cock. I also erupted the biggest load I’ve ever blown. Yep all inside my boxer shorts.
Just from licking her well fucked pussy after a black man had just used her like a flesh light lol


I did stay hard tho and slipped into her red hot slippery slick wet pussy before the second load came within a minute or 2 at the most